TheGoodGuy
Childhood was Paradise
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- Skip the long part/rant if lazy and get to the question...
So I´ve been on and off of the dating apps Tinder and Hot or Not for 4 years. I always just used them to get matches but the had the courage to chat with girls "mentalcell, or so I thought" The last week I´ve been trying to actively seek out girls, I know I am not good looking "I´ll describe my looks later" but I actually thought I was just a mentalcell.
I have now in the last week gotten a couple dozen matches by swiping right to everyone! At the beginning I was picky but now I swipe right to everything and try and chat with anyone. It doesn´t have to be good looking girls, I try and chat with ugly girls and fat whales that weighs 30-40kg more than me, I am 60kg btw. It is so hard for a none Chad to get hookups with girls. I am not looking for a girlfriend only sex or maybe just watching a movie and kiss if that is the only thing they want. I just want to try and get the affection from girls again. Yes I am not a truecell, not to brag because it´s against the rules and also very disrespectfull to any truecell in here.I have had several girlfriends in my teen years and my last dumped me 4 years ago and I have been incel ever since. I am not looking for a girlfriend because I don´t trust girls. I´ve had about 7 girlfriends in my life and 6 of them cheated on me, two of them with one of my best friends "2 different best friends" So NO I am not looking for a girlfriend because girls can´t be trusted! But it´s impossible for me to find sex. As some of you may know I have a bodybuilder Chad brother who have been with 50+ girls all of them minimum 7/10 for the most part 8/10-9/10 So it has been pure torture for me to witness. By now I am literally texting any girl and still I can´t get passed the chit chat, and I have to keep the conversation going which is a clear sign that they aren´t interested in me at all. What makes these dating apps more unfair is that girls just write to my brother all of the things they want to do to him and I have to struggle so much just to keep chit chat going. Not 1 single girl has showed any sexual interest in me.I asked my brother yesterday about how many girls wrote to him and vice versa. And he said that for the last 10 girls he has been texting to 9 of them wrote to him.And because he has that bodybuilding body girls are all over him it is such an injustice you can´t possible know my pain! I haven´t had sex for 4 years and I want sex!
I am not good looking I am maybe a 3/10. 4/10 if I have to be VERY generous I can PM a pic of me if you´d like to see for yourself as long as you don´t repost it. I am 170cm/ 5´7" tall and 60kg/132lbs I am skinny fat, manlet body. I have small forearms, wrist like twigs and hands like a ten year old girl. The only thing masculine about me is I have broad shoulders, that´s it! I also have various psychical conditions that cripples my "dating" like psoriasis and coating on my tongue that often gives me bad breath.
---- My question now is. After been reading for a couple of weeks in here I am now very curious to how many people in here actually is actively seeking out girls and is not just mentalcells. What do you do to actively seek out girls? Approach them in real life, dating apps? Would you please share your experiences with me.
I really don´t know what else I can do know beside LDAR. I mean it feels like it´s over for me.
So I´ve been on and off of the dating apps Tinder and Hot or Not for 4 years. I always just used them to get matches but the had the courage to chat with girls "mentalcell, or so I thought" The last week I´ve been trying to actively seek out girls, I know I am not good looking "I´ll describe my looks later" but I actually thought I was just a mentalcell.
I have now in the last week gotten a couple dozen matches by swiping right to everyone! At the beginning I was picky but now I swipe right to everything and try and chat with anyone. It doesn´t have to be good looking girls, I try and chat with ugly girls and fat whales that weighs 30-40kg more than me, I am 60kg btw. It is so hard for a none Chad to get hookups with girls. I am not looking for a girlfriend only sex or maybe just watching a movie and kiss if that is the only thing they want. I just want to try and get the affection from girls again. Yes I am not a truecell, not to brag because it´s against the rules and also very disrespectfull to any truecell in here.I have had several girlfriends in my teen years and my last dumped me 4 years ago and I have been incel ever since. I am not looking for a girlfriend because I don´t trust girls. I´ve had about 7 girlfriends in my life and 6 of them cheated on me, two of them with one of my best friends "2 different best friends" So NO I am not looking for a girlfriend because girls can´t be trusted! But it´s impossible for me to find sex. As some of you may know I have a bodybuilder Chad brother who have been with 50+ girls all of them minimum 7/10 for the most part 8/10-9/10 So it has been pure torture for me to witness. By now I am literally texting any girl and still I can´t get passed the chit chat, and I have to keep the conversation going which is a clear sign that they aren´t interested in me at all. What makes these dating apps more unfair is that girls just write to my brother all of the things they want to do to him and I have to struggle so much just to keep chit chat going. Not 1 single girl has showed any sexual interest in me.I asked my brother yesterday about how many girls wrote to him and vice versa. And he said that for the last 10 girls he has been texting to 9 of them wrote to him.And because he has that bodybuilding body girls are all over him it is such an injustice you can´t possible know my pain! I haven´t had sex for 4 years and I want sex!
I am not good looking I am maybe a 3/10. 4/10 if I have to be VERY generous I can PM a pic of me if you´d like to see for yourself as long as you don´t repost it. I am 170cm/ 5´7" tall and 60kg/132lbs I am skinny fat, manlet body. I have small forearms, wrist like twigs and hands like a ten year old girl. The only thing masculine about me is I have broad shoulders, that´s it! I also have various psychical conditions that cripples my "dating" like psoriasis and coating on my tongue that often gives me bad breath.
---- My question now is. After been reading for a couple of weeks in here I am now very curious to how many people in here actually is actively seeking out girls and is not just mentalcells. What do you do to actively seek out girls? Approach them in real life, dating apps? Would you please share your experiences with me.
I really don´t know what else I can do know beside LDAR. I mean it feels like it´s over for me.