All "Relationships" are Adultery Anyway

[ItheIthe]

When a girl has experienced the peak of emotional, sexual and spiritual connection with another man, taking her afterwards is nothing but adultery. And I really mean that. When a girl outright cheats, she destroys the man's heart by forsaking him for another man. When a girl "breaks up" and has sex with another guy, she still destroys the "relationship" - and the man's heart - to have sex with another guy. The only difference is that in a "break up" the person leaving tells their partner that they're leaving to bang other people. That's legitimately the only difference. Jesus confirms this himself. Matthew 5:32 "But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for sexual immorality, makes her the victim of adultery, and anyone who marries a divorced woman commits adultery."

It seriously baffles and perplexes me how society is okay with taking emotionally and physically used goods. It's also bewildering that forming a special bond and then just shattering it has become both commonplace and encouraged. It makes me sick to think about. Literally 99%+ of "marriages" these days are adultery, because you are not their first partner. It's just astonishing how it's socially acceptable for a girl to experience the peak of sexual pleasure and emotional interdependence with someone else, and then either "break up" or be "dumped" and just move onto partner #7. I wouldn't touch a girl whose had a previous sexual "LTR" with a ten foot pole.



I know a left but I have such a strong urge to post this.

 

[Deleted member 1983]

I just want a female to see me as something more than disgust or an orbiter.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Having pre-marital sex is adultery and therefore degenerate.

 

[cyborgglory]

Easy for a virgin to place so much importance on sex.
Sex is the entire reason we exist on this planet. It's about as essential as drinking water or shitting. Likewise, it is the most primal thing humans can possibly do. Which is exactly fucking why being incel is as horrible as it is. Not because we can't perform some enlightened elevated spiritual activity, but because we can't experience the one thing humans even exist for. Emotions aren't any deeper than predictable responses to stimuli. There is no soul.

the concept of sacred virginity is total cope made by primitive Africans to justify marrying 13 year olds + ego protection

 

[imbored21]

beta

 

[ItheIthe]

Easy for a virgin to place so much importance on sex.
Sex is the entire reason we exist on this planet. It's about as essential as drinking water or shitting. Likewise, it is the most primal thing humans can possibly do. Which is exactly fucking why being incel is as horrible as it is. Not because we can't perform some enlightened elevated spiritual activity, but because we can't experience the one thing humans even exist for. Emotions aren't any deeper than predictable responses to stimuli. There is no soul.

the concept of sacred virginity is total cope made by primitive Africans to justify marrying 13 year olds + ego protection

No, it's not a cope at all. It's natural desire to want to be with someone your whole life, and not to take used goods that won't be able to appreciate you the same. Also natural desire to not want to take used goods for the possibility of raising someone else's bastards.

 

[cyborgglory]

No, it's not a cope at all. It's natural desire to want to be with someone your whole life, and not to take used goods that won't be able to appreciate you the same. Also natural desire to not want to take used goods for the possibility of raising someone else's bastards.

It's absolutely cope. If abstinence/pure monogamy was an actual desire, people wouldn't have to fabricate gods/myths and punish people who don't practice it. We wouldn't have to artificially create concepts such as marriage, it would just be an instinct. If it was completely natural, music and TV shows wouldn't be able to influence people to completely abandon it. Wed be like birds, who automatically mate for lie by INSTINCT.

But we're not. We're primates. Polygamous, """"degenerate""", etc.

Consider this as well. A woman waits until marriage to have sex with her longtime boyfriend. Once they are married/once she isn't a virgin, the male becomes abusive and possessive. What do?

 

[OTaKu_WarrIOr_N]

The thing about leaving didn't work out?

 

[KyloRen]

Welcome back.

 

[Mahlo]

Men have just lowered the bar for themselves. They'll date and LTR Vagina monsters with 10+ partner counts.

 

[ItheIthe]

It's absolutely cope. If abstinence/pure monogamy was an actual desire, people wouldn't have to fabricate gods/myths and punish people who don't practice it. We wouldn't have to artificially create concepts such as marriage, it would just be an instinct.  If it was completely natural, music and TV shows wouldn't be able to influence people to completely abandon it. Wed be like birds, who automatically mate for lie by INSTINCT.

But we're not. We're primates. Polygamous, """"degenerate""", etc.

Consider this as well. A woman waits until marriage to have sex with her longtime boyfriend. Once they are married/once she isn't a virgin, the male becomes abusive and possessive. What do?

Monogamy is natural for people who aren't mentally depraved, ie, people who don't want to commit adultery. The "primate" argument is dumb, because there are many animal species that practice monogamy. But if people want to behave like depraved chimpanzees, perhaps they should be put in a zoo. You also don't need to have religious ceremonies to see this; loyalty is a pretty basic concept. Even during "breakups", usually one party doesn't want to leave.

The male shouldn't be abusive, but he should be possessive. I would only permit divorce due to cheating or extreme abuse. Other than that the woman should submit to the man, and the man should love the woman. It's pretty simple.

 

[OTaKu_WarrIOr_N]

Monogamy is natural for people who aren't mentally depraved, ie, people who don't want to commit adultery.

So everyone is mentally depraved?

 

[ItheIthe]

So everyone is mentally depraved?

The vast majority of people are.

 

[cyborgglory]

vast majority of people are.

Oh and I bet you're soooooo much better than all of us. I didn't realize I was speaking to the exalted one.

By definition that's wrong. If 99% of people act a certain way, it would generally be assumed that the behavior 99% of people do is n o r m a l. Not depraved. Depravity is only defined due to the relationship it has with normal.

Your ideas are just as subjective as mine.

 

[ItheIthe]

Oh and I bet you're soooooo much better than all of us. I didn't realize I was speaking to the exalted one.

By definition that's wrong. If 99% of people act a certain way, it would generally be assumed that the behavior 99% of people do is n o r m a l. Not depraved. Depravity is only defined due to the relationship it has with normal.

Your ideas are just as subjective as mine.

I'm not claiming to be better than anyone, and my intent isn't to exalt myself. And morals are not subjective at all. You're essentially using the "CURRENT YEAR" argument when you say that whatever is normal cannot be depraved. Passing sexual partners around like table salt is depraved regardless of how many other people are doing it.

 

[cyborgglory]

Passing sexual partners around like table salt is depraved regardless of how many other people are doing it.

Your entire worldview, the one virgin girl for one man, then, is fantasy. You can call normal behavior depraved as much as you want, but it's how people have operated since pre-history. Literally the way we are made