all the fucking normies got their GFs and wifus from social circle and money game - if you don't do that in college and shit, you can never recover -

[uninstall]

THIS IS A VERY IMPORTANT POST

here's the deal fellas

Today, the day was going ok. I did a lot of work at home and then went for a ride - the weather was perfect.

I passed through some unknown park or something like a park and I saw a GUY from HIGH SCHOOL who used to be in my class. We never got along cause he is a MASSIVE back stabber.

HE WAS WITH HIS WIFE AND 8-MONTH OLD DAUGHTER

WHILE I WAS ALONE

SO HE STARTED THE USUAL TALK FOR PEOPLE WHO HAVEN'T SEEN EACH OTHER IN A WHILE -

what's up, what do you work...etc.

his wife was with sunglasses and I didn't get a good look at her but it does not matter - she appeared to be a normie - 4,5,6 whatever

After this meeting i felt internal pain. It wasn't jealousy. it was sadness. I went to a bench nearby and just lied there for a while with tears on my eyes

All those dates, appraoches, women's pictures started passing before my eyes. I said to myself - why? Why at least 1 couldn't be with me for a while

Then I asked myself what does this man have on me - he has a very nasty personality that I personally do not match with. He ISN'T a chad by any means. He is somewhat rich, though.

Then I looked back. All the people that I knew in high school that are not married with kids, secured those bitches YEARS AGO.

THEY DIDN'T PASS THROUGH THE MEAT GRINDER.

THEY DIDN'T SPEND THEIR EVENING LIKE ME - APPROACHING, SWIPING ON TINDER, GOING TO DATES ONLY TO BE HUMILIATED, GHOSTED, INSULTED, LABELED AS CREEP

This is what really hurt me. That I swam through an ocean and yet it does not matter

It doesn't matter that most of those men cannot what I did

That they didn't sacrifice as much as me or other people on this forum and outisde.

They secureD love and shit through their social circle YEARS ago when tinder didn't exist and social media was not as extreme.

IF THOSE MEN ARE IN MY POSITION AND HAVEN'T SECURED A BITCH, THEY WOULD STRUGGLE JUST LIKE I DO.

MAKE NO MISTAKE ABOUT IT. THEY ARE NOT BETTER THAN ME IN TERMS OF PERSONALITY OF WHATEVER.

THEY ARE NOT MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN ME EITHER.

YET THEY ARE HAPPY WHILE I SUFFER AND CRY

I DON'T KNOW WHAT ELSE TO SAY

 

[Deleted member 15752]

Pretty much. Normies always have a social circle from school, work etc etc and they always get some 10th hand pussy just because they are known in that group for years and years on end. What are we supposed to fucking do if we are so secluded? just be more out there br0?

 

[uninstall]

Pretty much. Normies always have a social circle from school, work etc etc and they always get some 10th hand pussy just because they are known in that group for years and years on end. What are we supposed to fucking do if we are so secluded? just be more out there br0?

if a male drops out of the society, recovery is borderline impossible

if a woman drops (a highly unlikely scenario), she can easily recover cause the cucks will welcome her

making friends after college and school is basically impossible PHYSICALLY

 

[Deleted member 15752]

if a male drops out of the society, recovery is borderline impossible

if a woman drops (a highly unlikely scenario), she can easily recover cause the cucks will welcome her

making friends after college and school is basically impossible PHYSICALLY

Exactly dude. There is just too many "inside jokes" and other normfag bullshit inside social circles throughout the years that makes it impossible to blend in and be part of the team. If you lose all friends you will most likely end up having no social group for a loooooong fucking time.. if not forever.

 

[ManletHalfCurry]

if a male drops out of the society, recovery is borderline impossible

This is a brutal truth

 

[uninstall]

Exactly dude. There is just too many "inside jokes" and other normfag bullshit inside social circles throughout the years that makes it impossible to blend in and be part of the team. If you lose all friends you will most likely end up having no social group for a loooooong fucking time.. if not forever.

people need to have your back up story to be your friends

also, once you are out of those circles, THEY NEED YOUR VALUE.

meaning, just like women demand, YOU HAVE BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE.

they will not be your friends out of the goodness of your heart

that ship sailed

This is a brutal truth

it is

rebuilding your social circles i very difficult

i don't know how to do it

i can't stand people and I cannot blend in

 

[Deleted member 6470]

Is he the same asshole that used to bully you?

