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Actually Having A Girlfriend Is Cope

detritus

detritus

Greycel
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this is going to sound like satire bullshit but I'm being serious.

Getting laid after making extreme fundamental changes to yourself is cope.
Some of you have been there. Some of you may have even benefited, but still, here we are realizing that these things have done us no favors and only gives us more of what we don't want and lets us know of what we can't have. Some of you who are trying this know that this isn't going to help you, even if you "succeed". The selection will always be terrible, society is still falling down all around you, nothing is improving, nothing is getting better. If you find yourself "improving", you must understand that you are will fool yourself even further. You will convince yourself that it's all finally falling into place. It's not.

Being in a committed relationship is cope.
Think of all the cheating whores, think of the high divorce rates, think of all the people who are unhappily stuck. Just think of the selection of cunts out there. You don't want these women. Why would you want to stay with them for no other reason than to cope? Don't fucking bother. The hatred from blue pillers on incel, black pill and sometimes mgtow when it isn't packaged as some bro red pill PUA self improvement cope bullshit.. The hatred and backlash we get for espousing these views is because they know they've set themselves up and they know they've been trapped. Why go after losers like us if your relationship is so awesome? Why gallivant all over social media about how great your relationship is, needing constant reaffirmation that your relationship isn't shit? They should be happy that there's a growing number of mgtow and cels and black pillers and the rest. That's why these fags mold society to be this way! Endless supply of pussy for them. So why the fuck do they come at us so strongly? Why act as if you're threatened? It shouldn't be hard for these fags to stay in their delusions and deny the rubble of fallen empires around if they're just sooooooo happy with their girlfriends/wives/scoring.

If I can derail for a little bit, white nationalist normie chads who are ultiimately blue pilled say black pill and mgtow and whatever it's white genocide. Well then, for the sake of preserving the white race why don't they spare their awesome harem of white bitches and help those jewpilled mgtows get out of the clutches of globalist jewery then? Simple as that. No, these jew hating white nationalists would rather you continue to surrender to what they otherwise call jewery. Playing by all of these bullshit retarded rules in order to fulfill their 14 words. Yeah, no wonder the white race is "dying". It's cope and it's bullshit all around. Some of these assholes go full socialist and attack capitalism when female hypergamy, the thing you're supposed to maintain and figure out game for, IS "jewish" capitalism. Or, "late stage" capitalism if you're the multicultural antifa socialist who virtue signals against anti-semetism despite having views and opinions on Jews that could even make Hitler blush if they weren't so sanitized. And because this nature of women would exist in a communist society there is simply no economizing women into not being the trash they are. Capitalism drives them to be this way, sure, ok, fine, but the socialist state is centralized providerism, making men even more so obsolete and even more disposable than they already are. More disposable than they already have to be in this fucking wretched horrible mistake failure of a species. Yeah, failure. If not failure, cyclical at the very least. And here again, in socialism run amok women will leave their peasant proletarian husbands and join the playboy bunny commune once the country Venezualas itself.

Now, all that aside... For myself, I'm always going to want a nice relationship with a woman. I'm programmed by nature to not just chop my dick off and I don't experience enough suffering to rope myself. I'll even trick myself sometimes when I feel like there's I have an in with some surface-level palatable female. Going so far as to continue a cycle where I let them take advantage of me, use me. It doesn't hurt me, but it does continue to maintain that men will always be available to be the disposable tools that society made all of us, and in that way, it hurts me, and it hurts you, and I'm sorry I don't have the nerve to just walk away from everyone.

So in closing I'll say this. Improvement is lie. Light at the end of the tunnel is smoke and mirrors. It's never going to get better. They're never going to get better. Society will never align itself to restore this fabled greatness we supposedly once had. No improvements in your life in regards to relationships and finances will ever do you any favors other than staving off suicide and homelessness. You're trash. You're a loser. You're disposable. Everyone's failed you. You're fucked at birth. Society has incentive to fail you. Society has trained everyone to fail you. There is no turning this franchise around in our favor. It's game over. It's always been game over. It will continue to be game over. Nobody cares. Nobody will do anything. There's nothing missing. There's nothing you could've done differently. There's nothing you can do. There's nothing you can do. There's nothing you can do.

cope
 
You:

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Me:

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how I feel after a good fap.
 
detritus said:

u are saying we should give up forever? improvement is not worth it? going the MGTOW route and forget about women? what a cope because i still have hormones.

i dab on you man like pickle rick, these years of schooling and physical surgeries and improvements will not go to waste

i can still move to asia or become a rich cuck. i'll pay girls to be a sugar daddy. i dont care. there are options left
 
youngcels won't understand.
 
ghostcell said:
u are saying we should give up forever? improvement is not worth it? going the MGTOW route and forget about women? what a cope because i still have hormones.

i dab on you man like pickle rick, these years of schooling and physical surgeries and improvements will not go to waste

i can still move to asia or become a rich cuck. i'll pay girls to be a sugar daddy. i dont care. there are options left
Beta cuck
 
In other words, life as a non-Chad is cope. Nearly the entire human population is coping. Only 0,00001% isn't.
 
