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Serious All women are the same - and 'She' is no exception

Justanotherbloke

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Just passing by to say that the assertion that 'All Women Are The Same' (AWALT) is a sociobiological inevitability. Their behavior follows predictable patterns because it is rooted in evolutionary hardwiring, not individual whim.

-Hypergamy:
Is not a choice but an instinctual imperative. Women are neurologically optimized to seek the highest SMV available, and their attraction is conditional, fluid, and subject to market forces. Hence I always laugh when I still see guys trying so hard, literally going out their way to jump through hoops, perform etc not knowing that they'll be tossed to the side of the road 5 months /1 year/2 years later. (She is not yours, it's just your turn).
-Solipsism:
Ensures that their decision making is fundamentally self-referential. Her perception of morality, fairness, and loyalty is filtered through her own subjective experience, not abstract principles.
-Dual 'partner' Strategy:
The simultaneous pursuit of multiple men. It is their default reproductive algorithm, observable in both modern dating markets and historical polygamous structures.
And that's also one of the reasons why I gave up before even starting, I looked at the entire 'structure' and said to myself that it's simply not worth the effort. There will always be multiple men in the picture, she will always have backup options because of that strategy and she'll always have lots of simps / orbiters / men etc in her inbox, willing to buy her gifts, simp and whatnot.
Matter of fact here is a literal quotation of my exact words in another thread:

Because they (the average man) knows that women nowadays have endless options, constantly men in their inbox and always have backup options. Welcome to the internet era.
In other words, the risk/reward is low and you'd be a fool to commit, an absolute idiot to give your full 100% and go all in.
They simply realize that you as a man are way too replaceable, she is probably talking to multiple other men / entertaining other men, and the average man knows about this information, cause they are not stupid, they caught up with what's going on.

Maybe 100 years ago relationships were relatively safe, not anymore nowadays.

this is not something called 'commitment issues', this is being logical, and I have the same mindset. Hence I decided that it's the best option to not even bother, not even try, cause it's literally pointless. You could be handsome, but even handsome men have issues due to this, what I just mentioned. The next man is only 1 swipe away. It's better to mind my own business, make the best of my 20s and delete myself in my 30s.

The 'exceptions' here are statistical outliers, not refutations.
The Myth of Female Uniqueness & the Copium of 'This One Is Different'
Every man, at some point, falls prey to the delusion that 'his' chosen woman defies nature. This is a failure of Bayesian reasoning.
Let me explain it in simple words:

'The 'Good Girl' Mirage: The chaste, modest, or seemingly loyal woman is not an exception, she is a tactical variation. Her behavior is either:
1).
A short-term mating strategy (virginity as a bargaining chip for long term investment).
2). A function of limited opportunity (the wall comes for all women, and desperation breeds temporary virtue).
3). The Hive Mind Effect, Women are socially synchronized. Their beliefs, desires, and behaviors are not independently derived but collectively reinforced through social proof.
This explains:
-The rapid spread of feminist dogma.
-The uniformity of dating app behavior (e.g., 'I love travel' > 'My standards are non-negotiable').
-The sudden, mass abandonment of beta males once women hit their late 20s and realize hypergamy has an expiration date.

My conclusion here is, that the woman you believe is 'different' is simply running the same program with a different interface.
Just another disloyal whore / Jezebel slut (if you believe in God).


Another important point I want to mention is the Body Count Deception:
Female Sexual History Is Always Worse Than Disclosed.
The modern sexual marketplace ensures that even the most 'conservative' women accumulate partners at rates that would have been unthinkable in pre-industrial societies.
The average woman you cross paths woth every day, has the body count of an ancient prostitute, and in today's degenerate society it's deemed normal.

We all know about the 80/20 rule on this forum, this means that even average women have rotated through multiple sexual partners before settling with their simp suck husband. The 'low body count' claim is statistically improbable without extreme religious or cultural enforcement.
Also people fail to take into consideration something called the Underreporting Bias. Studies confirm that women systematically undercount sexual partners, while men overcount. In other words, her stated number is a floor, not a ceiling.
The 'innocence' narrative is nothing but a strategic deception, designed to secure commitment from high-
trust males (I call them simps).
Implication here is that If you are dating a woman over 25 in the West, assume that her sexual history is in the double digits. If she claims otherwise, she is either lying or an extreme outlier who is probably under the purest form of Sharia law, in the middle of nowhere with no internet connection and completely cut off from dense population.