 

[uninstall]

Is he the same asshole that used to bully you?

no, that's another one

I met the other one last summer

this one didn't bully me

he is simply a back stabber who wants to have it all

 

[Deleted member 15752]

people need to have your back up story to be your friends

also, once you are out of those circles, THEY NEED YOUR VALUE.

meaning, just like women demand, YOU HAVE BRING SOMETHING TO THE TABLE.

they will not be your friends out of the goodness of your heart

that ship sailed

Who would let a random fuck be part of their social circle because they feel sorry for him? Lmao its mostly virtue signaling for the most part. You almost certainly all the time have to bring something that they are missing. And in most cases social circle are very tight bonds between friends that they dont feel the need for other randoms to join and be part of them, since they have already built up the trust with their friends over the years that they have known each other. Lmao you think they gonna have some random for another 5 years to be part of the team? Never.

 

[Hate_my_life]

How to get a social circle? Never had one.

 

[Deleted member 6470]

How to get a social circle? Never had one.

You don't get one. It happens naturally. If you're good looking enough, they would let you in.

 

[RopeMaXXer]

THEY DIDN'T PASS THROUGH THE MEAT GRINDER.

Social circle pill is legit. Shortly before Christmas I made a post in similar vein. Once you fall out of normie circles you're literally going through meat-grinder. If you're not good looking on top its a Lovecraftian horror.
Don't matter though, none of this matters. I made attempts to make friends in bar and succeeded. All I got for it was wasted evenings I could've spent doing something worthwhile and I had to share table with fat women.
The guy I made friends with is a bro tho.

 

[Blacktarpill]

That was my bluepill back in the day...

 

[SkinnyBaldcel]

I wish that I could try the 1000 approaches like you did because if that doesnt work then I can LDAR in peace knowing that I tried but no I am a pussy... I probably wont get sad and have the feelings you had in the OP because I could focus on my copes

 

[Deleted member 15737]

I have no idea how to make friends, I’ve tried and tried. Even if I get invited to some event, I end up being the the loser that’s standing all by himself drinking. Most events are people that have known each other for years talking about their normie shit that I don’t give a shit about.

I haven’t watched a movie, tv show, listened to modern music, know any celebrity rumors or anything that normies enjoy talking about.

I love history, radical politics, anime, conspiracy theories and the black pill. Talking about inter-dimensional aliens and how much the (((Elite))) are fucking us isn’t popular party talk and doesn’t win you any friends.

 

[Cuyen]

How to get a social circle? Never had one.

Just be chad bro ! it is that easy bro!

 

[Blacktarpill]

Just be chad bro ! it is that easy bro!

Mentalcel
Diagnosed OCD
Looks accurate

 

[Izayacel]

there we can see that hard works equals success means dogshit , you did over 1k approaches , did all the pua stuff and still failed

your either a gene superior
a status / money boy

or a fucking nothing

 

[Cuyen]

Mentalcel
Diagnosed OCD
Looks accurate

has it ever began?

 

[RopeMaXXer]

Just be chad bro ! it is that easy bro!

I like OPs post because it paints reality as is. It's not like the asshole ended up with female model despite not being good looking, and it wasn't like he had his comeuppance. He leads a normal life because he's a normie.
"Just be Chad" works everytime, yet he wasn't and that's the lesson here.
St. Uninstall really is wasted on you people

 

[Teutonic Knight]

Social circles alone don't mean shit. I was part of a huge social circle of like 20+ close male friends and I was like a brother to some of those guys. They were mostly people who I knew from training boxing and MMA (I'm an mmacel who gymmaxxed). Some of them were football hooligans and were totally lowinhib and knew people from all over the city, they were very social and outgoing. Some of them were also Chads and Chad-lites and most were high-tier normies.

We went to parties every week and we would meet women all the time as there were some Chads/Chadlites in our circle who would attract them. The thing is, those women would only want the Chads and Chad-lites from the group. Nearly everyone in the group mogged me so I ended up alone all the time. The friends would introduce me to their girlfriend's friends and things like that, but those didn't show any interest in me. I stopped hanging out with these people when I moved to some other city and I actually thought I would have better chances alone without being constantly mogged by my friends.