Jockcel said:
Beta cuck

i'd rather be a beta cuck than incel forever. i would rather experience fake love than nothing at all.

what else am i going to use my money for? my own interests would cost 1000 euros per year at most. then housing and food is still necessary. but i dont care if some girl receives the rest. whats the alternative? suicide or becoming a grand wizard
 
Chemical castration is the best cope either that or rope
 
fukmylyf said:
how I feel after a good fap.

Lol when I'm done fapping i look at my dick covered in jizz while thinkIng about how sex is disgusting and wouldnt want any part of it.


There is no way I'm reading all of this
 
Not going to read all of that, because it's all cope.

Having a girlfriend means a constant stream of validation and sex at the end of day after a hard day of work. Of course that could all change after the first few months, but it would probably be damn well worth.


fukmylyf said:
how I feel after a good fap.

Same, lol.
 
I'm scared of a girl breaking up or divorcing me.. I'm also a very possessive and controlling person, I wouldn't want her to hang out with anyone and I always want her by my side, because I'm pretty fucking clingy You could be onto something, perhaps relationships are a massive cope. I'm a very insecure person, I could be high inhib actually.
 
Tellem--T said:
Lol when I'm done fapping i look at my dick covered in jizz while thinkIng about how sex is disgusting and wouldnt want any part of it.


There is no way I'm reading all of this



Everyone is asexual for a few seconds after fapping
 
Everyone needs to fap more to lose the desire of ever wanting a girlfriend.

That goes for you too Gambler, I know your lurking somewhere in this forum ;).
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
I'm scared of a girl breaking up or divorcing me.. I'm also a very possessive and controlling person, I wouldn't want her to hang out with anyone and I always want her by my side, because I'm pretty fucking clingy You could be onto something, perhaps relationships are a massive cope. I'm a very insecure person, I could be high inhib actually.

Same but I'm not possessive I just have trust issues I can't endure having a close relationship to anything besides my family or my pet so I would probably be the one who breaks up because of the fear of cheating/breaking up. I'm also really afraid of intimacy and opening up to people

My ways of thinking when it comes to relationships are highly irrational Ik
 
Facade said:
Same but I'm not possessive I just have trust issues I can't endure having a close relationship to anything besides my family or my pet so I would probably be the one who breaks up because of the fear of cheating/breaking up. I'm also really afraid of intimacy and opening up to people

My ways of thinking when it comes to relationships are highly irrational Ik
Its normal for Scorpio to have trust issues ;), especally if its someone you haven't known for a long time. So I guess in someway its understandable. Also Scorpios don't like it when they get betrayed, ditched in the dirt, done dirty, or back stabbed.

At least, a part of yourself is brave enough to let things go. Some people become too attached with some certain things and some of those certain things could cause a hindrance to their lives. I guess your intuition knows, when to exit <3.
 
kinda cringy but last paragraph is legit
 
ghostcell said:
u are saying we should give up forever?

Depends on how accurately you've assessed your situation. You're either not a cel but a late-normie in a rut or you're in denial.

improvement is not worth it?
i can still move to asia or become a rich cuck. i'll pay girls to be a sugar daddy. i dont care. there are options left

i dab on you man like pickle rick, these years of schooling and physical surgeries and improvements will not go to waste



Depends on the supply of """good women""" and what you can give to them. Spoiler alert: Nothing

Being rich isn't even good enough, lol. Billionaires get taken to the cleaners all the time. And why not? Why be someone's wife when the state can just award you a large portion of what he made? I don't want to imply that your success is entirely all around looks. It's an amalgamation of all sorts of things and a changing of the goal posts if you do follow the rules. If you're serious about surgeries, get them only if you don't plan on getting your hopes up in it improving your chances with women. I have some changes I'd like to make for myself but it has nothing to do with improving my marketability towards women.  

going the MGTOW route and forget about women? what a cope because i still have hormones.

