Every month or two I see one of these threads and the gist is roughly the same.
> i saw a hooker
> i couldnt get hard, or i did get hard and nut, but it didnt feel as great as i thought it would
> now i dont know how i feel, or i kinda regret it
I relate to these posts, because I was in the exact same position just a little over two years ago. Just a few points I need to make:
You're more likely to read about negative experiences on this forum. Because if you describe an overwhelmingly positive experience, it's "bragging". If you talk about how you paid a fortune to a gigastacy to enthusiastically let you fuck her in every hole, it makes other users feel like shit, and your thread's responses will consist of nothing more than "
" and " ". So there's an element of voluntary response bias; you're more likely to hear from someone who just had a shit time and is now venting about it.
Your very first experience with a whore is more likely to be terrible. There are a few reasons why this is the case, but it boils down to your inexperience. To go from lifelong KHHV to fucking a stranger who you haven't seen for more than 5 minutes? It's going to be uncomfortable, especially for highinhibcels. And you probably don't know what gets you off; sure, you know what kind of porn you like, but experiencing something personally is an entirely different thing than watching something play out on a screen. Whores are also typically used to seeing clients who already know what they want, so you aren't exactly helping her either. Logistically speaking, you're also inexperienced; you're not familiar with how to book efficiently, identify the kind of service you'll receive based on the tone of the profile, scan for a bait-and-switch or for signs of trafficking, etc. You don't have the gut feeling that a more experienced escortcel eventually develops. Personally, my 2nd time with an escort was a lot better than my 1st.
Regular escortcelling is always a gamble. It actually feels a lot like a casino. You're always chasing that dopamine rush when you're on a massive win streak or when you're really turned on. In the case of fucking a whore, often that rush lasts only a few seconds, maybe a minute. Sometimes, depending on your luck, you don't get to replicate that feeling. There are lots of reasons why you might have a mediocre or even terrible meet. The whore was unattractive. Her attitude was bad. She didn't "click" with you. The language barrier was insurmountable. Her skills were terrible (e.g. a toothy blowjob). You couldn't perform because you were sleep-deprived or using prescription medication, alcohol, or anything else that affects your performance. Or you just didn't feel like it -- you were horny as fuck when you booked her, but that drive went away an hour later.
So if you're wondering whether you should lose your virginity to a whore, here's my advice:
Just do it.
Let's be honest, by the time you're 18 you already have a pretty good idea of where you are on the genetic hierarchy. If you're in your 20s and still KHHV, you have to know by now that you are undesirable, and that the most straightforward way you're having sex is by paying for it. If you are in that category and you can't stop wondering what sex is like, just fucking do it. You're not going to lose your virginity to someone who "likes you", it's not going to "be special" -- because you're rotting here while your oneitis is getting her brains fucked out by Chad. It's never going to happen. You're either losing your virginity to an escort or you are not losing it at all. So get it over with.
Hire a whore. Not immediately, of course. Do your research. Do a lot of research. Talk on online forums dedicated to this activity. Learn how pricing works in your area. Go through as many profiles as you can. Read reviews. If you live in a smaller town or rural area you might have to travel to a more populated area. If you live in a country where the legality of this activity is in question, or where the offerings are subpar and prohibitively expensive, you can consider international travel. Plan everything out, especially if you're high inhib. But definitely try to go through with it in one way or another.
You might enjoy it. That's great. You've found a new hobby; enjoy in moderation. You might not enjoy it. That's OK too; you've learnt something about yourself. Maybe you find sex kind of overrated. Or you realize that you weren't really into something as you thought you'd be. Whatever. Either way, maybe the knowledge that you can obtain sex with just a phone call and a trip to the ATM makes you less desperate and less cringey when you are around foids in the classroom or in the workplace. Or you realize that a life of wageslaving and escortceling is preferable to betabuxxing a roastie who'll end up cheating on and divorcing you anyway. Whatever. Not like you have much to lose anyway.
