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You always say to us "Get out, meet people, get involved in platonic relationships with girls at first and then a romantic relationship will come along!", but at the same time you shame men who complain about the friendzone because they didn't make their intentions clear - so you clearly give us contradictory advice.
On the one hand we should try it with platonic relationships (friendships/etc.) first and then we should hope for an escalation into the romantic/sexual territory, but on the other hand you shame people for doing exactly the thing that you always recommend.
Give me an honest response to that: "How are you supposed to talk to women when you want romantic/sexual relationships ultimately?" If we make our intentions clear (e.g. we want a relationship and sex) it's creepy/pushy/cringeworthy/etc., if we hope for a platonic relationship that escalates into a romantic/sexual one we are le cringy nice guys. So what do you want us to do then? You always say the exact opposite.
On the one hand we should try it with platonic relationships (friendships/etc.) first and then we should hope for an escalation into the romantic/sexual territory, but on the other hand you shame people for doing exactly the thing that you always recommend.
Give me an honest response to that: "How are you supposed to talk to women when you want romantic/sexual relationships ultimately?" If we make our intentions clear (e.g. we want a relationship and sex) it's creepy/pushy/cringeworthy/etc., if we hope for a platonic relationship that escalates into a romantic/sexual one we are le cringy nice guys. So what do you want us to do then? You always say the exact opposite.