How do you talk about blackpill studies when the racism and misogyny is what we are known for and the first thing anybody sees when they come here? Nobody cares about anything else outside of that. @OutcompetedByRoomba you should know this as well
It will be impossible to police every online space where incels meet to ensure we always look presentable to a wider audience. It's not a fair requirment nor a standard any group can hold themselfs to realistically.
I wish people on here wouldn't be so enthusiastic about shitposting for shock value, I wish there wouldn't be so many incels holding offensively stupid ideas in earnest and I would prefer if we could somehow all coordinate to behave in such a way as to give our opposition as little attack surface as possible. But those things won't happen. These spaces collect people that have no place anywhere else, and that often means people with extreme(ly offensive) oppinions / ideas.
But to some extent that is true of all groups. Blacks are one of the favorite victim groups of the left despite murdermaxxing wherever they go. The left is very much capable and willing to forgive such transgression, if it sees any reason to do so.
W/e shape a public representative of our interests might take, they will simply have to distance themselfs from any and all race related stuff unrelated to dating dynamics. The unspeakable oppinions on here will simply be presented as individual nutcases or as the result from isolation, unresolved hurt and humiliation.
If you can excuse murder and violence as a result of circumstances (the left likes to argue that poverty causes theft and racism and discimination cause violence), you can do the same for mean words (we will argue isolation and lifelong suffering -> hatefilled world view). It's not fair to expect incels to be some perfectly moral group of ideal human specimen before we are granted empathy and support by society. And we shouldn't allow others to apply such a standard to us. Reject it right from the beginning. Otherwise we already lost.
We will only succeed if we get men as a whole on our side, or at least a sizeable portion of men, at which point the people with the most extreme oppinions will simply be an invisbily small minority. Once there is some real hope, many on here will choose to stfu with all the overtly abrasive takes, at least in spaces where incels and normies directly interact. Those that are determined to make us look as bad as possible in front of everyone will simply be expelled and considered as infiltrators or disturbed individuals. And that will have to be good enough. More is not realistically possible.
Incels / low status men as a group are deserving of empathy and support, no matter what kind of offensive nonsense some of us promulgate or how unacceptable the opinions some of us hold might seem to the rest of polite society. Anything less is unacceptable.