We just don't have it in us, as males, to hate women. This forum is a support group where we have to remind ourselves what they are and call a spade a spade in how we're treated. You have to religiously adhere to these views or they will slip away. Our nature is unalterable. We like women and want to be around then and be treated with respect and attractive. That's axiomatic. It will never go away. And so we come here to refresh our defenses, to defeat or nature.
Never believe in a woman. Your mother has her genetic future tied up with you so that's different. If you're not actively supplying them with resources, they can't perceive you at best, and hate you at worst, and if you are providing then with resources they can't get elsewhere, then you're just their employer, and they will trade up or leave the moment that's over.
The only men who will her treated decently by women are Chad.