For the religious ones on the forum, even though I am not religious anymore myself, what about the Demonology
of female nature: Lilith, Jezebel, and the Eternal Feminine?
Even secular observers must acknowledge that mythology encodes deep truths about human nature.
-Lilith: the first wife of Adam who refused submission symbolizes female sexual agency unrestrained by male control.
-Jezebel: the manipulative queen who weaponized sex and social power represents the dark triad feminine which includes narcissism, machiavellianism and exploitative 'charm'.

These are not ancient superstitions but eternal behavioral archetypes. The modern 'liberated' woman does not transcend these patterns, she literally embodies them more fully than ever before in 2025.

The rational response would detachment, understanding that their nature is not fixable.
I myself through disciplined observation across multiple case studies, including my own initial hopes of discovering exceptions discovered something that reveals a consistent recurring pattern. Even when controlling for variables like education level, cultural background, or professed values, the fundamental behavioral algorithm remains invariant.
This is not anecdotal frustration but reproducible social physics.
Observed pattern:
Initial presentation of uniqueness (the 'special snowflake' phase) > Gradual emergence of hypergamous tells (increased orbiters, shifting standards) > Eventual confirmation of baseline AWALT parameters


I've documented this sequence with metronomic regularity, we have all seen it before:
-The woman who claimed to 'hate modern dating' but kept ex-lovers in her phone, has tons of simp orbiters,
-The 'old-fashioned' girl whose 'body count just happened to be 8 by the age of 22.

Each data point reinforces the model's predictive validity.
The conclusion is inescapable: when every apparent exception ultimately converges with the mean, we're not observing outliers anymore, we're identifying the true population parameters. This is why pattern recognition separates the intellectually honest from the wishful thinkers.
 
Good post, bump
 
The hardest is probably when you realize your mother is also the same as every other hole.
 
Great read man. You are very well spoken.

Sadly words such as these will fall on deaf ears.

There is no normal future anymore. I'm not sure there ever was. Down to the humans biological program, all of us are just animals.

Our primitive desires come from something much the same.

All that's left is to ponder on what to do next. In an age where we are transcending what it means to be human.
 
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The hardest is probably when you realize your mother is also the same as every other hole.
I have told myself, that I will probably end my life in my 30's, or if both my parents have passed away.
Preferably waiting until they are gone.
As for your comment, awalt does not care about borders, religion and whatnot.
I think it's one of the toughest pill to swallow
 
Great read man. You are very well spoken.

Sadly words such as these will fall on deaf ears.

There is no normal future anymore. I'm not sure there ever was. Down to the humans biological program, all of us are just animals.

Our primitive desires come from something much the same.

All that's left is to ponder on what to do next. In an age where we are transcending what it means to be human.
Yes but where I’d refine that point is in acknowledging that the sameness you describe isn’t accidental. it’s the product of convergent evolutionary pressures. Across time, geography, and culture, their behavior has followed the same narrow parameters because those parameters were the most effective for survival. Variation exists only on the surface, the algorithm underneath is uniform. What changes isn’t female nature, but the environment in which it operates. Industrialization, urbanization, and digital communication have removed historical constraints, family honor, economic dependency, social stigma etc that once forced those instincts into long-term, socially stabilizing channels. Freed from those constraints, the core strategy reveals itself more plainly. Select for dominance, provisioning potential, and social proof, with fidelity existing only as long as conditions remain optimal.
The tragedy isn’t that this has happened but it’s that it was always happening. Civilization was just a temporary theater where we pretended the script was different.

I'm just sick of this world, this world is not really for me, it seems as if all women are literally the same disloyal whores always with multiple men, backup options, talking to multiple others just in case they have other men/simps throwing themselves at them for a relationship, as soon as the main Relationship fails. I think I've read somewhere that over 50% of women keep multiple men in their vicinity, even if they are in a relationship. They will never be able to fool me, I see right through it. Thats why i said, that I am not able to handle relationships and probably never will. I would be in constant high alert, stress etc, and thats not how I want to live. People here dont understand that our way of thinking and the mindset we have is way deeper than only surface level..... we should always think 5 steps ahead. How are you able to maintain a relationship in todays internet era, where women have hundreds of men throwing themselves at them on a consistent basis? The answer: You Can't.
Not in today's world with the internet.
I am way too informed thanks to people on the Forum here, studies and the stories of other men.
This alone was enough for me, to not even Try and walk the other way.
It seems as if relationships are only reserved for the simps nowadays.
I can't believe that I was right all along.... everything that I predicted turned out to be True.
And people look weird when I say, that it's better to not even Try.
 
