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In Germany there are numerous dating helps for refugees that try to bring them together with autochthonous women, but NOTHING like this exists for otherwise impaired men. If I suggested the same thing generally speaking for men with social impediments I would be called an Incel or worse:
Here the links to programmes that were specifically designed to help refugees to better connect with autochthonous women.
https://www.faz.net/aktuell/gesellschaft/menschen/ein-flirtkurs-fuer-fluechtlinge-15097150.html
A course in flirting for young refugees - a flirt coach wants to help refugees to find german girlfriends
https://www.merkur.de/lokales/bad-t...tlingen-und-jungen-lenggriesern-10111334.html
Speed dating between refugees and autochthonous people - an "innovative idea" according to the article in order to get both sites to know each other
www.br.de
The same concept in a different location, made by an organization that wants to help foreigners, they organize rides about 90min with foreign food and tea where german people and refugees/migrants can get to know each other
But hear me out:
What would be far more effective than any therap(e)y would be a dating help for autistic/schizophrenic/generally otherwise non-NT men. Particularly if you were bullied and therefore don't have the social capabilities normal for people of your age because you were never allowed to flourish/practice in social situations. These men nowadays rot at home and have no way to interact with women of their age (even if looks didn't prevent them anymore from ascending).
Therap(e)y is mostly a scam and many of us also think that it is redundant because we just want a woman and feel the same thing anyone else does (holding hands, watching the night sky with her, watching movies/TV shows with her, going around with her through a park, going to a restaurant with her, getting a kiss, cuddling or going with her to the cinema), we miss only these interpersonal things in life and mostly don't know how to specifically acquire them (many STEMcels like me have no intelligence/professional performance problems, just severe impediments in knowing where/when/how to connect with others), we only need that and nothing more.
I want an opportunity to relearn the things that I have missed due to my shitty home life, my tendency to overwork myself academically speaking and my bullying experience - and I specifically need only these things. I don't need to know anything else because everything else is already there. With my previous stays in mental institutions/therapy programmes/autistic inclusion programmes I got NOTHING that benefited me in my problems, running around/playing Tennis with other disabled men is nothing that I need when I have severe trouble with connecting with women - it doesn't help me. The only advice out there is PUA which is complete bullshit (like every sub-chad with half a functioning brain knows).
I would suggest that these programmes that exist in many European countries to specifically help refugees/migrants to find partners should be implemented for autistic/schizophrenic/otherwise non-NT men instead that are in a far more dire situation anyways.
TL;DR: A dating help (similiar to that for foreigners) should be established to help Autistcels and other neurodivergents to find GFs (help to establish normal interpersonal skills) - but that won't happen because our so(y)ciety is a hypocritical shithole, therap(e)y is useless, if you want to help us don't suggest therap(e)y suggest that
@Mountainbikecel
Here the links to programmes that were specifically designed to help refugees to better connect with autochthonous women.
https://www.faz.net/aktuell/gesellschaft/menschen/ein-flirtkurs-fuer-fluechtlinge-15097150.html
A course in flirting for young refugees - a flirt coach wants to help refugees to find german girlfriends
https://www.merkur.de/lokales/bad-t...tlingen-und-jungen-lenggriesern-10111334.html
Speed dating between refugees and autochthonous people - an "innovative idea" according to the article in order to get both sites to know each other
Speed-Dating mit Flüchtlingen in Nürnberg
In der Straßenbahn können Nürnberger und Flüchtlinge sich am Sonntag in Nürnberg beim Speed-Dating kennen lernen. Die jeweils 90-minütigen Fahrten starten um 15 und um 17 Uhr an der Straßenbahn-Insel am Hauptbahnhof. Von Judith Dauwalter
But hear me out:
What would be far more effective than any therap(e)y would be a dating help for autistic/schizophrenic/generally otherwise non-NT men. Particularly if you were bullied and therefore don't have the social capabilities normal for people of your age because you were never allowed to flourish/practice in social situations. These men nowadays rot at home and have no way to interact with women of their age (even if looks didn't prevent them anymore from ascending).
Therap(e)y is mostly a scam and many of us also think that it is redundant because we just want a woman and feel the same thing anyone else does (holding hands, watching the night sky with her, watching movies/TV shows with her, going around with her through a park, going to a restaurant with her, getting a kiss, cuddling or going with her to the cinema), we miss only these interpersonal things in life and mostly don't know how to specifically acquire them (many STEMcels like me have no intelligence/professional performance problems, just severe impediments in knowing where/when/how to connect with others), we only need that and nothing more.
I want an opportunity to relearn the things that I have missed due to my shitty home life, my tendency to overwork myself academically speaking and my bullying experience - and I specifically need only these things. I don't need to know anything else because everything else is already there. With my previous stays in mental institutions/therapy programmes/autistic inclusion programmes I got NOTHING that benefited me in my problems, running around/playing Tennis with other disabled men is nothing that I need when I have severe trouble with connecting with women - it doesn't help me. The only advice out there is PUA which is complete bullshit (like every sub-chad with half a functioning brain knows).
I would suggest that these programmes that exist in many European countries to specifically help refugees/migrants to find partners should be implemented for autistic/schizophrenic/otherwise non-NT men instead that are in a far more dire situation anyways.
TL;DR: A dating help (similiar to that for foreigners) should be established to help Autistcels and other neurodivergents to find GFs (help to establish normal interpersonal skills) - but that won't happen because our so(y)ciety is a hypocritical shithole, therap(e)y is useless, if you want to help us don't suggest therap(e)y suggest that
@Mountainbikecel





