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Actively Seeking out girls

TheGoodGuy

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- Skip the long part/rant if lazy and get to the question...

So I´ve been on and off of the dating apps Tinder and Hot or Not for 4 years. I always just used them to get matches but the had the courage to chat with girls "mentalcell, or so I thought" The last week I´ve been trying to actively seek out girls, I know I am not good looking "I´ll describe my looks later" but I actually thought I was just a mentalcell.
I have now in the last week gotten a couple dozen matches by swiping right to everyone! At the beginning I was picky but now I swipe right to everything and try and chat with anyone. It doesn´t have to be good looking girls, I try and chat with ugly girls and fat whales that weighs 30-40kg more than me, I am 60kg btw. It is so hard for a none Chad to get hookups with girls. I am not looking for a girlfriend only sex or maybe just watching a movie and kiss if that is the only thing they want. I just want to try and get the affection from girls again. Yes I am not a truecell, not to brag because it´s against the rules and also very disrespectfull to any truecell in here.I have had several girlfriends in my teen years and my last dumped me 4 years ago and I have been incel ever since. I am not looking for a girlfriend because I don´t trust girls. I´ve had about 7 girlfriends in my life and 6 of them cheated on me, two of them with one of my best friends "2 different best friends" So NO I am not looking for a girlfriend because girls can´t be trusted! But it´s impossible for me to find sex. As some of you may know I have a bodybuilder Chad brother who have been with 50+ girls all of them minimum 7/10 for the most part 8/10-9/10 So it has been pure torture for me to witness. By now I am literally texting any girl and still I can´t get passed the chit chat, and I have to keep the conversation going which is a clear sign that they aren´t interested in me at all. What makes these dating apps more unfair is that girls just write to my brother all of the things they want to do to him and I have to struggle so much just to keep chit chat going. Not 1 single girl has showed any sexual interest in me.I asked my brother yesterday about how many girls wrote to him and vice versa. And he said that for the last 10 girls he has been texting to 9 of them wrote to him.And because he has that bodybuilding body girls are all over him it is such an injustice you can´t possible know my pain! I haven´t had sex for 4 years and I want sex!

I am not good looking I am maybe a 3/10. 4/10 if I have to be VERY generous I can PM a pic of me if you´d like to see for yourself as long as you don´t repost it. I am 170cm/ 5´7" tall and 60kg/132lbs I am skinny fat, manlet body. I have small forearms, wrist like twigs and hands like a ten year old girl. The only thing masculine about me is I have broad shoulders, that´s it! I also have various psychical conditions that cripples my "dating" like psoriasis and coating on my tongue that often gives me bad breath.

---- My question now is. After been reading for a couple of weeks in here I am now very curious to how many people in here actually is actively seeking out girls and is not just mentalcells. What do you do to actively seek out girls? Approach them in real life, dating apps? Would you please share your experiences with me.

I really don´t know what else I can do know beside LDAR. I mean it feels like it´s over for me.
 
>a couple dozen matches
>7 girlfriends

dude wtf
 
Dating apps are so easy why wouldn't anyone on here use them? Maybe you get lucky?

No harm in trying that. It's easy, just don't get your hopes up.
 
Also I wanna add: Have anyone tried sex websites for hookups? I just joined one but now I feel like shit seeing all these young beautiful girls seeking all sort of things, it is the ultimate blackpill! When you walk around in school and see all the girls you would just think that they´re somewhat normal but visiting that site was total blackpill, fucking sluts!
So does anyone have experiences with these sites? They´re purely for sex hookups
 
- Skip the long part/rant if lazy and get to the question...

