U
Approach zone - the metro
I'd already been rejected like 8-10 times. I went to girl on her phone and said directly without hello or some shit - YOU LOOK SYMPATHETIC.
Here's the convo by memory:
You look sympathetic ( I say this and look her in the eyes like a killer)
Thanks.
So, what are you up to this evening? Going home? Have you planned something?
Going home.
What's you name? (pause) Or it's a secret
After a second, she extended her arm and said her name with a smile.
THANK NEVER HAPPENS. THAT HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO ME AFTER 100+ APPROACHES NEVER EVER
EXTENDING HER ARM AND SAYING HER NAME WITH A SMILE.
Hi. My name is Niki.
Cool. I'm X.
Then we got on the train. I sat next to her and we continued talking.
What do you work?
I work In a laser center.
You mean like hair removal?
Yes.
Well, let's just say that the likelihood of me becoming a client is slim.
She started laughing and said. I know most of our clients are women.
Ok. I work as a web developer.
Cool.
Where do you get off?
Stations X (it was far away but was deeply fucking me and I couldn't go there. I had to get off after 2 stations or else I was going to Fuckland)
I understand. Look, if you want we can continue out conversation on Viber or another message app?
At this point I wasn't 100% convinced that I will get her number, but it was in the realm of my belief. Had I not been rejected 100+ times, I would had been 100% certain.
She said:
WAIT FOR IT
She said:
With great pleasure BUT MY BOYFRIEND WOULDN'T APPROVE.
This is when I started to lose my frame (inb4 TRP) and actually made a conscious effort to improve my posture and pushed my chest out as if I am the proudest motherfucker on the Earth.
And then I said: I understand. I guess he wouldn't want you to talk to stranger.
She kinda sensed that I feel cheated (or at least I think so) and said: Haha
Then I asked her where she is from and I told her where I am from.
Then my station came and I said: Have a nice evening. Said hi at home.
Ok. (she said with some sort of disappointment)
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What is the moral of the story?
I gave a roastie validation. She wanted to use me to make her Friday more exciting and that's it.
SHE KNEW ALL ALONG THAT SHE WILL REJECT ME.
Yet acted very friendly and was hyper receptive.
I'd already been rejected like 8-10 times. I went to girl on her phone and said directly without hello or some shit - YOU LOOK SYMPATHETIC.
Here's the convo by memory:
You look sympathetic ( I say this and look her in the eyes like a killer)
Thanks.
So, what are you up to this evening? Going home? Have you planned something?
Going home.
What's you name? (pause) Or it's a secret
After a second, she extended her arm and said her name with a smile.
THANK NEVER HAPPENS. THAT HAS NEVER HAPPENED TO ME AFTER 100+ APPROACHES NEVER EVER
EXTENDING HER ARM AND SAYING HER NAME WITH A SMILE.
Hi. My name is Niki.
Cool. I'm X.
Then we got on the train. I sat next to her and we continued talking.
What do you work?
I work In a laser center.
You mean like hair removal?
Yes.
Well, let's just say that the likelihood of me becoming a client is slim.
She started laughing and said. I know most of our clients are women.
Ok. I work as a web developer.
Cool.
Where do you get off?
Stations X (it was far away but was deeply fucking me and I couldn't go there. I had to get off after 2 stations or else I was going to Fuckland)
I understand. Look, if you want we can continue out conversation on Viber or another message app?
At this point I wasn't 100% convinced that I will get her number, but it was in the realm of my belief. Had I not been rejected 100+ times, I would had been 100% certain.
She said:
WAIT FOR IT
She said:
With great pleasure BUT MY BOYFRIEND WOULDN'T APPROVE.
This is when I started to lose my frame (inb4 TRP) and actually made a conscious effort to improve my posture and pushed my chest out as if I am the proudest motherfucker on the Earth.
And then I said: I understand. I guess he wouldn't want you to talk to stranger.
She kinda sensed that I feel cheated (or at least I think so) and said: Haha
Then I asked her where she is from and I told her where I am from.
Then my station came and I said: Have a nice evening. Said hi at home.
Ok. (she said with some sort of disappointment)
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What is the moral of the story?
I gave a roastie validation. She wanted to use me to make her Friday more exciting and that's it.
SHE KNEW ALL ALONG THAT SHE WILL REJECT ME.
Yet acted very friendly and was hyper receptive.