 

[Insomniac]

tfw too much of a sperg to get a social circle

 

[Deleted member 12355]

this is why I'm looksmaxxing for next year when I start doing my engineering course. No more sitting inside and studying from home. I'm gonna give the social life a genuine try, and if it doesn't work then I guess I'm destined for rotting

 

[MarriedAndLookin4Fun]

Honestly never experiencing teenage love and friendship will scar you for life tbh. Just a friendly reminder that 16yo kids are smoking weed, going to parties, having fun and fucking girls while we were rotting in our rooms, and continue to do so

It's over for the overwhelming majority of us

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

It's over

 

[Izayacel]

tfw too much of a sperg to get a social circle

 

[Cuyen]

I like OPs post because it paints reality as is. It's not like the asshole ended up with female model despite not being good looking, and it wasn't like he had his comeuppance. He leads a normal life because he's a normie.
"Just be Chad" works everytime, yet he wasn't and that's the lesson here.
St. Uninstall really is wasted on you people

Honestly he made me lose my all hope even though i wasnt one that approached hundred women. he is walking blackpill

 

[uninstall]

Who would let a random fuck be part of their social circle because they feel sorry for him? Lmao its mostly virtue signaling for the most part. You almost certainly all the time have to bring something that they are missing. And in most cases social circle are very tight bonds between friends that they dont feel the need for other randoms to join and be part of them, since they have already built up the trust with their friends over the years that they have known each other. Lmao you think they gonna have some random for another 5 years to be part of the team? Never.

last summer I exchanged FB with a guy who had the same bike as me on the street

he said - let's ride some time - never hit me up

I hit him up 1 month ago - the dude isn't even riding anymore

he was the once who suggested the exchange

once you are old, and out of those circles, everything becomes transactional

AND YOU HAVE NO CHOICE BUT TO GO THROUGH THE MEAT GRINDER

AND I CAN ASSURE THAT THOSE NORMIES THAT GOT IT THIS WAY, DIDN'T PLAN IT

THEY WERE JUST WIRED IN AN NT WAY AND THERE'S THAT

Social circles alone don't mean shit. I was part of a huge social circle of like 20+ close male friends and I was like a brother to some of those guys. They were mostly people who I knew from training boxing and MMA (I'm an mmacel who gymmaxxed). Some of them were football hooligans and were totally lowinhib and knew people from all over the city, they were very social and outgoing. Some of them were also Chads and Chad-lites and most were high-tier normies.

We went to parties every week and we would meet women all the time as there were some Chads/Chadlites in our circle who would attract them. The thing is, those women would only want the Chads and Chad-lites from the group. Nearly everyone in the group mogged me so I ended up alone all the time. The friends would introduce me to their girlfriend's friends and things like that, but those didn't show any interest in me. I stopped hanging out with these people when I moved to some other city and I actually thought I would have better chances alone without being constantly mogged by my friends.

it's best if you social circle consists of equals

being the loser of the group leads to similar results

it's actually better if you mog your social circle because that way you get all the honey

there we can see that hard works equals success means dogshit , you did over 1k approaches , did all the pua stuff and still failed

your either a gene superior
a status / money boy

or a fucking nothing

this is what makes me insanely sad

 

[Teutonic Knight]

it's best if you social circle consists of equals

being the loser of the group leads to similar results

it's actually better if you mog your social circle because that way you get all the honey

We were equals in our own eyes as we didn't give a shit about looks. Unfortunately, the women do and picked only the good looking ones.

If you're an incel and mog people in your social circles then women just won't approach your group of friends at all.

 

[ihaveno1]

i guess i can never recover then, it's fucking over

 

[uninstall]

We were equals in our own eyes as we didn't give a shit about looks. Unfortunately, the women do and picked only the good looking ones.

If you're an incel and mog people in your social circles then women just won't approach your group of friends at all.

there's no equal

all those male groups are dishonest

people spy on each other and want to be ahead

if they were your real friends, they would have helped you

 

[Teutonic Knight]

there's no equal

all those male groups are dishonest

people spy on each other and want to be ahead

if they were your real friends, they would have helped you

They did help me. They can't force women to like me though.

 

[Izayacel]

i guess i can never recover then, it's fucking over

 

[Justdone]

@uninstall would you go monk mode?

