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5'2"-5'7" guys here, have you ever approached a girl?

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I'm 5'4" and 29, but have never. Because I just knew they will reject me. But the biggest problem was always my face, especially in middle school and early high school.
 
I'Ve asked out like 7 foids ever. Am 5 5
 
I'Ve asked out like 7 foids ever. Am 5 5
I'm impressed. I have a facial deformity and am autistic, I didn't want to make a fool out of myself. I was always told I'm ugly and also felt that in society.
 
i'm 5'4 and i have approached a lot of foids, mostly at uni. most foids just walk away without responding, with some fat ones saying that they have a boyfriend (obvious lie)
 
An inch taller than your range but no.
They visibly don't respect me in public and treat me like a little twerp, always pushing past me like the manlet I am. Imagine the humiliation ritual of cold approach asking one out :fuk:
 
I'm 5'4" and 29, but have never. Because I just knew they will reject me. But the biggest problem was always my face, especially in middle school and early high school.
One time In middle school and I got browbeated for it. There really has never been an opportunity for it when all you get is death glares.
 
An inch taller than your range but no.
They visibly don't respect me in public and treat me like a little twerp, always pushing past me like the manlet I am. Imagine the humiliation ritual of cold approach asking one out :fuk:
Exactly how I feel. Do you think you will once you approach my age?
 
One time In middle school and I got browbeated for it. There really has never been an opportunity for it when all you get is death glares.
Indeed.
 
i don’t even remember last time i talked to a foid other than my mother or psychiatrist
 
I'm 5'4" and 29, but have never. Because I just knew they will reject me. But the biggest problem was always my face, especially in middle school and early high school.
Knowing that you are really short and also extremely unattractive facially, you should never approach a foid.
 
I'm 5'4" and 29, but have never. Because I just knew they will reject me. But the biggest problem was always my face, especially in middle school and early high school.
5'8 in germanic nations is being 5'5 in USA
 
if we count it that way then yeah I approached girls before
 
Exactly how I feel. Do you think you will once you approach my age?
Doubt, I'm becoming more isolated and drained of ambition the older I get.

But I can imagine at your age (not that you're old brocel) you give less fucks, more comfortable with negative reactions, and are less vain, thus willing to do low inhib things (that likely will end in failure).

If I ever did.. would pop some social anxiety pills, 3" height boosters, mask or baclava, fake tattoo sleeves and approach when it's fairly dark. But now there's a decent chance of the police being called. :kys:
 
Doubt, I'm becoming more isolated and drained of ambition the older I get.

But I can imagine at your age (not that you're old brocel) you give less fucks, more comfortable with negative reactions, and are less vain, thus willing to do low inhib things (that likely will end in failure).

If I ever did.. would pop some social anxiety pills, 3" height boosters, mask or baclava, fake tattoo sleeves and approach when it's fairly dark. But now there's a decent chance of the police being called. :kys:
Good points bro :yes:
I've never approached a girl in my life and don't plan to. Still sad about negative reactions but I am less vain. I've thought about approaching this other "young" (maybe 21-25 years old) girl at the office (only 9 employees). I started working there 2 weeks ago, but it was clear from day 1 she thinks I'm weird (and thinks I'm weird looking, assumingly) af. She is around 5'4" I think, I have 1 height-boosters in my shoes. I already acted weird in the last 2 weeks, there's no chance she will say yes, absolutely no reason she would.
 
On multiple occasions. Got rejected by all. Some of their reasons were for being "too short" even though I was the same height or a bit taller than them
 
On multiple occasions. Got rejected by all. Some of their reasons were for being "too short" even though I was the same height or a bit taller than them
Brutal. How tall are you?
I've never asked a girl out, it is and would always have been a ridiculous thing to do.
 
Brutal. How tall are you?
I've never asked a girl out, it is and would always have been a ridiculous thing to do.
I'm 5'5.
I use to approach them out of desperation after seeing all of my peers get girlfriends. Nowadays I don't even have the fortitude to approach them and even if I want to approach them, I get scared thinking all of the possible things that could go wrong.
 