So I´ve been on and off of the dating apps Tinder and Hot or Not for 4 years. I always just used them to get matches but the had the courage to chat with girls "mentalcell, or so I thought" The last week I´ve been trying to actively seek out girls, I know I am not good looking "I´ll describe my looks later" but I actually thought I was just a mentalcell.
I have now in the last week gotten a couple dozen matches by swiping right to everyone! At the beginning I was picky but now I swipe right to everything and try and chat with anyone. It doesn´t have to be good looking girls, I try and chat with ugly girls and fat whales that weighs 30-40kg more than me, I am 60kg btw. It is so hard for a none Chad to get hookups with girls. I am not looking for a girlfriend only sex or maybe just watching a movie and kiss if that is the only thing they want. I just want to try and get the affection from girls again. Yes I am not a truecell, not to brag because it´s against the rules and also very disrespectfull to any truecell in here.I have had several girlfriends in my teen years and my last dumped me 4 years ago and I have been incel ever since. I am not looking for a girlfriend because I don´t trust girls. I´ve had about 7 girlfriends in my life and 6 of them cheated on me, two of them with one of my best friends "2 different best friends" So NO I am not looking for a girlfriend because girls can´t be trusted! But it´s impossible for me to find sex. As some of you may know I have a bodybuilder Chad brother who have been with 50+ girls all of them minimum 7/10 for the most part 8/10-9/10 So it has been pure torture for me to witness. By now I am literally texting any girl and still I can´t get passed the chit chat, and I have to keep the conversation going which is a clear sign that they aren´t interested in me at all. What makes these dating apps more unfair is that girls just write to my brother all of the things they want to do to him and I have to struggle so much just to keep chit chat going. Not 1 single girl has showed any sexual interest in me.I asked my brother yesterday about how many girls wrote to him and vice versa. And he said that for the last 10 girls he has been texting to 9 of them wrote to him.And because he has that bodybuilding body girls are all over him it is such an injustice you can´t possible know my pain! I haven´t had sex for 4 years and I want sex!

I am not good looking I am maybe a 3/10. 4/10 if I have to be VERY generous I can PM a pic of me if you´d like to see for yourself as long as you don´t repost it. I am 170cm/ 5´7" tall and 60kg/132lbs I am skinny fat, manlet body. I have small forearms, wrist like twigs and hands like a ten year old girl. The only thing masculine about me is I have broad shoulders, that´s it! I also have various psychical conditions that cripples my "dating" like psoriasis and coating on my tongue that often gives me bad breath.

---- My question now is. After been reading for a couple of weeks in here I am now very curious to how many people in here actually is actively seeking out girls and is not just mentalcells. What do you do to actively seek out girls? Approach them in real life, dating apps? Would you please share your experiences with me.

I really don´t know what else I can do know beside LDAR. I mean it feels like it´s over for me.
Seven girlfriends.

SEVEN.

LEAVE THIS FORUM RIGHT NOW ASSHOLE.
 
>a couple dozen matches
>7 girlfriends

dude wtf
Does it sound like much? I´ve been using it for over a week, every day. And keep in mind I am not picky I swipe yes to everyone even 100kg femoids, just to try and get a conversation going
 
Seven girlfriends.

SEVEN.

LEAVE THIS FORUM RIGHT NOW ASSHOLE.
I knew this was a mistake to post, there should be a subforum for people who actually have had sex before. Many people in here has had sex before and has now become incell. George Sodini was in the same boat as me
 
I knew this was a mistake to post, there should be a subforum for people who actually have had sex before. Many people in here has had sex before and has now become incell. George Sodini was in the same boat as me
well then go create truecels.me because this shit is offensive to a person like me who has never even fucking touched a girl, let alone been in a relationship with one and let alone fucked one.
 
Does it sound like much? I´ve been using it for over a week, every day. And keep in mind I am not picky I swipe yes to everyone even 100kg femoids, just to try and get a conversation going

that's normie tier.
 
well then go create truecels.me because this shit is offensive to a person like me who has never even fucking touched a girl, let alone been in a relationship with one and let alone fucked one.
I´m sorry I tried to tone it down I just thought it was important to mention. I too is an incel now and will probably never get to even kiss a girl ever again.
Maybe I just just delete the thread and try again only asking the question about people actively seeking out girls?
 
ive given up on trying to attract girls tbh.

closed all my online dating accounts recently because girls never responded.

my last irl rejection was about 2 yrs ago.
 
