Dude, life is totally unfair, it really is, and you have every reason to be upset about it. One of the things I hate about people who dismiss victim mindset is that they believe in radical accountability. Like if you are a rape victim, and you express pain, and feelings of victimhood over it you are failing to be accountable. To be honest it is a real garbage view. It is ok to feel sorry for yourself because life is unfair on so many levels. Just don't get stuck in a depressive rut. I can tell you from bitter life experience the time spent being ineffective due to being depressed is a complete waste. Realistically being incel or thinking that you are, and life in general will make you depressed from time to time. That much is unavoidable, but don't make it a norm.
You have something a lot of guys here don't. Youth, and time. I don't want to be TMI, but I'm a bit of an agecell. Life has screwed me over badly more than once. Anyways don't give up hope man, just get your life together at some point. Big pieces first. I honestly think for young people today it has never been worse or never been better. On the one hand the economy is largely service based, and the job market sucks. Most college degrees exist to give you a work permit, and loads of crippling debt. Unless you are in STEM or in the Ivy League. Of course there is the whole hypergamy, feminism, tinder mating economy, built on a non moral foundation to contend with. So yeah things suck bad. However on the other hand youtube, lynda, tons of online learning resources exist. You can find role models in the media, and books about them on amazon for a kindle. Imagine a personal library on a small ebook or ipad. You can listen to audiobooks while you lift at the gym or do whatever. The whole world of information is at your fingertips. Software is in a way asymmetric warfare. There are millions of problems that need to be solved, and many of them are viable pathways to money. Last week I met a super successful European guy who has an East Asian wife. Owns income properties, and had started a $150 M company that made back end software for a major industry. He just ground away with his business partner, and worked on a technical problem for a major service industry. He is not a chad or chad light, but he has a good life.
Anyways, I don't know if you are a person who is interested in business. Maybe you are not, but I do want to say there are lots of resources out there for people to learn from regarding things they are interested in that were plain hard to get 10, 20, 30 years ago. You have an unprecedented advantage compared to people who had to swim with the school of normie conformist fish their whole life. Nowadays people can pick their own paths, and be independent. You will have to because in the future many jobs will be automated.
The other thing I wanted to say is other than being able to read autobiographies of pretty much anyone who has succeeded before you, or being able to read cutting edge research or learn whatever you need to, is that the world is large. Some places are good for you, and other places are not. There are places where there is less prejudice, and there are places where women will be more receptive to you. One of the biggest mistakes I ever made was to go where the cost of living was cheap, but the people were generally narrow minded. Caused major life issues. Look up Enrico Moretti's the New Geography of Jobs I think it is called. It is an interesting read, but a key take away from it is (He is a legit economist from Italy working in the States), for me was waiters in Las Vegas can make more than lawyers in nowhere Kansas. Mobility, and information availability can be maximized to position yourself optimally. Perhaps you might consider a more suitable environment.
Another good read/listen is "Willpower Doesn't Work" by Benjamin P. Hardy. In a nutshell your environment sets you up for success or failure. If you don't want to be an alcoholic having a pantry full of alcohol is a bad idea. If you don't want to be a loser, don't hang around losers. You need a good controlled setting that is supporting, and enabling of your success, whatever that success will be. It may be difficult now, but one big step at a time, the most important thing first, fix your environment. Anyways, not trying to preach man, just wanted to tap you on the shoulder, and tell you there is still plenty of hope. Just a little reframe of perspective. Don't let your snapshot in time or the snapshot in time of the fags on easy life mode fool you into thinking it's over. Cause it's not bro. Take a breath, cope away from the video game, and then find a place to chill, and figure out what you want, and what you ought to do to get it. One other thing that comes to mind is you may not get what you want as soon as you want it. Some people are born in awful countries as orphans, and claw their way to illegal status elsehere. Other losers like George W. Bush are born two feet from home base. Life is unfair, but plenty of people have made life work for them over a lifetime or even less of hard work. It is what it is, but there is a way out.