 

[uninstall]

@uninstall would you go monk mode?

i don't plan to

but I may need it

 

[acnescarcel]

lol wifus

 

[uninstall]

I AM 100% CONVINCED THAT THIS IS THE HEALTHIEST AND MOST REALISTIC WAY TO GET A WOMAN WORTH SHIT - EVEN IF YOU ARE A CHAD

OFC AS A CHAD YOU HAVE 1000000 MILLIONS SAVING NETS AND ITS OK TO FUCK UP

BUT IF YOU FUCK UP AS A MALE WHO IS SUB 8

GOOD LUCK REGAINING YOUR BALANCE

 

[Murdoch89]

if a male drops out of the society, recovery is borderline impossible

if a woman drops (a highly unlikely scenario), she can easily recover cause the cucks will welcome her

making friends after college and school is basically impossible PHYSICALLY

Brilliant way of putting it high iq

 

[GeneticFilth]

Cope. I had a social circle and it just consisted of ugly girls asking my 4/10 friends that were their boyfriends why they hang out with me because of how ugly I am. Anything works as long as you aren't ugly and nothing works if you are ugly.

 

[Michael15651]

The ones who do bad always have it good in the end.

 

[Hate_my_life]

Just be chad bro ! it is that easy bro!

You don't get one. It happens naturally. If you're good looking enough, they would let you in.

So basically I'll never get one because of my genetics FUCKKKKKKKKKKKKKK

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

I AM 100% CONVINCED THAT THIS IS THE HEALTHIEST AND MOST REALISTIC WAY TO GET A WOMAN WORTH SHIT - EVEN IF YOU ARE A CHAD

OFC AS A CHAD YOU HAVE 1000000 MILLIONS SAVING NETS AND ITS OK TO FUCK UP

BUT IF YOU FUCK UP AS A MALE WHO IS SUB 8

GOOD LUCK REGAINING YOUR BALANCE

it's so over, my dude.

even before I lost touch with my school and neighborhood circles it was total shit, nobody knew any decent girls, they were all in other circles that were hard to break into, I still remember getting roasted hard when I tried to break into a cooler circle where there were girls.

now I have the same experience as you, even if I befriend someone and get their number they never want to hang out, like I'm trying to date them or something. and when i do get a follow-up with people they immediately treat me like shit and like a hanger-on, it's easier to talk to strangers than it is to them.

the big problem is that EVERYONE just completely checked out of the socialization of younger people, in our generation and later. they left it all to whatever dipshits lead gangs of teenagers and left them with all the power to determine whether you live or die socially.

there is NO way left for you to be introduced to a female outside of that, so none of your qualities or achievements matter, you're not gonna have an older relative spread the word around or even introduce you to some girl because you're a "good man" for being a smart hard-working guy with a good job or whatever, that shit's not gonna happen anymore, either some 17 year old dipshit thinks you're funny and cool, or you go jack off in a dark room for the rest of your life.

 

[CaptainCuck]

High IQ thread.

Social circle game is the way the vast majority of people get laid/find relationships.

However, the key is to not be the loser of the group. The loser gets nothing but shat on by friends and girls alike and is better off not being in the group in the first place.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

How to get a social circle? Never had one.

 

[turbocuckcel_7000]

High IQ thread.

Social circle game is the way the vast majority of people get laid/find relationships.

However, the key is to not be the loser of the group. The loser gets nothing but shat on by friends and girls alike and is better off not being in the group in the first place.

high iq, many incels instinctively perceive this and don't invest too much in their social circles, then get blamed for a natural reaction.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

I lost all my friends one by one over the years because they all eventually got relationships because they were taller and better looking than me, and their girlfriends/wives didn't want the single incel hanging around. Hoes before bros.

"Friendships" are just as cold, shallow, and materialistic as business relationships. No one would have a business relationship with someone who brought nothing of value to the table. The same goes for friendships, but mainstream society is in complete denial about this basic fact. The vast majority of normies are nothing more than self-righteous, phony, virtue signaling hypocrites who are desperate to convince the world - and themselves - that they are "good people." I don't expect people to make friends with lonely incels out of pity, but I do expect them to admit that no, they're not good, righteous, moral people; they're just looking out for their self-interest like any other face in the crowd.

 

[LastGerman]

What are we supposed to fucking do if we are so secluded? just be more out there br0?

There is nothing you can do. It is rigged from the very beginning. There are winners, because there is someone out there who will lose.

