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DNR: You have no friends if you've never entered their home (/vise versa). You have no friends if you've never talked to them outside of obligatory social settings. You have no friends if you don't hang out regularly. You have no friends if they keep secrets from you. YHNF if you have different religions, cultures, values, morals, politics, etc etc,,,,,,

If this applies to your "friends," then they will abandon you like a sick dog and the only question is when.


I know this sounds like an exaggeration, but the modern way of doing things in society really has killed true friendship. When normies say the word "friends," they usually just mean a stranger who they can like.... kiiinda talk to while forcing themselves to do arbitrary shit that they don't even enjoy such as school or work. Once you boil it down, its not friendly at all, that's really just mandatory association more than anything.

Just compare that to how companionship works in nature if you still think the title isn't accurate. Your friends were essentially an extended part of your family since you needed one another to live, and not even 100 years ago were people with no legal relationship still writing wills for their buddies as if that was just a normal thing to do.
(It is.)

Today, you pretty much never see the kind of bond where humans are genuinely willing to eat, sleep, play, and die with one another if you're not a conjoined twin or something. It's really pathetic how most normies' idea of a "friend" is actually one of the weakest connections to ever be concepted in all of history. Your family shouldn't split after any kind of disagreement, and that should apply to your friends as well. I have not the slightest idea why those two words have become so mutually distant when that relationship should practically be the same thing from afar.
 
I used to have friends but a lot of them chose foids over me and now I'm all alone, that happens with age.
 
saar nobody have friends saar
I truly never had friends
 
Agreed, I've been saying this forever. The term "friend" is basically meaningless today. I know with numerous women, it's seriously anyone they've ever contacted before.

Most people you come across are probably just as lonely as you are. No, talking to someone on your phone or whatever social media doesn't count. The difference is they are treated better and they have social options, while we have little or none.
 
I wish i had real friends but nobody want to actually bond
 
DNR: You have no friends if you've never entered their home (/vise versa). You have no friends if you've never talked to them outside of obligatory social settings. You have no friends if you don't hang out regularly. You have no friends if they keep secrets from you. YHNF if you have different religions, cultures, values, morals, politics, etc etc,,,,,,

I would say you are right that most people today confuse acquaintanceship with friendship, but I do not agree with your criteria. To me, a friend is not defined by whether he lets you into his home or whether you share every cultural or political value. A friend is someone who restrains himself for the sake of cooperation, who upholds the norms you both live by, who contributes to your well being, and who defends what you both share when it is threatened. That bond can exist without constant socializing or total agreement on secondary matters.
 
I wish i had real friends but nobody want to actually bond
Even worse they probably don't even know how.

Worse still some may actually simply lack the ability.
 
I would say you are right that most people today confuse acquaintanceship with friendship, but I do not agree with your criteria. To me, a friend is not defined by whether he lets you into his home or whether you share every cultural or political value. A friend is someone who restrains himself for the sake of cooperation, who upholds the norms you both live by, who contributes to your well being, and who defends what you both share when it is threatened. That bond can exist without constant socializing or total agreement on secondary matters.
I think I worded it poorly on my part, most of the stuff in that list was meant in the context of the modern "friendships" that I described in the post.
 
If this applies to your "friends," then they will abandon you like a sick dog and the only question is when.
I had a few friends in high school, but after high school everyone went their separate ways (some thousands of miles away) and never saw or spoke to one another again.

You might have a friend or two, but with the modern world everyone moves on a regular basis. Your friends will, sooner than you expect, move far away and that's that. And corresponding with a far away friend via email or Facebook isn't nearly the same.
 
Only enemies…
 
I think I worded it poorly on my part, most of the stuff in that list was meant in the context of the modern "friendships" that I described in the post.
Oversocialization ironically has killed friendship.
 
More like 99.999% of people have friends
 
High IQ take tbh most normies "friends" are to selfish to think about other as them selves as human
 
Just about everyone I ever called "friend" is gone forever.

:cryfeels: :cryfeels: :cryfeels:
 
Every single person that I know in rl has friends, except me
 
people do have friends, BUT THEY ARE WINNERS-- and part of winning is that sense of sincere and respectful collaboration.

no friends for LOSERS though, losers are built for exploitation by the superior, FOR the superior, and to not be a part of this humiliation is to confine you into true forced loneliness.
 
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DNR: You have no friends if you've never entered their home (/vise versa). You have no friends if you've never talked to them outside of obligatory social settings. You have no friends if you don't hang out regularly. You have no friends if they keep secrets from you. YHNF if you have different religions, cultures, values, morals, politics, etc etc,,,,,,

If this applies to your "friends," then they will abandon you like a sick dog and the only question is when.


I know this sounds like an exaggeration, but the modern way of doing things in society really has killed true friendship. When normies say the word "friends," they usually just mean a stranger who they can like.... kiiinda talk to while forcing themselves to do arbitrary shit that they don't even enjoy such as school or work. Once you boil it down, its not friendly at all, that's really just mandatory association more than anything.

Just compare that to how companionship works in nature if you still think the title isn't accurate. Your friends were essentially an extended part of your family since you needed one another to live, and not even 100 years ago were people with no legal relationship still writing wills for their buddies as if that was just a normal thing to do.
(It is.)

Today, you pretty much never see the kind of bond where humans are genuinely willing to eat, sleep, play, and die with one another if you're not a conjoined twin or something. It's really pathetic how most normies' idea of a "friend" is actually one of the weakest connections to ever be concepted in all of history. Your family shouldn't split after any kind of disagreement, and that should apply to your friends as well. I have not the slightest idea why those two words have become so mutually distant when that relationship should practically be the same thing from afar.
It’s crazy how one time there was this guy who considered me a friend even though he had no interest in hanging out or texting me. Makes zero sense to me. Friends just means acquaintances now.
 
The average mormie has more friends than posts on this forum
 
Hm. I guess I have diluted the meaning of friendship over time as people have become more distant. Interesting. :waitwhat:
 
I wish i had real friends but nobody want to actually bond
Even with other incels I talk to them temporary but all of a sudden we stop talking
 
my last attempt to make a friend was in 2018, and I failed miserably because of my poverty. I simply had nothing to offer, to be honest.
 
99.99% concentrated copium
 
What the fuck even is this forum anymore?
 
i swear. bro just typing shit
99.99% concentrated copium
Its not a coincidence that normies can't stick together for more than a year
Genuinely brainrotted by society if you seriously believe this loose associate dynamic can actually be called friendship

This shit used to consistently last lifetimes in the past
 
i hate my life
 

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