I don’t daydream often but I’m presenting this as a mental framework: I feel miraculously uplifted whenever I think of a hypothetical scenario through which I feel happy for having a girlfriend. You can try this for yourself, it’ll feel like a drug. A temporary cure.
In contrast to ugly people always feeling like utter shit and exhausted for the smallest of things, struggling to find a reason to live, women and good-looking men always feel an underlying sense of fulfillment and satisfaction from just the minute-to-minute interactions. Why wouldn’t you be when the entire world values you for just existing?
This is why you will NEVER, EVER, not in a million years, find yourself a truly “muh introverted” or miserably in-her-own-shell type of woman (hint: they don’t exist), they are always happy, they are always energetic from the inside (yes, even the ones who LARP as depressed), they are always trying to be witty and playful, you see them all the time on social media, that but x10 IRL. They see life as their playground, something that’s secondary and almost as infantile as ugly men. They go from ten different social departments to another in the span of a week. The scope and range of their opportunities is so wide, you couldn’t have believed if you’d lived a day in their shoes.
The same applies to relationships.
Yes, having a girlfriend will solve all your issues.
Yes, having a girlfriend will save you from self-sabotage.
Yes, having a girlfriend will stop you from contemplating suicide.
Don’t let normies gaslight you. Development is impossible on your own. You need love to grow. Loneliness is beyond destructive. It’ll cause you to make extremely dumb decisions, while on the other hand, not being lonely and isolated and having friends, girlfriends and a good & healthy social circle will give you a handful of good choices to pick from (i.e., it’ll help pave the way for better things to come, giving you that sense of purpose and the allowance to become the best version of yourself that you can strive to be).
In contrast to ugly people always feeling like utter shit and exhausted for the smallest of things, struggling to find a reason to live, women and good-looking men always feel an underlying sense of fulfillment and satisfaction from just the minute-to-minute interactions. Why wouldn’t you be when the entire world values you for just existing?
This is why you will NEVER, EVER, not in a million years, find yourself a truly “muh introverted” or miserably in-her-own-shell type of woman (hint: they don’t exist), they are always happy, they are always energetic from the inside (yes, even the ones who LARP as depressed), they are always trying to be witty and playful, you see them all the time on social media, that but x10 IRL. They see life as their playground, something that’s secondary and almost as infantile as ugly men. They go from ten different social departments to another in the span of a week. The scope and range of their opportunities is so wide, you couldn’t have believed if you’d lived a day in their shoes.
The same applies to relationships.
Yes, having a girlfriend will solve all your issues.
Yes, having a girlfriend will save you from self-sabotage.
Yes, having a girlfriend will stop you from contemplating suicide.
Don’t let normies gaslight you. Development is impossible on your own. You need love to grow. Loneliness is beyond destructive. It’ll cause you to make extremely dumb decisions, while on the other hand, not being lonely and isolated and having friends, girlfriends and a good & healthy social circle will give you a handful of good choices to pick from (i.e., it’ll help pave the way for better things to come, giving you that sense of purpose and the allowance to become the best version of yourself that you can strive to be).