I love history, radical politics, anime, conspiracy theories and the black pill. Talking about inter-dimensional aliens and how much the (((Elite))) are fucking us isn’t popular party talk and doesn’t win you any friends.

I like those kind of topics as well, so we can be friends.

I stopped hanging out with these people when I moved to some other city

And let me guess, they never contacted you right?

 

[owly]

foids and their stupid rules and parties.

 

[Brahcel]

if a male drops out of the society, recovery is borderline impossible

if a woman drops (a highly unlikely scenario), she can easily recover cause the cucks will welcome her

making friends after college and school is basically impossible PHYSICALLY

Great post op but making friends is not hat hard......but most people suck and are more of a liability. I enjoy being here with u guys then nigging it up on the streets where i could get shot.

Exactly dude. There is just too many "inside jokes" and other normfag bullshit inside social circles throughout the years that makes it impossible to blend in and be part of the team. If you lose all friends you will most likely end up having no social group for a loooooong fucking time.. if not forever.

Exactly dude. There is just too many "inside jokes" and other normfag bullshit inside social circles throughout the years that makes it impossible to blend in and be part of the team. If you lose all friends you will most likely end up having no social group for a loooooong fucking time.. if not forever.

no, that's another one

I met the other one last summer

this one didn't bully me

he is simply a back stabber who wants to have it all

how was the bullying living

Plus this dude was probably just a betabux after she rode the carousal. She settled

I have no idea how to make friends, I’ve tried and tried. Even if I get invited to some event, I end up being the the loser that’s standing all by himself drinking. Most events are people that have known each other for years talking about their normie shit that I don’t give a shit about.

I haven’t watched a movie, tv show, listened to modern music, know any celebrity rumors or anything that normies enjoy talking about.

I love history, radical politics, anime, conspiracy theories and the black pill. Talking about inter-dimensional aliens and how much the (((Elite))) are fucking us isn’t popular party talk and doesn’t win you any friends.

It is popular party talk the 2 times i tried it. Why u say its not

Social circles alone don't mean shit. I was part of a huge social circle of like 20+ close male friends and I was like a brother to some of those guys. They were mostly people who I knew from training boxing and MMA (I'm an mmacel who gymmaxxed). Some of them were football hooligans and were totally lowinhib and knew people from all over the city, they were very social and outgoing. Some of them were also Chads and Chad-lites and most were high-tier normies.

We went to parties every week and we would meet women all the time as there were some Chads/Chadlites in our circle who would attract them. The thing is, those women would only want the Chads and Chad-lites from the group. Nearly everyone in the group mogged me so I ended up alone all the time. The friends would introduce me to their girlfriend's friends and things like that, but those didn't show any interest in me. I stopped hanging out with these people when I moved to some other city and I actually thought I would have better chances alone without being constantly mogged by my friends.

Thx for story. How did being alone workout in new coty

I lost all my friends one by one over the years because they all eventually got relationships because they were taller and better looking than me, and their girlfriends/wives didn't want the single incel hanging around. Hoes before bros.

"Friendships" are just as cold, shallow, and materialistic as business relationships. No one would have a business relationship with someone who brought nothing of value to the table. The same goes for friendships, but mainstream society is in complete denial about this basic fact. The vast majority of normies are nothing more than self-righteous, phony, virtue signaling hypocrites who are desperate to convince the world - and themselves - that they are "good people." I don't expect people to make friends with lonely incels out of pity, but I do expect them to admit that no, they're not good, righteous, moral people; they're just looking out for their self-interest like any other face in the crowd.

I made a friend with a lonely autistic incel to be friends with since i felt sorry for him and he never respondes back to my texts or initiates contact so i stopped too

 

[Life Wasted]

Damn this is High IQ

If you didn't get laid or get a GF before the Tinder and feminist age hit full steam you are doomed forever.

I've seen what you're seeing too, lots of these normie people I knew back in high school and are now married with kids. They locked down their bitches BEFORE social media, tinder, and feminism took off, if they hadn't they'd be alone like I am now.

I see the generation of men that came after mine, the ones who grew up in the social media/ tinder age and it's a wasteland of single men everywhere men who if they had been born a decade earlier would likely be married with kids right now.

Not only was getting a GF easier back then but also forming a social circle, nowadays both are next to impossible.