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SuicideFuel Am I the only loser here?

It is. With friends there are good times, when you spend a nice afternoon doing fun things. But eventually, things happen that hurts. Maybe they make an offhand comment about your looks, maybe they don't respect your opinions as much as the opinions of others. Maybe they say you're short, balding.

You are invited to a wedding, social gathering. In which all of your friends get along with women, sometimes even getting dates/sex/partners out of it. You're the only one who awkwardly tags along, always feeling inferior.

So, while i enjoy and am grateful for having friends, sometimes you feel so fucking bad that you want to blow your brains out. So it's a necessary evil in the sense that, without them, your mental health deteriorates. But the opposite is true as well.

When you're out with friends, you often see how much worse off you actually are. By no fault of your own. Discussing lookism here is one thing, actually seeing it happen in front of your eyes, by people you know and interact with it's one of the worst feelings ever.

There's another, very painful thing that may happen. You get hopeful that you'll get a girlfriend. Just to be rejected afterwards.
How did normies accept you as their friend? Most inkwels get treated like shit by normies , u are lucky u have them.
I had few incel friends growing up , but normies could saw i was autistic inkwel. If u are lucky they avoid u , if not u get bullied :feelsUgh: :cryfeels:
 
How did normies accept you as their friend? Most inkwels get treated like shit by normies , u are lucky u have them.
I had few incel friends growing up , but normies could saw i was autistic inkwel. If u are lucky they avoid u , if not u get bullied :feelsUgh: :cryfeels:
Observation. I always tried being friends with people similar to myself in some way or another. People also like you if they see themselves in you in some way, shape or form.

I'm not a normie, i don't like going out and i enjoy videogames. So i made friends with people who liked videogames. I can't befriend people who only like sports and go out every weekend. So i don't even try talking to those, as usually they won't befriend you.

It's a matter of correctly identifying which group you fall into. You won't ever be part of the popular, rich or cool boys. But you may be able to be friends with the gamer guys, or the skateboarding ones. I ended up befriending some normies due to work mostly, other than that i meet up with friends who share similar interests.

One thing that helped me be more social was watching Louis C.K, a stand up comedian. I remember back when i was in college i made a lot of friends by saying retarded shit, i'm sure i was some kind of jester but it made me socialice more that i ever would, was a nice learning experience.
 
Same bro. Im a complete loser too.
You know its a bad fucking day when you get a letter from the government about your neetbuxx fuck man why cant they leave me alone im getting kicked off 100%
 
You know its a bad fucking day when you get a letter from the government about your neetbuxx fuck man why cant they leave me alone im getting kicked off 100%
i hope you dont get kicked off brocel. is it disabilitybuxx or welfarebuxx?
 
I am in the same position as you. NEET. Dropped out of school. Never learned how to drive. etc.
 
i hope you dont get kicked off brocel. is it disabilitybuxx or welfarebuxx?
Welfare sadly the disabilitybux are impossible to get in the netherlands. Need to legit be missing arms and unable to form a sentence
 
Welfare sadly the disabilitybux are impossible to get in the netherlands. Need to legit be missing arms and unable to form a sentence
every other person is taking welfare money while working illegally, especially refugees while people who actually need the disability welfare don't get it. they really hate us
 
I have no life i just rot all day everyday
 
Having a job isn’t a flex compared to lucky ones who can neet with free money or have parents that support them. But if you have neither, I recommend looking for some easy job
I swear why do people keep saying that just because someone has a job or is studying that somehow he‘s not a loser? I wish I could just NEETmaxx but no I have to wageslave for the next 40 years
 
I swear why do people keep saying that just because someone has a job or is studying that somehow he‘s not a loser? I wish I could just NEETmaxx but no I have to wageslave for the next 40 years
Same, if anything you’re more of a winner for being able to neet instead of torturing yourself for a measly paycheck barely better than disability pay. And jfl my mother always gets mad as hell at me for suggesting that if things ever get too bad for me that I might try to get disability pay.

Like come on, I’m a sperg, have ocd, have chronic physical health problems, joint issues, and am an incel. It’s mind boggling nobody ever suggested I deserve disability pay. I think many of the users here who get disability pay are unironically more fit to work than me but they lucked out they had parents or a doctor that actually cared about them and didn’t want them to have to struggle
 
I swear why do people keep saying that just because someone has a job or is studying that somehow he‘s not a loser? I wish I could just NEETmaxx but no I have to wageslave for the next 40 years
you don't know what it's like
 
It just seems to me like every other usER here is a chadcel. Most people seem to be studying, or seem to have a job and a car or even their own place to live, or even have a social life and be NT. Am I the only losercel here who has always been a ND retarded weirdo since he was a child, who dropped out of school as a young teenager, does not have rich parents, no income, no future and has literally nothing in his life going for him? I literally failed to even get approved for disabilitybuxx, JFL. I struggle to even get out of bed most days due to depression, even typing this out is a huge fucking drag, my fingers get so tired.
im nd i just got back in to waging and can still lose my job if i dont keep attendance up. just work come home play vidia and rot
 
I swear why do people keep saying that just because someone has a job or is studying that somehow he‘s not a loser? I wish I could just NEETmaxx but no I have to wageslave for the next 40 years
how would you even have the energy for a job or studying without wanting to rope or collapse?
 
so many people are not losers simply because they bred or had teen sex as a teen. ITS NOT FAIR
 

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