ive said this for ages, women are society. If it was about sex, then fleshlights, hookers, SEAmaxxing etc would be enough. But its clearly more than that. Free sex from a woman, I stress free, is a signal of acceptance from all of society. Women accept you = everyone accepts you. You get job offers, more friends, other women treat you better etc. Basically getting free sex from a woman is to return to lovebombing stage of childhood, where mommy selectively rewards you with cuddles, treats and gives you order, structure and acceptance. That's the actual goal. The whole BP shit goes way deeper than relationships and sex. Men are raised to not exist apart from women granting them existence. It's reverse narcissism. The man is raised to have a woman shaped hole in his heart. He cant have feelings, joys, anything without female approval.
Hence playing video games alone is bad, but playing it while having a gf or with a gf is good.
The mans only accepted behavior absent female validation is to engage in self loathing. Self loathing is the male version of virtue signalling. The female version is inventing ever more fantastical victim larps and proclaiming their own value. Notice the female victim larp is connected to the male self loathing shit - they go hand in hand. Man accuse themselves of being shit because they dont have women, or because they dont have things women value i.e. looks, status etc. Man remodels himself in the image of woman, most men are basically women in terms of their values, because being a man = catering to womens stated needs. So most men run on female values, they are made in the image of women, since women raise them and instill female values in them through formative years.
Men complaining about being a looser = virtue signalling to society about how much of a sinner they are for falling short of "god" (female approval). A lot of these guys have normal jobs, are in their 20s, healthy. Their only issue is that they live alone or with male roommates. The missing piece is women, not pussy, female validation. The second a man gets foid attention they do a 180°, start acting all wise and mightier than thou and shit lmfao. They abandon their old male friends for the foid. No honor among thieves, no rest for the wicked. It's like someone leaving the army or prison, the second they escape from that oppressive cause that united them, they turn heel.
Getting a gf alienates a man from his single male friends like winning the lottery alienates you from family members and extended community around you. It's a massive bump in status, puts pressure on everyone around you too. The mommy dom gf shit obviously is connected to all of this. So in summary, I am not surprised that most of these men get more out of talking to these hoes than actually fucking or fapping to them. They are just ugly men that want a hug from mommy. Kinda sad, kinda devastating but it is what it is. Raised to be co-dependent and have stockholm syndrome for their abusers. It's hilarious how foids larp they got trauma bonded to chad, when it's actually them trauma bonding men and their own kids. There's always that element of projection with them.