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Aging as an incel is brutal

INVERTER

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Your whole life you just work, go home, do whatever copes you want and basically just watch others lives without getting to participate yourself. While everyone else is hanging out with their friends in their teens and 20s, pairing off in their 30s and then watching their kids grow you're stuck wasting your time hopelessly. In the back of your mind you know your life is waste but there's nothing you can even do about it. You can't even talk to family past a certain point because they will ask you about your life and be condescending and judgemental. Eventually your circle becomes literally just you and coworker acquaintances. This is OK when youre 25 but after a certain point everything breaks down and you realize you completely missed out on life
 
My whole life has been copes, Whats new? 26 and aging, Steep hill towards 30, Dios mios.
 
I am waiting for balding and cancer. My father got prostate cancer with 36. I really cannot wait
 
I’m balding brutally right now
 
The older you get the less likely you ascend
 
The older you get the less likely you ascend
And you don't have a sense of urgency when you're younger because you feel there is more time later...
 
Now that I'm an oldcel/wizardcel and need stuff like colonoscopies, I'm realizing another brutal thing. For procedures where anesthesia will be used the doctor or hospital requires someone to come with you to drive you home afterwards (Uber, taxi and public transport aren't acceptable). Since I don't have any friends or family and my mom died a year ago, I don't have anyone. I'm going to have to pay for a special transportation service and hope that works out.

This isn't a problem 99% of people have, i.e. normies and neurotypicals.
 
Now that I'm an oldcel/wizardcel and need stuff like colonoscopies, I'm realizing another brutal thing. For procedures where anesthesia will be used the doctor or hospital requires someone to come with you to drive you home afterwards (Uber, taxi and public transport aren't acceptable). Since I don't have any friends or family and my mom died a year ago, I don't have anyone. I'm going to have to pay for a transportation service and hope that works out.

This isn't a problem 99% of people have, i.e. normies and neurotypicals.
One time I was hospitalized for alcohol abuse and the nurse asked me if there was anyone to pick me up because they don't like people calling ubers after sobering up. I said no and that I would need to call an Uber. Was very embarrassing
 
Now that I'm an oldcel/wizardcel and need stuff like colonoscopies, I'm realizing another brutal thing. For procedures where anesthesia will be used the doctor or hospital requires someone to come with you to drive you home afterwards (Uber, taxi and public transport aren't acceptable). Since I don't have any friends or family and my mom died a year ago, I don't have anyone. I'm going to have to pay for a special transportation service and hope that works out.

This isn't a problem 99% of people have, i.e. normies and neurotypicals.
Fuck thats brutal, Hope you make it brah! :cryfeels:
 
One time I was hospitalized for alcohol abuse and the nurse asked me if there was anyone to pick me up because they don't like people calling ubers after sobering up. I said no and that I would need to call an Uber. Was very embarrassing
Did they let you take an Uber?
 
Your whole life you just work, go home, do whatever copes you want and basically just watch others lives without getting to participate yourself. While everyone else is hanging out with their friends in their teens and 20s, pairing off in their 30s and then watching their kids grow you're stuck wasting your time hopelessly. In the back of your mind you know your life is waste but there's nothing you can even do about it. You can't even talk to family past a certain point because they will ask you about your life and be condescending and judgemental. Eventually your circle becomes literally just you and coworker acquaintances. This is OK when youre 25 but after a certain point everything breaks down and you realize you completely missed out on life














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Now that I'm an oldcel/wizardcel and need stuff like colonoscopies, I'm realizing another brutal thing. For procedures where anesthesia will be used the doctor or hospital requires someone to come with you to drive you home afterwards (Uber, taxi and public transport aren't acceptable). Since I don't have any friends or family and my mom died a year ago, I don't have anyone. I'm going to have to pay for a special transportation service and hope that works out.

This isn't a problem 99% of people have, i.e. normies and neurotypicals.
I can come with u
Is there Anything i can do to smoothen the colonoscopies
 
Yeah but it was just another reminder that I am completely alone in life
I relate to this
I am going to get a hair transplant and realised i’ll
Be going and coming alone

Its a really sad feeling i get it.
 
Your whole life you just work, go home, do whatever copes you want and basically just watch others lives without getting to participate yourself. While everyone else is hanging out with their friends in their teens and 20s, pairing off in their 30s and then watching their kids grow you're stuck wasting your time hopelessly. In the back of your mind you know your life is waste but there's nothing you can even do about it. You can't even talk to family past a certain point because they will ask you about your life and be condescending and judgemental. Eventually your circle becomes literally just you and coworker acquaintances. This is OK when youre 25 but after a certain point everything breaks down and you realize you completely missed out on life
You get to work if you’re lucky and privileged
 
Your whole life you just work, go home, do whatever copes you want and basically just watch others lives without getting to participate yourself.
and then you die..... born to suffer and die. rinse and repeat. this is hell
 
As an autist I would be unhappy either way as I wouldn't enjoy a busy family life. What I would have wanted is to be NT.
 
The older you get the less likely you ascend

really, i think how older men get the more likely foids want to jump at you just for the inheritance?
 
And you don't have a sense of urgency when you're younger because you feel there is more time later...
Normies gaslight us, telling us our time will come, it's never our time
 
One time I was hospitalized for alcohol abuse and the nurse asked me if there was anyone to pick me up because they don't like people calling ubers after sobering up. I said no and that I would need to call an Uber. Was very embarrassing
Brutal bruh, but such is life, I hope my mom lasts another 30 years or so, otherwise I'm cooked, I don't have anybody to help either
 
It's brutal
Worst from it is knowing there're ages that you won't get to live. Im 20 and I have never drink alcohol as an underage, neither teenage love... And the list goes...

@HeightpillVictim @shitciety get Minoxidil if you can afford it, at least you can save yourself from other humiliation
 
hanging out with their friends in their teens and 20s, pairing off in their 30s and then watching their kids grow
I long ago lost touch with the small number of people I knew from high school or college

they basically just don't exist anymore to me

So in practice, this part isn't really that bad
This is OK when youre 25 but after a certain point everything breaks down and you realize you completely missed out on life
I'm pretty much just numb to it and mostly don't care anymore, like after so many years being isolated is just totally normal to me

normies / couples might as well be aliens to me, considering how mentally (and often physically) distant I am to them

Long term health issues from extended stress / isolation are a bigger problem
 
I'll put it like this:

In my teens / early 20s I knew I was missing out on life, and it was brutal

In my 30s, I know that I've long since missed out on life, there's nothing I can do to change it, and that it's been over for years
 
Long term health issues from extended stress / isolation are a bigger problem
True man that's why I try to exercise a lot but honestly it's pointless anyway because I'll probably snap and KMS in middle age.

Also hope those statistics are distorted from isolated peopl eating fast food and smoking more often.

However someone recently posted a thread about a dude who seemed straight-laced but died at 58 from a heart attack
 
get Minoxidil if you can afford it, at least you can save yourself from other humiliation
Thanks bhai i will try to buy it this week, I have seen really good results of other people :feelsokman:
 
It is.brutal, I hneed a surgery and get weird pains which never happened in my 20s or early 30's.
 
I'm a virgin at 41 and what makes it worse for me is that I live in the UK and the vile UK government torments the likes of me. And the vile UK government keeps raising the prices of all my copes.
 
As an incel at 41 even foids aged 30-35 sees me as a grandpa. Even foids aged 30-35 think I'm too old for them.
 

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