Normies who have an active interest in the incel community are not always heartless bullies. Some are legitimately disturbed by human suffering. Maybe some normies reading this forum are parents of NEET incel teens and they don't know how to help their son. Some may be therapists at a loss on how to treat this small subset of their patients, one they were not adequately trained for in college.
I will spare you the usual crap you get on this kind of topics. I will not tell you to "have sex with an incel". (As a religious man, I do not believe that fornication and sex before marriage are vital, or even desirable, for that matter).
The thing I will recommend to you is very simple but will completely turn the life of an incel around. If you have an incel teenage son who seems to hate you, I know how to improve things immediately. Stop lying to them, even if you think your lies are better than the cold truth. Stop saying that looks don't matter or that they're handsome when it's not the case. Acknowledge that looks matter in dating. Acknowledge that beauty is objective and that all women agree on which men they find attractive, with slight differences on superficial details but not on the core (height, symmetry). Educate yourself on the topic. Merely reading the Wikipedia article on physical attractiveness would be sufficient if you're short on time.
Lying never works because your teenage son or patient is smarter than you think. They feel gaslighted as a result of your lies and being gaslighted triggers rage and depression in most persons.
I will spare you the usual crap you get on this kind of topics. I will not tell you to "have sex with an incel". (As a religious man, I do not believe that fornication and sex before marriage are vital, or even desirable, for that matter).
The thing I will recommend to you is very simple but will completely turn the life of an incel around. If you have an incel teenage son who seems to hate you, I know how to improve things immediately. Stop lying to them, even if you think your lies are better than the cold truth. Stop saying that looks don't matter or that they're handsome when it's not the case. Acknowledge that looks matter in dating. Acknowledge that beauty is objective and that all women agree on which men they find attractive, with slight differences on superficial details but not on the core (height, symmetry). Educate yourself on the topic. Merely reading the Wikipedia article on physical attractiveness would be sufficient if you're short on time.
Lying never works because your teenage son or patient is smarter than you think. They feel gaslighted as a result of your lies and being gaslighted triggers rage and depression in most persons.
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