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It shows that you value yourself as a person and your time. It shows that your patience has it limits and that the things others take for granted are in fact nothing more than a favor; it shows that you aren't willing to let others shit in your face, because you want something back. A person gets called "entitled" when he correctly identifies a sisyphean task as a sisphean task and refuses to participate in a rigged game. For example: Imagine if someone played with a rigged dice in a game of chance and someone calls him out for it, then the other person says "You weren't guaranteed to win anyways, because you aren't entitled to winning!" - completely retarded: Of course I wasn't guaranteed to win, but the game is still rigged in your favor and the truth within my words remains unchanged.
Furthermore, what's wrong with wanting something back for your efforts? My efforts (e.g. being nice, working out, having a job) are (like the efforts of all people) a favor (on a hopefully reciprocal basis) - not a thing that should be taken for granted. But when men do it it's the absolute bare minimum according to normies while they kiss the ass of every woman that does the same thing and praise that woman into oblivion. When a woman does the things that they take for granted when it affects men they see her as something special.
And even if these things (e.g. being nice, working out, having a job) were the bare minimum, they still require (sometimes enormous) efforts and why should I put futile efforts into something when I get nothing back? Then I can say "Fuck it!" as well when it doesn't change anything about the results I achieve. You just admitted that you have no form of leverage over me, so why should I follow your orders or respect your advice when you openly say that you hate/despise me?
Ultimately when people criticize you for being "entitled", they criticize you for recognizing a rigged game as rigged and having enough pride/courage to call them out on it instead of taking it like a scared, little boy. They have no problem with your suffering, they have a problem when you vocalize your anger about it. It's pathognomonic for our modern zeitgeist that wanting something back for your efforts is seen as something pathological.
Furthermore, what's wrong with wanting something back for your efforts? My efforts (e.g. being nice, working out, having a job) are (like the efforts of all people) a favor (on a hopefully reciprocal basis) - not a thing that should be taken for granted. But when men do it it's the absolute bare minimum according to normies while they kiss the ass of every woman that does the same thing and praise that woman into oblivion. When a woman does the things that they take for granted when it affects men they see her as something special.
And even if these things (e.g. being nice, working out, having a job) were the bare minimum, they still require (sometimes enormous) efforts and why should I put futile efforts into something when I get nothing back? Then I can say "Fuck it!" as well when it doesn't change anything about the results I achieve. You just admitted that you have no form of leverage over me, so why should I follow your orders or respect your advice when you openly say that you hate/despise me?
Ultimately when people criticize you for being "entitled", they criticize you for recognizing a rigged game as rigged and having enough pride/courage to call them out on it instead of taking it like a scared, little boy. They have no problem with your suffering, they have a problem when you vocalize your anger about it. It's pathognomonic for our modern zeitgeist that wanting something back for your efforts is seen as something pathological.