Despite the many directions that MGTOW advocates go in, there's really only one requirement in MGTOW and that is to reject marriage. MGTOW still dates. MGTOW always brags and humble brags about laying bitches. MGTOW will foolishly dog pile detractors, suggesting that this is all about being angry virgins, a handy trap set up by normies to get MGTOW to inflate the worth of pussy by deeply caring about how pussy might perceive them. Very reliable move by normies and it always serves them despite the defending MGTOW thinking that it makes him look better. Look better to who? Bluepillers and PUA redpillers. If MGTOW truly went their own way, they would let people have their perceptions however accurate or inaccurate they are, either in general or towards an individual MGTOW and fundamentally, most importantly, they wouldn't care either. Unfortunately for red pillers who think there's still a way out of this, the MGTOW community hasn't been given this crucial memo saying that if they do believe there's a chance to turn this all around, they maybe they shouldn't always do damage control on accusations of virgin wizardry or "just being hurt by ONE! ONE! ONE! person only one, just one, one.". Does them no favors. It'll do none of you any favors, either, should you be so inclined to defend against such accusations. Best you can do is admit that this may be true for some but there are people who have been there and done that and ended up where they are regardless. It's just dishonesty and trolling at this point for MGTOW detractors to suggest that a community rooted in marriage rejection has had no experience with marriage first hand. Would be like there were people who hated cancer patients and their goto line is "have you tried smoking weed you bald tumor ridden piece of shit? lmao. why are you blaming everyone except yourself? lol!".


Sorry for the double post. Lots of replies came in as I was making my first reply and I didn't check, sorry. I appreciate it a lot, guys.

ghostcell said:
i'd rather be a beta cuck than incel forever. i would rather experience fake love than nothing at all.

Valid. Just be prepared if/when it doesn't work or if it makes your life worse. 

what else am i going to use my money for? my own interests would cost 1000 euros per year at most. then housing and food is still necessary. but i dont care if some girl receives the rest. whats the alternative? suicide or becoming a grand wizard

Also valid. Being a divorced defrocked pre-gawker victory Hulk Hogan is still better than being incel. I just don't think most of us, if we're being honest, can ever get even that.

CopingGymcel said:
Not going to read all of that, because it's all cope.

I understand. This reminds me of the idea that cels/mgtow are 100% responsible for the cards they were dealt and how they played them and as an older guy, I just do not see evidence of gumption and hard work ALWAYS bearing fruit. It's not possible now or before to have an economy entirely made up of 99% winners and 1% losers. Mass manufacturing engineers in some countries hasn't done anything to improve their rivers of shit cities.

Having a girlfriend means a constant stream of validation and sex at the end of day after a hard day of work. Of course that could all change after the first few months, but it would probably be damn well worth.

It's not worth it but who am I to convince anyone to resist temptation?

idkwattodowithlife said:
I'm scared of a girl breaking up or divorcing me.. I'm also a very possessive and controlling person, I wouldn't want her to hang out with anyone and I always want her by my side, because I'm pretty fucking clingy You could be onto something, perhaps relationships are a massive cope. I'm a very insecure person, I could be high inhib actually.

I'm very sorry to hear that. You have every reason to be paranoid, too. Hopefully she's a unicorn if she ever comes. My unsolicited advice would be not put yourself in a situation where she knows you're like that and to then behave like that. Let it happen first and then act accordingly, within reason.

idkwattodowithlife said:
lmao i fucking know that already you dumb motherfucker

mylifeistrash said:
kinda cringy but last paragraph is legit


I appreciate it. Could you tell me what parts you didn't like? More for my benefit if I feel like it needs refinement.

RREEEEEEEEE said:
In other words, life as a non-Chad is cope. Nearly the entire human population is coping. Only 0,00001% isn't.


Lol yep, pretty much. Sounds like bullshit, I know. I can't see it any other way. Thanks for reading, though. I appreciate it.
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
lmao i fucking know that already you dumb motherfucker
I never said that to you, did you alter my post? To make yourself look good or is this a typo/mistake?
 
idkwattodowithlife said:
idkwattodowithlife said:
lmao i fucking know that already you dumb motherfucker
I never said that to you, did you alter my post? To make yourself look good or is this a typo/mistake?

Definitely didn't do it to make myself look good, lol. Nah, it's not a typo/mistake and there was no intention on getting anyone to believe you actually said that. In my response to you I said that my advice wasn't solicited and I fake-quoted to reflect that, humorously.
 
detritus said:
Lol yep, pretty much. Sounds like bullshit, I know. I can't see it any other way. Thanks for reading, though. I appreciate it.

I get where you're coming from, though. Anyway, I didn't read the full post, I'll do that right now. And, remember, you're entitled to your own views, well, as long as they're not hateful.
 

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