Good points bro :yes:
I've never approached a girl in my life and don't plan to. Still sad about negative reactions but I am less vain. I've thought about approaching this other "young" (maybe 21-25 years old) girl at the office (only 9 employees). I started working there 2 weeks ago, but it was clear from day 1 she thinks I'm weird (and thinks I'm weird looking, assumingly) af. She is around 5'4" I think, I have 1 height-boosters in my shoes. I already acted weird in the last 2 weeks, there's no chance she will say yes, absolutely no reason she would.
I'd like to say go for it but will be brootal if she rejects, you'll have the awkwardness and shame of facing her everyday. And foid gossip

Would've thought older women or jbs are our best bet. The average height for 40+ men is around 5'8, Gen Z foids have obsurd standards ruined by social media's oversaturation of Chad exposure.

But good luck brocel

Office environment seems less intimidating since it's a civilised, indoor, intimate space with limited people, not a lot can go wrong :feelsokman:
 
All rejections not even one. But yeah since you are ugly and short like me, it was a smart decision to never approach, saved yourself alot of sanity. Rapemeat will never love us because they want 6ft+ Chads.
Stay up
 
I have, they all rejected me.

Some were polite to my face, but this was a fake kindness and they would block me, suddenly be cold or try to get me in trouble/socially ostracize me just out of nowhere.

This is why i rarely bother anymore, but the sad part is that after a while. you start to get hopeful again. It could be as simple as that the sun is shining that day and I feel marginally better, and I slowly develop the courage to ask one out again. Only to be brutally reminded and then I don't do it for another year or so and the cycle continues.
 
I’m 5’6 and sometimes I approach because my social skills are 0
 
I have, they all rejected me.

Some were polite to my face, but this was a fake kindness and they would block me, suddenly be cold or try to get me in trouble/socially ostracize me just out of nowhere.

This is why i rarely bother anymore, but the sad part is that after a while. you start to get hopeful again. It could be as simple as that the sun is shining that day and I feel marginally better, and I slowly develop the courage to ask one out again. Only to be brutally reminded and then I don't do it for another year or so and the cycle continues.
:cryfeels: how did you approach them? Cold approach? Instagram? I have NEVER asked out a girl.
 
Last time I approached a girl was in high school for prom. I was rejected though so I didn’t go. I have never approached a adult women because I just think they are kind of dumb.
 
:cryfeels: how did you approach them? Cold approach? Instagram? I have NEVER asked out a girl.
Ya when i was in secondary school i used instagram a little and I used to ask foids out in dms, never got a response. Sometimes they blocked me.

Mind you I didn't ask them all out at once, I'd ask one out, get no response, rejected or blocked etc... and then i'd wait months sometimes a year before gaining the courage again.

I've also tried cold approaching outside at like open-invite parties/events usually hosted by the schools I went to. I never got invited to parties hosted by the normies ofcourse so the open-invite were the only ones I attented. And i'd try to dance with foids or talk to them. Always ignored, weird looks etc.

One time a guy even approached me and said I needed to calm down.
And then it takes months or a year for me to get the courage again for something like that. I know I shouldn't even try, but my brain is simply wired to try anyway after a while. I can't convince myself that it's just over.
 
Ya when i was in secondary school i used instagram a little and I used to ask foids out in dms, never got a response. Sometimes they blocked me.

Mind you I didn't ask them all out at once, I'd ask one out, get no response, rejected or blocked etc... and then i'd wait months sometimes a year before gaining the courage again.

I've also tried cold approaching outside at like open-invite parties/events usually hosted by the schools I went to. I never got invited to parties hosted by the normies ofcourse so the open-invite were the only ones I attented. And i'd try to dance with foids or talk to them. Always ignored, weird looks etc.

One time a guy even approached me and said I needed to calm down.
And then it takes months or a year for me to get the courage again for something like that. I know I shouldn't even try, but my brain is simply wired to try anyway after a while. I can't convince myself that it's just over.
Damn, dude. I'm sorry this all happened. I admire your courage though! I never had that.
 
Damn, dude. I'm sorry this all happened. I admire your courage though! I never had that.
it's not courage, it's stupidity and false hope. :fuk:
 
Yeah.

Obiously, total failure.

(5'4)
 
no, I don't even have friends
 
No, they look at me like im some midget from hobbit and find me "interesting" like im a zoo animal
 
5'7
Approached foids both IRL and by text messages

It worked so well I ended up here
 

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