Look.. most people here are like me.... Haven't seen a vagene outside of pron.

You aren't making friends. You aren't just not a truecel, you aren't even an incel. Is brad pitt an incel when he goes 4 hours without sex?
 
I´m sorry I tried to tone it down I just thought it was important to mention. I too is an incel now and will probably never get to even kiss a girl ever again.
Maybe I just just delete the thread and try again only asking the question about people actively seeking out girls?
You can't just become incel. You are born incel, and incels will die incels. Anything above that is truecel. You're truecel, while a person like me is incel.
 
Look.. most people here are like me.... Haven't seen a vagene outside of pron.

You aren't making friends. You aren't just not a truecel, you aren't even an incel. Is brad pitt an incel when he goes 4 hours without sex?
there´s a big fucking difference between 4 hours and 4 fucking years!!
 
its taboo among the incel community to admit you've had sex at one time. even if you've had these experiences you should not tell people about them on here.
 
there´s a big fucking difference between 4 hours and 4 fucking years!!

You are 24 years old and had 7 girlfriends. I could maybe understand if you got lucky once or twice but you had 7 girlfriends. 7 girls that were willing to give you sex on tap, and you aren't even a quarter of a century old.

You are not an incel.
 
You are 24 years old and had 7 girlfriends. I could maybe understand if you got lucky once or twice but you had 7 girlfriends. 7 girls that were willing to give you sex on tap, and you aren't even a quarter of a century old.

You are not an incel.

This...

And I'd go as far as to say, I don't believe you even think you're an incel. I think you are here to brag and drive a bunch of good guys into trying to commit suicide so you and your little cock can feel good about yourself. Hope you get banned.
 
This...

And I'd go as far as to say, I don't believe you even think you're an incel. I think you are here to brag and drive a bunch of good guys into trying to commit suicide so you and your little cock can feel good about yourself. Hope you get banned.
Look I have almost 200 posts try and read some of them and see who I REALLY am!
 
7 girlfriends, and none in 4 years. So you were averaging 2 girlfriends a year through your entire adult life.

I have to graze an arm sometimes to cope from rope.
Your very fucking existence here is a personal insult to all of us.
 
I knew this was a mistake to post, there should be a subforum for people who actually have had sex before. Many people in here has had sex before and has now become incell. George Sodini was in the same boat as me
It's fucking impossible to have had 7 fucking individual sloots attracted to you at any point and not be a dirty volcel. People are missing the point of the whole fucking classification. Sounds like facebook is your home.
 
Lol

This place is becoming even more suifuel than IT
 
You can´t put it that way. it happened in my teens. How long does one has to go to be incel then? 10 years, 20 years. Can I call myself an incell then? I might not be truecell but I am involentary celibate it is in the fucking words.I can´t just get sex if I want to that is what involentary celibate means
It's fucking impossible to have had 7 fucking individual sloots attracted to you at any point and not be a dirty volcel. People are missing the point of the whole fucking classification. Sounds like facebook is your home.
Because I looked good in my teens and now I look like fucking roadkill!
 
Because I looked good in my teens and now I look like fucking roadkill!
Oh come on. We both know this is obviously fucking bullshit. People don't change their looks from their 20th to their 24th birthday.
 
Ok I am just going to ignore this thread from now on. I was asking fellow incels about if they were actively seeking out girls and only one has answered that question
 
fellow incels
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Stopped reading right there. Someone ban this normgroid.
Reported

Also JFL at when he said "not to brag"
not to brag because it´s against the rules.

It reminds me of when people think saying "no offense" before an offensive statement negates the right of someone to take offense like magic, its the same retard logic of "no homo", which is why "no homo" is used sarcastically.
 
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