Serious Agepill hitting hard, need tips to lower inhibition so I can try to approach foids

[Deleted member 11159]

This is it, it's either now or never. I'm going to go to a nightclub this Friday and actually try to approach a foid. Even if it doesn't work, I need to know that I tried. I don't plan on having sex, but I want to at least go from a KHHV to a HV. I tried drinking a shit ton of alcohol before but that wasn't enough and I still spent the whole night vomiting my brains out. I am thinking of mixing weed and alcohol this time. I need to get rid of my ultra-high inhibition completely for a few hours. My sexual frustration is reaching its peak so I have to try or i'll end up roping in 2019.

To those who tried approaching, can you please tell me what it was like? What was her initial reaction? Did she look embarrassed to be seen with you? Did she give obvious signs that she didn't want to talk to you?

Also, i'm not a fakecel. The only time I talked to a foid my age for more than a few seconds was in elementary school when she called me an idiot for accidentally ruining her art project.

 

[FACEandLMS]

You are probably between 15 and 23. You still have time. Oh and I see you admitted that you have BDD. Well then, hanging out with incels is not going to help that now is it?

IMO, if you're like 19 yo and have BDD and stay in this community while probably having a decent face and height, then you deserve to be a sexless NEET. If you don't make use of the tools you have, you are not a victim.

 

[SwordsmanAlt]

Your username says it all.

Don't do approaches at the club. They. Will. Fail.

 

[Michael15651]

Xanax helps, take 0.5mg IR to kill the anxiety

 

[Dropbox]

I went to a night club on new years, had started drinking way early, got kicked out by friends before the ball dropped.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

If you don't make use of the tools you have, you are not a victim.

That's very true. I can't really call myself an incel if I never tried. I feel like I have an actual fear of foids because of my abusive piece of shit mom but that's not an excuse. I already have so many regrets.
As for the BDD thing, I don't think this site has much of an effect on it. Even before I started coming here, I spent about 2 hours a day looking in the mirror and having days where I feel average and days where I feel like a complete subhuman.

Your username says it all.

Don't do approaches at the club. They. Will. Fail.

 

[celery]

Xanax helps, take 0.5mg IR to kill the anxiety

Yeah, great idea. Drink and pop some xanax. Don't forget to report back when you come back from that blackout

 

[Anonymous MG]

Take some Ritalin, it makes you extremely low inhib.

Do note though that it causes severe schizophrenic delusions, suicidal tendencies, and severe autism.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Take some Ritalin, it makes you extremely low inhib.

Do note though that it causes severe schizophrenic delusions, suicidal tendencies, and severe autism.

Xanax helps, take 0.5mg IR to kill the anxiety

You need to be prescribed those, right? I have never been diagnosed with anything.

 

[Anonymous MG]

You need to be prescribed those, right? I have never been diagnosed with anything.

Just lie to your doctor, all you need to do is talk about never being able to focus on shit and basically just list off the symptoms of ADHD/ADD and the doctor will give them to you.

You could be prescribed a number of different medications for this, but you'll most likely either be given Adderall or Ritalin.

 

[takERisks]

You are probably between 15 and 23. You still have time. Oh and I see you admitted that you have BDD. Well then, hanging out with incels is not going to help that now is it?

IMO, if you're like 19 yo and have BDD and stay in this community while probably having a decent face and height, then you deserve to be a sexless NEET. If you don't make use of the tools you have, you are not a victim.

'incels is' 'incels.is' volcel if you don't try and be a black rapper tbh

 

[BlackpilledAF]

JFL at thinking there is anything you can do to "approach". Are you even blackpilled, son ?

Only thing you can do is do face altering plastic surgeries, gymcel if you have a shitty body, and hope you make the cut.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

JFL at thinking there is anything you can do to "approach". Are you even blackpilled, son ?

Only thing you can do is do face altering plastic surgeries, gymcel if you have a shitty body, and hope you make the cut.

I know plenty of people who are completely average looking and they have had success with average barsluts. The problem is they're super NTmaxxed. I'm anything but.

 

[InvisibleCel]

Take a shower and remember if you look somewhat like this then you're good.

 

[Ritalincel]

try diclazepam

 

[BlackpilledAF]

I know plenty of people who are completely average looking and they have had success with average barsluts. The problem is they're super NTmaxxed. I'm anything but.

Are you average looking yourself ? If so, you're not an incel.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Are you average looking yourself ? If so, you're not an incel.

Hard for me to judge myself. I'm definitely sub 8 though so I have to have some social skills/ charisma to make up for it, which I don't. I stutter like a retard when I talk to guys my age, let alone foids.

 

[FACEandLMS]

That's very true. I can't really call myself an incel if I never tried. I feel like I have an actual fear of foids because of my abusive piece of shit mom but that's not an excuse. I already have so many regrets.
As for the BDD thing, I don't think this site has much of an effect on it. Even before I started coming here, I spent about 2 hours a day looking in the mirror and having days where I feel average and days where I feel like a complete subhuman.

You will have so many more regrets if you stay here making other people's negative experiences your own. At least have your own to know if you're ugly or average.

What are you scared that foids will do? They can't beat you up.

If you haven't tried to get a gf actively and repeatedly, you shouldn't expect to have one. Only chads can really "be there" and expect to get approached. The rest of the population between 4 and 6/10 need to actually try.

Hard for me to judge myself. I'm definitely sub 8 though so I have to have some social skills/ charisma to make up for it, which I don't. I stutter like a retard when I talk to guys my age, let alone foids.