> i saw a hooker
> i couldnt get hard, or i did get hard and nut, but it didnt feel as great as i thought it would
> now i dont know how i feel, or i kinda regret it
I relate to these posts, because I was in the exact same position just a little over two years ago. Just a few points I need to make:
You're more likely to read about negative experiences on this forum. Because if you describe an overwhelmingly positive experience, it's "bragging". If you talk about how you paid a fortune to a gigastacy to enthusiastically let you fuck her in every hole, it makes other users feel like shit, and your thread's responses will consist of nothing more than "
" and " ". So there's an element of voluntary response bias; you're more likely to hear from someone who just had a shit time and is now venting about it.Your very first experience with a whore is more likely to be terrible. There are a few reasons why this is the case, but it boils down to your inexperience. To go from lifelong KHHV to fucking a stranger who you haven't seen for more than 5 minutes? It's going to be uncomfortable, especially for highinhibcels. And you probably don't know what gets you off; sure, you know what kind of porn you like, but experiencing something personally is an entirely different thing than watching something play out on a screen. Whores are also typically used to seeing clients who already know what they want, so you aren't exactly helping her either. Logistically speaking, you're also inexperienced; you're not familiar with how to book efficiently, identify the kind of service you'll receive based on the tone of the profile, scan for a bait-and-switch or for signs of trafficking, etc. You don't have the gut feeling that a more experienced escortcel eventually develops. Personally, my 2nd time with an escort was a lot better than my 1st.
Regular escortcelling is always a gamble. It actually feels a lot like a casino. You're always chasing that dopamine rush when you're on a massive win streak or when you're really turned on. In the case of fucking a whore, often that rush lasts only a few seconds, maybe a minute. Sometimes, depending on your luck, you don't get to replicate that feeling. There are lots of reasons why you might have a mediocre or even terrible meet. The whore was unattractive. Her attitude was bad. She didn't "click" with you. The language barrier was insurmountable. Her skills were terrible (e.g. a toothy blowjob). You couldn't perform because you were sleep-deprived or using prescription medication, alcohol, or anything else that affects your performance. Or you just didn't feel like it -- you were horny as fuck when you booked her, but that drive went away an hour later.
So if you're wondering whether you should lose your virginity to a whore, here's my advice:
Just do it.
Let's be honest, by the time you're 18 you already have a pretty good idea of where you are on the genetic hierarchy. If you're in your 20s and still KHHV, you have to know by now that you are undesirable, and that the most straightforward way you're having sex is by paying for it. If you are in that category and you can't stop wondering what sex is like, just fucking do it. You're not going to lose your virginity to someone who "likes you", it's not going to "be special" -- because you're rotting here while your oneitis is getting her brains fucked out by Chad. It's never going to happen. You're either losing your virginity to an escort or you are not losing it at all. So get it over with.
Hire a whore. Not immediately, of course. Do your research. Do a lot of research. Talk on online forums dedicated to this activity. Learn how pricing works in your area. Go through as many profiles as you can. Read reviews. If you live in a smaller town or rural area you might have to travel to a more populated area. If you live in a country where the legality of this activity is in question, or where the offerings are subpar and prohibitively expensive, you can consider international travel. Plan everything out, especially if you're high inhib. But definitely try to go through with it in one way or another.
You might enjoy it. That's great. You've found a new hobby; enjoy in moderation. You might not enjoy it. That's OK too; you've learnt something about yourself. Maybe you find sex kind of overrated. Or you realize that you weren't really into something as you thought you'd be. Whatever. Either way, maybe the knowledge that you can obtain sex with just a phone call and a trip to the ATM makes you less desperate and less cringey when you are around foids in the classroom or in the workplace. Or you realize that a life of wageslaving and escortceling is preferable to betabuxxing a roastie who'll end up cheating on and divorcing you anyway. Whatever. Not like you have much to lose anyway.
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