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Yes but where I’d refine that point is in acknowledging that the sameness you describe isn’t accidental. it’s the product of convergent evolutionary pressures. Across time, geography, and culture, their behavior has followed the same narrow parameters because those parameters were the most effective for survival. Variation exists only on the surface, the algorithm underneath is uniform. What changes isn’t female nature, but the environment in which it operates. Industrialization, urbanization, and digital communication have removed historical constraints, family honor, economic dependency, social stigma etc that once forced those instincts into long-term, socially stabilizing channels. Freed from those constraints, the core strategy reveals itself more plainly. Select for dominance, provisioning potential, and social proof, with fidelity existing only as long as conditions remain optimal.
The tragedy isn’t that this has happened but it’s that it was always happening. Civilization was just a temporary theater where we pretended the script was different.

I'm just sick of this world, this world is not really for me, it seems as if all women are literally the same disloyal whores always with multiple men, backup options, talking to multiple others just in case they have other men/simps throwing themselves at them for a relationship, as soon as the main Relationship fails. I think I've read somewhere that over 50% of women keep multiple men in their vicinity, even if they are in a relationship. They will never be able to fool me, I see right through it. Thats why i said, that I am not able to handle relationships and probably never will. I would be in constant high alert, stress etc, and thats not how I want to live. People here dont understand that our way of thinking and the mindset we have is way deeper than only surface level..... we should always think 5 steps ahead. How are you able to maintain a relationship in todays internet era, where women have hundreds of men throwing themselves at them on a consistent basis? The answer: You Can't.
I am way too informed thanks to people on the Forum here, studies and the stories of other men.
This alone was enough for me, to not even Try and walk the other way.
It seems as if relationships are only reserved for the simps nowadays.
I can't believe that I was right all along.... everything that I predicted turned out to be True.
And people look weird when I say, that it's better to not even Try.
Better to walk away in the long run. Women are a liability and a distraction.

Gives us more time to think about how we can escape this when we die. Hopefully never come back.

Detachment from everything. There is something spiritual in that.
 
AWALT is Law.
 
High effort poster
 
AWALT was always true and will always be true
 
Better to walk away in the long run. Women are a liability and a distraction.

Gives us more time to think about how we can escape this when we die. Hopefully never come back.

Detachment from everything. There is something spiritual in that.
Same here, Even though I'm fairly young (23), I fantasize about death nearly every evening. Sometimes I wish that I would never wake up from my sleep.

I can't see myself living like this in my 30s with this mindset and amount of knowledge.
Best move for me is to just make the best of it in my 20s, keep working out and Running daily to keep short term mental health intact and not drive myself insane and have some form of relief, after that just wait till my parents are gone, and then take myself out.
 
AWALT was always true and will always be true
I think it's the toughest pill to swallow, a very bitter one.
High effort poster
I use this forum to talk about what's on my mind, that I can't talk about in other spaces.
I've been permanently banned from YouTube, completely gone from social media (Never wanted that garbage in the first place and only ever had facebook, nothing else), so this forum is literally all i am left with including Telegram for stuff that I truly need and adds value to my life and WhatsApp but thats it.
AWALT is Law.
:yes:
 
Are women with mental illnesses subject to this?
 
Admins changed my username and profile picture, for the ones who don't know: I am Justanotherbloke.
Just passing by to say that the assertion that 'All Women Are The Same' (AWALT) is a sociobiological inevitability. Their behavior follows predictable patterns because it is rooted in evolutionary hardwiring, not individual whim.

-Hypergamy:
Is not a choice but an instinctual imperative. Women are neurologically optimized to seek the highest SMV available, and their attraction is conditional, fluid, and subject to market forces. Hence I always laugh when I still see guys trying so hard, literally going out their way to jump through hoops, perform etc not knowing that they'll be tossed to the side of the road 5 months /1 year/2 years later. (She is not yours, it's just your turn).
-Solipsism:
Ensures that their decision making is fundamentally self-referential. Her perception of morality, fairness, and loyalty is filtered through her own subjective experience, not abstract principles.
-Dual 'partner' Strategy:
The simultaneous pursuit of multiple men. It is their default reproductive algorithm, observable in both modern dating markets and historical polygamous structures.
And that's also one of the reasons why I gave up before even starting, I looked at the entire 'structure' and said to myself that it's simply not worth the effort. There will always be multiple men in the picture, she will always have backup options because of that strategy and she'll always have lots of simps / orbiters / men etc in her inbox, willing to buy her gifts, simp and whatnot.
Matter of fact here is a literal quotation of my exact words in another thread:



