Blackpill A life of jestering makes YOU the joke

[DoublePoints]

The more relationships I get into, the more I find myself the common denominator. Especially in groups, the butt of the joke, the punching bag. From primary school till now, I guess this is the cross we bear with being ND, perhaps normal people can sense it and target us because of it.

It’s 6AM, haven’t slept. I’m in uni now and I’ve been rotting pretty bad this last week, first time in my life I’ve been consistently waking up at 5-7PM, I’ve always been a good student but I haven’t been going to my lectures, I’m in another cycle of nihilism. Last night I was sitting with some “friends” and all the jokes just kept flying at me, I could just sense the aggravation at me being in the room, so I left, which was met with celebrations.

The worst of all is these 2 foids, I’m basically a joke to my flat of pretty much all girls (5’6”, height jokes from almost every girl I’ve talked to, 5 minutes into talking to a friend of a friend, I get up, she pauses: “am I taller than you?” (She was not)) For whatever pathetic reason I’ve stayed up playing Mario kart with them, they make sexual jokes constantly, joking about fucking me and having threesomes, but of course the irony is why they make those jokes, how they’re sluts and such.

Maybe because no one takes anything I say seriously as result of jestering, I call them whores to their faces and they just laugh it off, tonight I just sat back between the jokes and realised how pathetic this all was. Ones bitching about her ex and they’re laughing about guys they’ve fucked, they keep asking me “who’s your two favourite flatmates” and asking if I like them.

Welcome to being a walking talking joke guys, back to bed alone. JFL

 

[VanGobbel]

 

[StoryOfMyLaugh]

Based First Post

 

[boni]

Miserable fags on here will make fun of you for even having friends at all.

Unrelated to this post, but I really think we need to separate the "involuntary celibate" part from "neurodivergent autistic retard". You can be an incel because you're an autistic retard, but that doesn't mean you can't be an incel because you're not an autistic retard. Just because someone is sub-5 doesn't mean they can't make friends. You will of course be the butt of every joke unfortunately, as we can see in this case

 

[darkie]

The more relationships I get into, the more I find myself the common denominator. Especially in groups, the butt of the joke, the punching bag. From primary school till now, I guess this is the cross we bear with being ND, perhaps normal people can sense it and target us because of it.

It’s 6AM, haven’t slept. I’m in uni now and I’ve been rotting pretty bad this last week, first time in my life I’ve been consistently waking up at 5-7PM, I’ve always been a good student but I haven’t been going to my lectures, I’m in another cycle of nihilism. Last night I was sitting with some “friends” and all the jokes just kept flying at me, I could just sense the aggravation at me being in the room, so I left, which was met with celebrations.

The worst of all is these 2 foids, I’m basically a joke to my flat of pretty much all girls (5’6”, height jokes from almost every girl I’ve talked to, 5 minutes into talking to a friend of a friend, I get up, she pauses: “am I taller than you?” (She was not)) For whatever pathetic reason I’ve stayed up playing Mario kart with them, they make sexual jokes constantly, joking about fucking me and having threesomes, but of course the irony is why they make those jokes, how they’re sluts and such.

Maybe because no one takes anything I say seriously as result of jestering, I call them whores to their faces and they just laugh it off, tonight I just sat back between the jokes and realised how pathetic this all was. Ones bitching about her ex and they’re laughing about guys they’ve fucked, they keep asking me “who’s your two favourite flatmates” and asking if I like them.

Welcome to being a walking talking joke guys, back to bed alone. JFL

Become a neet

 

[Nithingr]

Very relateable first post, except the cohabitating with foids. Run nigga, run.

 

[SaintSmerdyakov]

Miserable fags on here will make fun of you for even having friends at all.

Unrelated to this post, but I really think we need to separate the "involuntary celibate" part from "neurodivergent autistic retard". You can be an incel because you're an autistic retard, but that doesn't mean you can't be an incel because you're not an autistic retard. Just because someone is sub-5 doesn't mean they can't make friends. You will of course be the butt of every joke unfortunately, as we can see in this case

Shut the fuck up grey, freindhavers are worse than sexhavers

 

[ParasiteToSociety]

Miserable fags on here will make fun of you for even having friends at all.

Ok GrAY

 

[boni]

Ok GrAY

this is incels.is not neurodivergentretards.is, its possible to make friends if youre neurotypical

 

[The Death Devil]

This is why I will never, never take any soyfaggot who advises to 'joke about your inadequacies' seriously. There's nothing wrong with occasionally allowing a joke about yourself to be spoken. Even then, I would only allow it if it was spoken by people I am extremely close with and that I know have a degree of respect for me. If it is anyone else, I would take it as an insult because that's what it ultimately is—an insult.

If you willingly allow yourself to be joked about constantly, people will lose respect for you. Admittedly, if you're an incel, they probably didn't have any for you to begin with—but you should at least have enough respect for yourself to reject those insults. The longer you keep allowing yourself to be mocked, the worse it gets. Over time people will start just outright trying to insult you and masquerade those insults as jokes so that you can't do anything about it. Eventually they start talking behind your back and then, suddenly, you're an undesirable creature that nobody wants around.

Again, though, even if you disallow such jokes about yourself, they're just going to do it behind your back anyway. But it's still a matter of self-pride. The easiest solution is to just talk to nobody to begin with. Socialization is a joke when you're an incel. Keep a few close friends and nothing more.

 

[DoublePoints]

This is why I will never, never take any soyfaggot who advises to 'joke about your inadequacies' seriously. There's nothing wrong with occasionally allowing a joke about yourself to be spoken. Even then, I would only allow it if it was spoken by people I am extremely close with and that I know have a degree of respect for me. If it is anyone else, I would take it as an insult because that's what it ultimately is—an insult.

If you willingly allow yourself to be joked about constantly, people will lose respect for you. Admittedly, if you're an incel, they probably didn't have any for you to begin with—but you should at least have enough respect for yourself to reject those insults. The longer you keep allowing yourself to be mocked, the worse it gets. Over time people will start just outright trying to insult you and masquerade those insults as jokes so that you can't do anything about it. Eventually they start talking behind your back and then, suddenly, you're an undesirable creature that nobody wants around.

Again, though, even if you disallow such jokes about yourself, they're just going to do it behind your back anyway. But it's still a matter of self-pride. The easiest solution is to just talk to nobody to begin with. Socialization is a joke when you're an incel. Keep a few close friends and nothing more.

Yeah seeing shit repeat itself across different friend groups and school made me much more removed and bitter in these settings, I enjoy a mix of being alone and with friends, and just leave or mentally disengage from the group if I get bullied. I found one on one is the best way to combat this, no group dynamic bullshit and any insults are in a 50/50 kinda way