Experiment Affectionate GF vs Subservient GF – Which one would you choose?

[ogreism]

Affectionate Girlfriend
A genuinely affectionate woman who loves holding hands, kissing, cuddling, being romantic and emotionally close... but she's not very obedient or subservient. She has her own opinions, doesn't always do what you say, and isn't focused on serving you like a traditional wife/maid.

Subservient Girlfriend
A fully subservient and obedient woman who cooks, cleans, does chores without complaint, follows your lead, and is useful/practical in daily life... but she's low on affection. Little to no cuddling, kissing, or romantic warmth, she's more like a maid than a loving partner.

 

[IncelcoreCel]

Romance>sex

 

[Kshatriya]

Romance>sex

Thats gay af

 

[autisticsoy]

Is only one of them loyal or are they both loyal.

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

both mein neger

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

doesn't always do what you say

giga red flag and over

 

[Deleted Member 8090]

Affectionate 100%. I mostly like to cuddle with my body pillow in bed all day so that's really all I'd want to do with a real gf. Idgaf about her cooking or not

 

[Q. H. Cooks]

First. Maid services can be bought, even as an ugly man. Affection cannot.

 

[Needle]

Affection

 

[Izayacel]

I take the first one and beat hER ( from time to time if needed )

 

[Grodd]

Subservient

 

[Caichan]

Affectionate

 

[Deco]

Subservient. Who the fuck isn't gonna have sex and romance with an obedient woman? Almost seems like a bait post.

 

[sellsword]

Affectionate. I could pay a slut on the streets to do what I say. I cannot pay for love

 

[ogreism]

Subservient. Who the fuck isn't gonna have sex and romance with an obedient woman? Almost seems like a bait post.

The whole point of the hypothetical is that she is cold and unaffectionate by nature, not that she refuses to do certain acts because you didn’t order her to.

So your counter (“she’ll just have sex and act romantic because she’s obedient”) only works if you believe:
Performing romantic/sexual acts on command = the same emotional experience as genuine desire and warmth
You personally would feel satisfied and emotionally fulfilled by affection that is 100% scripted, mechanical, and given only because it was ordered.

Most people, even the majority of guys who say they want a “subservient” woman, still want the affection to feel real at some level.

 

[ogreism]

Is only one of them loyal or are they both loyal.

both are loyal

 

[autisticsoy]

both are loyal

The affectionate one then

 

[LeFrenchCel]

I need affection.

 

[Rapistcel]

Affectionate Girlfriend
A genuinely affectionate woman who loves holding hands, kissing, cuddling, being romantic and emotionally close... but she's not very obedient or subservient. She has her own opinions, doesn't always do what you say, and isn't focused on serving you like a traditional wife/maid.

I find this more attractive but in very long term I would probably prefer the other option, still vote for affectionate girlfriend because I'm more into that.
Girlfriend:first option.
Wife: second option.

 

[Rapistcel]

Thats gay af

That's a cope nigga, I don't want to sound bluepilled but if it was just sex you would be escortmaxxing instead of being here..

 

[Rapistcel]

Romance>sex

 

[VladMagnum]

Id never let a bitch cook my food or do shit
These foids are always incompetent and even the ones who say they can do those things are usually lacking.
Ill take affectionate

 

[Sub5failure]

Romance>sex

Soy

 

[Kshatriya]

That's a cope nigga, I don't want to sound bluepilled but if it was just sex you would be escortmaxxing instead of being here..

I'm broke af

 

[Deco]

The whole point of the hypothetical is that she is cold and unaffectionate by nature, not that she refuses to do certain acts because you didn’t order her to.

So your counter (“she’ll just have sex and act romantic because she’s obedient”) only works if you believe:
Performing romantic/sexual acts on command = the same emotional experience as genuine desire and warmth
You personally would feel satisfied and emotionally fulfilled by affection that is 100% scripted, mechanical, and given only because it was ordered.

Most people, even the majority of guys who say they want a “subservient” woman, still want the affection to feel real at some level.

Not really as that's just your headcanon at this point and I don't accept it as a hypothetical since it only generalizes that all relationships would be the same if the woman is subservient. Why would I deny my wife who is obedient what she needs and why would that not feel real? Being obedient doesn't mean being a slave and being neglected of affection for both sides. Are you a foid by any chance?

 

[Reverend Insanity]

I am going for affectionate gf cuz if the subservient gf finds a chad to fuck her and she decides to kill me for keeping her trad wife image and poison me then that will be bad.

 

[DogTeeth]

Affectionate. I desire so deeply to love freely & fully. Plus I'm just very touch starved in general

 

[Looptheworm]

Affectionate Girlfriend
A genuinely affectionate woman who loves holding hands, kissing, cuddling, being romantic and emotionally close... but she's not very obedient or subservient. She has her own opinions, doesn't always do what you say, and isn't focused on serving you like a traditional wife/maid.

Subservient Girlfriend
A fully subservient and obedient woman who cooks, cleans, does chores without complaint, follows your lead, and is useful/practical in daily life... but she's low on affection. Little to no cuddling, kissing, or romantic warmth, she's more like a maid than a loving partner.

Affection

 

[Rapistcel]

Affectionate. I desire so deeply to love freely & fully. Plus I'm just very touch starved in general

 

[The Chronicle]

Why not both.

 

[ANTAGONIST]

Some people used to have both. I remember when i was in early school, we visited a famous historical writer's home that had been turned into a museum. There was an extra bedroom for a maid in his home. People probably occasionally used their maids for pleasure as well.

Why not both.

 

[Hikicripple]

Affectionate Girlfriend
A genuinely affectionate woman who loves holding hands, kissing, cuddling, being romantic and emotionally close... but she's not very obedient or subservient. She has her own opinions, doesn't always do what you say, and isn't focused on serving you like a traditional wife/maid.

Subservient Girlfriend
A fully subservient and obedient woman who cooks, cleans, does chores without complaint, follows your lead, and is useful/practical in daily life... but she's low on affection. Little to no cuddling, kissing, or romantic warmth, she's more like a maid than a loving partner.

I will have neither

 

[RearrangeYourFace]

I just want a cute Arab girlfriend with big brown eyes who kiss me