The 'exceptions' here are statistical outliers, not refutations.
The Myth of Female Uniqueness & the Copium of 'This One Is Different'
Every man, at some point, falls prey to the delusion that 'his' chosen woman defies nature. This is a failure of Bayesian reasoning.
Let me explain it in simple words:

'The 'Good Girl' Mirage: The chaste, modest, or seemingly loyal woman is not an exception, she is a tactical variation. Her behavior is either:
1).
A short-term mating strategy (virginity as a bargaining chip for long term investment).
2). A function of limited opportunity (the wall comes for all women, and desperation breeds temporary virtue).
3). The Hive Mind Effect, Women are socially synchronized. Their beliefs, desires, and behaviors are not independently derived but collectively reinforced through social proof.
This explains:
-The rapid spread of feminist dogma.
-The uniformity of dating app behavior (e.g., 'I love travel' > 'My standards are non-negotiable').
-The sudden, mass abandonment of beta males once women hit their late 20s and realize hypergamy has an expiration date.

My conclusion here is, that the woman you believe is 'different' is simply running the same program with a different interface.
Just another disloyal whore / Jezebel slut (if you believe in God).


Another important point I want to mention is the Body Count Deception:
Female Sexual History Is Always Worse Than Disclosed.
The modern sexual marketplace ensures that even the most 'conservative' women accumulate partners at rates that would have been unthinkable in pre-industrial societies.
The average woman you cross paths woth every day, has the body count of an ancient prostitute, and in today's degenerate society it's deemed normal.

We all know about the 80/20 rule on this forum, this means that even average women have rotated through multiple sexual partners before settling with their simp suck husband. The 'low body count' claim is statistically improbable without extreme religious or cultural enforcement.
Also people fail to take into consideration something called the Underreporting Bias. Studies confirm that women systematically undercount sexual partners, while men overcount. In other words, her stated number is a floor, not a ceiling.
The 'innocence' narrative is nothing but a strategic deception, designed to secure commitment from high-
trust males (I call them simps).
Implication here is that If you are dating a woman over 25 in the West, assume that her sexual history is in the double digits. If she claims otherwise, she is either lying or an extreme outlier who is probably under the purest form of Sharia law, in the middle of nowhere with no internet connection and completely cut off from dense population.


For the religious ones on the forum, even though I am not religious anymore myself, what about the Demonology
of female nature: Lilith, Jezebel, and the Eternal Feminine?
Even secular observers must acknowledge that mythology encodes deep truths about human nature.
-Lilith: the first wife of Adam who refused submission symbolizes female sexual agency unrestrained by male control.
-Jezebel: the manipulative queen who weaponized sex and social power represents the dark triad feminine which includes narcissism, machiavellianism and exploitative 'charm'.

These are not ancient superstitions but eternal behavioral archetypes. The modern 'liberated' woman does not transcend these patterns, she literally embodies them more fully than ever before in 2025.

The rational response would detachment, understanding that their nature is not fixable.
I myself through disciplined observation across multiple case studies, including my own initial hopes of discovering exceptions discovered something that reveals a consistent recurring pattern. Even when controlling for variables like education level, cultural background, or professed values, the fundamental behavioral algorithm remains invariant.
This is not anecdotal frustration but reproducible social physics.
Observed pattern:
Initial presentation of uniqueness (the 'special snowflake' phase) > Gradual emergence of hypergamous tells (increased orbiters, shifting standards) > Eventual confirmation of baseline AWALT parameters


I've documented this sequence with metronomic regularity, we have all seen it before:
-The woman who claimed to 'hate modern dating' but kept ex-lovers in her phone, has tons of simp orbiters,
-The 'old-fashioned' girl whose 'body count just happened to be 8 by the age of 22.

Each data point reinforces the model's predictive validity.
The conclusion is inescapable: when every apparent exception ultimately converges with the mean, we're not observing outliers anymore, we're identifying the true population parameters. This is why pattern recognition separates the intellectually honest from the wishful thinkers.
Should be water for people on here but isnt
 

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