You know where you don't improve social skills? On incel forums.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

You are probably between 15 and 23. You still have time. Oh and I see you admitted that you have BDD. Well then, hanging out with incels is not going to help that now is it?

IMO, if you're like 19 yo and have BDD and stay in this community while probably having a decent face and height, then you deserve to be a sexless NEET. If you don't make use of the tools you have, you are not a victim.

Good to see you haven't roped yet.

 

[TheLegendofBentCock]

Ritalin

I disagree, when I was on Ritalin as a child it made me high inhib. I remember it took away my impulsiveness so if I wanted to say something in a conversation I didn't.

Re approaching, foids are generally cowardly and will freak out if you talk to them without them knowing you via social media. Especially the younger, hotter ones under 25.

Foids, as a rule are generally cowardly and will do anything to avoid acknowledging you're existence. I have had all sorts of reactions, mostly negative.

Getting them to stop in a crowded area is the trickiest, you've got to sort of get in front of them and halt their momentum and commit to doing it confidently.

Remember, foids are cowards and respond well to assertive masculinity, but you have to be friendly with it.

Then you've got to hit them with a barrage of observations within the first 30 seconds to make it feel normal for the foid. This is the trickiest bit sometimes, knowing what to say.

A basic structure would be to get slightly infront of them, make eye contact, command the foid to "Stop, I want to talk to you" with a friendly smile.

Then say "Hey, I know I've only just seen you, but you caught my eye, I think you look good"

But then follow it up with "I'm not sure about the shoes/jacket/jeans though". Or whatever said foid is wearing.

Then make some observations about what she's doing, like if she's walking fast, say something like, "You look like you are training for a marathon with that speed".

After the initial 30 seconds you can relax and treat it like a normal conversation.

 

[Cuyen]

Agepill killing us slowly but definetly.

 

[FACEandLMS]

Good to see you haven't roped yet.

Thanks. TBH I am too chickenshit to, and suicide is a messy affair. I am stuck here.

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Thanks. TBH I am too chickenshit to, and suicide is a messy affair. I am stuck here.

Good. Don't an hero. You have enlightened the masses by spreading the blackpill. I was just watching one of your videos, I will watch the other entries. Aside from the "femcel" series crap, I don't care for those.

 

[FACEandLMS]

Good. Don't an hero. You have enlightened the masses by spreading the blackpill. I was just watching one of your videos, I will watch the other entries. Aside from the "femcel" series crap, I don't care for those.

Yeah, if I learned one thing in 2018 is that women are empowered enough not to have to settle for incels and that the best thing to do is to try to forget about women.

I actually hate going to the gym when women are there. Muh home-gym? Yes, some people don't have squat-racks and shit at home.

 

[Reddit_is_for_cucks]

If you are gonna drink then know your limit. You need to get drunk which is a bit above buzzed.

If you are drunk enough you can get away with most things as long as you don’t try to start a fight and leave when someone says stop.

If you are ugky then most girls won’t talk to you but some girls will, you can even flirt with them and try your luck. If you plan to get physical then stop when they say stop.

Most importantly, enjoy yourself

 

[RREEEEEEEEE]

Yeah, if I learned one thing in 2018 is that women are empowered enough not to have to settle for incels. It's time to just accept it

Brutal reminder. Ugly men will become extinct.

 

[FACEandLMS]

'incels is' 'incels.is' volcel if you don't try and be a black rapper tbh

Just become a famous rapper at 30 yo, bro.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

You will have so many more regrets if you stay here making other people's negative experiences your own. At least have your own to know if you're ugly or average.

What are you scared that foids will do? They can't beat you up.

If you haven't tried to get a gf actively and repeatedly, you shouldn't expect to have one. Only chads can really "be there" and expect to get approached. The rest of the population between 4 and 6/10 need to actually try.


You know where you don't improve social skills? On incel forums.

I appreciate that you understand there is more than just looks when it comes to approaching foids if you're sub 8. That's something that more of this forum needs to realize. It's not just incels and Chads in this world. There are average guys who do get laid because they're NTmaxxed.

I know foids can't physically hurt me but I guess i'm scared of the humiliation which I have already experienced enough of in my life by both genders.

I disagree, when I was on Ritalin as a child it made me high inhib. I remember it took away my impulsiveness so if I wanted to say something in a conversation I didn't.

Re approaching, foids are generally cowardly and will freak out if you talk to them without them knowing you via social media. Especially the younger, hotter ones under 25.

Foids, as a rule are generally cowardly and will do anything to avoid acknowledging you're existence. I have had all sorts of reactions, mostly negative.

Getting them to stop in a crowded area is the trickiest, you've got to sort of get in front of them and halt their momentum and commit to doing it confidently.

Remember, foids are cowards and respond well to assertive masculinity, but you have to be friendly with it.

Then you've got to hit them with a barrage of observations within the first 30 seconds to make it feel normal for the foid. This is the trickiest bit sometimes, knowing what to say.

A basic structure would be to get slightly infront of them, make eye contact, command the foid to "Stop, I want to talk to you" with a friendly smile.

Then say "Hey, I know I've only just seen you, but you caught my eye, I think you look good"

But then follow it up with "I'm not sure about the shoes/jacket/jeans though". Or whatever said foid is wearing.

Then make some observations about what she's doing, like if she's walking fast, say something like, "You look like you are training for a marathon with that speed".

After the initial 30 seconds you can relax and treat it like a normal conversation.

Thanks. This was actually really helpful.

I don't have any foids on social media aside from a few that went to my school but they add everyone. Nightclubs are great in the sense that a lot of people there don't know each other so if I do everything correctly from the get-go the foid won't realize that i'm a loser.