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He wants to be pityed / loved .
Certainly seems that way. If he were truly interested in honest feedback, he most certainly would have replied to my questions/criticism.

I find it interesting that he didn't reply to my post (but replied to a bunch of other people). My criticism was pretty fair (and fairly mild, especially for this forum), and my questions were in good faith. I'm not even asking for any "proof" for his claims, I'm simply asking him to explain the logic that led him to that conclusion. For some reason he is unable or unwilling to do so.

I suspect that despite having a lot of conviction (he's explicitly and confidently asserted that cold approaching means you're not an incel multiple times) he hasn't really thought about it. He simply believes it because he wants it to be true or because it "feels" true to him. And he doesn't care to question his beliefs.

I've noticed a lot of people are like this, and I think the internet has made the problem (high conviction but no logic behind it) worse. People will hear something on tik tok or read a post and then just blindly believe it and parrot it. People who believe in things like free will, or pesudoscience like "manifestation" "abundance/scarcity mindset" or "karma" are almost always this way. Ask them to explain the logical thought process that led to these conclusions, and they will give you an answer that basically amounts to "I believe it because...I just do, OKAY?!" and sometimes they'll get outright hostile as if they've been personally attacked, because their belief is part of their identity (or they simply REALLY want it to be true).

I get not wanting to reply to some people who constantly say "SOURCE? DO YOU HAVE A SOURCE FOR THAT?!". Because those types are usually asking in bad faith. If you show them evidence, sources, studies, etc. they'll find some excuse to handwave it all away. "oh this study's sample size was only 1000 people" "this study is 10 years old!" and they'll just keep moving the goalpost. But if you can't answer a simple question of "WHY do you believe this, can you explain?"...then perhaps you should search within yourself for an answer. But most people won't do that, and will instead opt to double down and confidently repeat themselves without elaborating.
 
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Certainly seems that way. If he were truly interested in honest feedback, he most certainly would have replied to my questions/criticism.

I find it interesting that he didn't reply to my post (but replied to a bunch of other people). My criticism was pretty fair (and fairly mild, especially for this forum), and my questions were in good faith. I'm not even asking for any "proof" for his claims, I'm simply asking him to explain the logic that led him to that conclusion. For some reason he is unable or unwilling to do so.

I suspect that despite having a lot of conviction (he's explicitly and confidently asserted that cold approaching means you're not an incel multiple times) he hasn't really thought about it. He simply believes it because he wants it to be true or because it "feels" true to him. And he doesn't care to question his beliefs.

I've noticed a lot of people are like this, and I think the internet has made the problem (high conviction but no logic behind it) worse. People will hear something on tik tok or read a post and then just blindly believe it and parrot it. People who believe in things like free will, or pesudoscience like "manifestation" "abundance/scarcity mindset" or "karma" are almost always this way. Ask them to explain the logical thought process that led to these conclusions, and they will give you an answer that basically amounts to "I believe it because...I just do, OKAY?!" and sometimes they'll get outright hostile as if they've been personally attacked, because their belief is part of their identity (or they simply REALLY want it to be true).

I get not wanting to reply to some people who constantly say "SOURCE? DO YOU HAVE A SOURCE FOR THAT?!". Because those types are usually asking in bad faith. If you show them evidence, sources, studies, etc. they'll find some excuse to handwave it all away. "oh this study's sample size was only 1000 people" "this study is 10 years old!" and they'll just keep moving the goalpost. But if you can't answer a simple question of "WHY do you believe this, can you explain?"...then perhaps you should search within yourself for an answer. But most people won't do that, and will instead opt to double down and confidently repeat themselves without elaborating.
Thank u for that texto dude
 

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