I've been doing some readings lately on psychiatrists and psychological thinkers ((PSYCHOLOGISTS I KNOW JFL)) and I've compared that to many of the fetish's I've heard on this forum and from real life involuntary celibates. One thinker who's caught my attention in particular is Nathaniel Brandon, husband of Ayn Rand and writer of "the Psychology of Self-Esteem - Harvard Edition". The book is primary about the causes, benefits, and origins of man's self-esteem and if I could summarize the message into a concise statement it would be "the root of all psychological problems stem from subliminal repression and denial of reality". Brandon argues that the human mind is built for logic, emotional denying of reality is a trait only beneficial for the suitability of certain animals; and therefore if humans engage in repression it only causes us psychological harm.
I've had complaints about my long posts before so I will condense this a little bit and jump through a few logical hopes for simplicity. The true state of our existence is so unbearable for us that we have chosen to repress its truth (bluepill is a perfect example but not the only example of this phenomena). We delude ourselves with copes and faulty ideas to make our lives barable. This may actually be preferable to our state of survival, as many more people would rope if didn't have the ability to copemax with delusions. Fetishes are one of the ultimate forms of cope. Fetishes turn sexual fears and failures into positives by giving us pleasure for what we should be repulsed by. Homosexuality and transsexualism is a perfect example. The hot homosexual is largely a myth, most homosexuals (and transgenders) come from broken environments and suffer poor genetics and turn to men as a cope since they would rope if they had to come to accept they would never get women. Cuck and humiliation fetishes are another example. When you are humiliated in the sexual market-place for so long, watching your crushes all throughout middle, highschool, and college make out with your bullies in front of you at parties; especially if you're mocked for it, it takes a toll. People begin to develop a fetish for being cucked and humiliated since the bare truth of being too ugly and inferior to rise in the dominance hierarchy is too hard to handle. Another way the cuck fetish develops is when you become so destitute that even the idea of having sex with a women becomes so unrealistic it's impossible even to fantasies about it, although this fetish develops in a later stage of blackpill acceptance.
This explains why inceltears are such cucks, homosexuals, and transsexuals. It also explains a lot of the twisted rape and women-beater fetishes seen on this forum. These are not your natural sexual states, these are ways your brain protects you. The same can be said about individuals on this forum who say they don't want a girlfriend, love, or affection, all they want is raw sex. Your lizard-mind knows that a women who isn't genuinely attracted to you is not an ideal partner, she will probably not care for your offspring. A women who shows genuine care for you and desires long-term commitment will put much more work into raising your off-spring as best she can and thus give them a better chance of survival. It's natural and normal to desire sex, love, and validation; dehumanizing women and desiring them as "fuckholes" is not healthy. It is a COPING mechanism to protect you from the fact that no women will ever desire you. This post is not to demean anyone or legitimize any incel critics but to spark serious self-reflection in the pursuit of truth. Never be afraid to investigate your mind, whatever you find is already a part of you.
I've had complaints about my long posts before so I will condense this a little bit and jump through a few logical hopes for simplicity. The true state of our existence is so unbearable for us that we have chosen to repress its truth (bluepill is a perfect example but not the only example of this phenomena). We delude ourselves with copes and faulty ideas to make our lives barable. This may actually be preferable to our state of survival, as many more people would rope if didn't have the ability to copemax with delusions. Fetishes are one of the ultimate forms of cope. Fetishes turn sexual fears and failures into positives by giving us pleasure for what we should be repulsed by. Homosexuality and transsexualism is a perfect example. The hot homosexual is largely a myth, most homosexuals (and transgenders) come from broken environments and suffer poor genetics and turn to men as a cope since they would rope if they had to come to accept they would never get women. Cuck and humiliation fetishes are another example. When you are humiliated in the sexual market-place for so long, watching your crushes all throughout middle, highschool, and college make out with your bullies in front of you at parties; especially if you're mocked for it, it takes a toll. People begin to develop a fetish for being cucked and humiliated since the bare truth of being too ugly and inferior to rise in the dominance hierarchy is too hard to handle. Another way the cuck fetish develops is when you become so destitute that even the idea of having sex with a women becomes so unrealistic it's impossible even to fantasies about it, although this fetish develops in a later stage of blackpill acceptance.
This explains why inceltears are such cucks, homosexuals, and transsexuals. It also explains a lot of the twisted rape and women-beater fetishes seen on this forum. These are not your natural sexual states, these are ways your brain protects you. The same can be said about individuals on this forum who say they don't want a girlfriend, love, or affection, all they want is raw sex. Your lizard-mind knows that a women who isn't genuinely attracted to you is not an ideal partner, she will probably not care for your offspring. A women who shows genuine care for you and desires long-term commitment will put much more work into raising your off-spring as best she can and thus give them a better chance of survival. It's natural and normal to desire sex, love, and validation; dehumanizing women and desiring them as "fuckholes" is not healthy. It is a COPING mechanism to protect you from the fact that no women will ever desire you. This post is not to demean anyone or legitimize any incel critics but to spark serious self-reflection in the pursuit of truth. Never be afraid to investigate your mind, whatever you find is already a part of you.
