39 yr old incel asks oldcels, does your situation get easier?

[Angus13]

Reason I am asking this is because, I'm in my 30's now, almost into my 40's (in about a year), right now it's like a hormonal roller coaster, sometimes inceldom still stings, but then there are other moments where I think I am happy to be alone. Reasons for this are twofold I think 1) my sex drive is beginning to wane, and 2) now that I am black pilled and I know the true nature of women, they seem less attractive to me. I want a stress-free, non-dramatic lifestyle, this is why I generally live hermit mode because I don't identify with 99% of "normal" society (male or female). I'd rather sit around, smoke pot, and watch my horror flicks and play video games. My best friend is my little brother, he's probably the only thing that kept me from roping. He's also a loner, but, I don't think inceldom ever bothered him like it did me.... So I'm going through the rollercoaster of a waning sex drive, the down times I can medicate my way through. Still all those lost years (foundational years) are not ever coming back, THAT part still hurts.

Have any oldcels had such experiences? Does it get easier when your sex drive goes away?

 

[Cuyen]

are you virgin?

 

[Angus13]

well no, there were a couple times in my mid-20's where I temporarily overcame the odds but it didn't last long. Plus I used to escortcel. Occasionally I still do.

 

[Tallcel]

well no, there were a couple times in my mid-20's where I temporarily overcame the odds but it didn't last long. Plus I used to escortcel. Occasionally I still do.

One year older and never put my dick into any hole of a female paid or unpaid. I guess we all have our problems, but I hardly consider you incel.

 

[Angus13]

Yeah because I got laid once 15 yrs ago, nevermind that it only lasted a couple months and afterwards, I was right back to where I started. This "if you get laid once in your entire life you are not incel and your pain isn't real" shit is cope, life lasts longer than 15 yrs. Not to mention this is a self-defeating mentality.

 

[jet112]

does it get any better? that's very hard to answer question. i think it mostly depends on what you plan to do.
if your plan is to keep wagecucking and never fucking move outside of your comfort zone it will be problematic.

i say fuck goals, have something like a "plan". a plan can consist of multiple things.
basically write down all the places you want to go and all of the stuff you wanted to do, and consider early retirement as your primary goal.
im not saying "you gotta travel bro!". what im saying is have something to keep your brain busy and your eyes fresh.
try different places, see how the people are. not everywhere is the same place, people are differentץ
for example. 99% of my daily interactions are with boomers. so it obviously affects me on some level and i want to meet other people. but the thing is i allowed myself to become stagnate in letting this situation go on.

 

[Tallcel]

Yeah because I got laid once 15 yrs ago, nevermind that it only lasted a couple months and afterwards, I was right back to where I started. This "if you get laid once in your entire life you are not incel and your pain isn't real" shit is cope, life lasts longer than 15 yrs. Not to mention this is a self-defeating mentality.

I didn't say you didn't have problems. I said you are not an incel by the strictest definition.

 

[Angus13]

well then it's like splitting hairs, I still dealt with social isolation and mocking, bullying, constant rejection, basically everything that goes with that territory. I prefer to look at it as there are incels and there are truecels. I'm not gonna say Mexicans are not poor due to the fact Philipinos are more poor.

I didn't say you didn't have problems. I said you are not an incel by the strictest definition.

 

[Tallcel]

well then it's like splitting hairs, I still dealt with social isolation and mocking, bullying, constant rejection, basically everything that goes with that territory. I prefer to look at it as there are incels and there are truecels. I'm not gonna say Mexicans are not poor due to the fact Philipinos are more poor.

incel
INvoluntarily
CELibate
If you have gotten laid by someone who wants to fuck you at that moment then you are no longer an incel. It's not too hard to understand.
Prostitution and rape are still sex but not true ascension. Both will likely get you in jail where I live.

 

[Angus13]

I do most of this but I still keep to myself for the most part, aside from some social acquaintances when I buy weed. Only person I really hang out with is my brother. We go places and do things.

does it get any better? that's very hard to answer question. i think it mostly depends on what you plan to do.
if your plan is to keep wagecucking and never fucking move outside of your comfort zone it will be problematic.

i say fuck goals, have something like a "plan". a plan can consist of multiple things.
basically write down all the places you want to go and all of the stuff you wanted to do, and consider early retirement as your primary goal.
im not saying "you gotta travel bro!". what im saying is have something to keep your brain busy and your eyes fresh.
try different places, see how the people are. not everywhere is the same place, people are differentץ
for example. 99% of my daily interactions are with boomers. so it obviously affects me on some level and i want to meet other people. but the thing is i allowed myself to become stagnate in letting this situation go on.

Yes and could I get laid NOW? No. Not unless I go to an escort (and even truecels can escortcel). One lay doesn't last forever.

incel
INvoluntarily
CELibate
If you have gotten laid by someone who wants to fuck you at that moment then you are no longer an incel. It's not too hard to understand.
Prostitution and rape are still sex but not true ascension. Both will likely get you in jail.

 

[FrothySolutions]

39? How oldcel is "oldcel?" I'm a little older than 39 but the way people talk, you're an oldcel once you breach the 18-35 major media demographic. But I don't know. Someone who knows better would have to tell me when oldcelibacy begins.

 

[Angus13]

I'd say oldcel begins at 50, at 50 all people are technically over the hill. By our 60's we are senior citizens. Many incels won't live that long.

39? How oldcel is "oldcel?" I'm a little older than 39 but the way people talk, you're an oldcel once you breach the 18-35 major media demographic. But I don't know. Someone who knows better would have to tell me when oldcelibacy begins.

 

[jet112]

I do most of this but I still keep to myself for the most part, aside from some social acquaintances when I buy weed. Only person I really hang out with is my brother. We go places and do things.

what you described to me is stagnation. because you accepted a situation where you have a mild level of comfort by just seeing your brother and buying weed.
that's the kind of shit that hurts you when you get older. i basically smoked weed until i was 21 and im held back like 5 years.
most people just move into the inner cities and wagecuck all the fucking time. if you keep wagecucking and being around obnoxious normies then its gonna fucking hurt later in life. you have to be more purposeful and find your niche

Yes and could I get laid NOW? No. Not unless I go to an escort (and even truecels can escortcel). One lay doesn't last forever.

you are asking the wrong question my friend.
getting laid is a process, do you see yourself getting laid in your current situation? if the answer is no then you have to switch it up

 

[Loooooser]

Lol @Tallcel argued for no apparent or logical reason, grow up

 

[Tallcel]

Born again virgin

 

[Erenor]

Reason I am asking this is because, I'm in my 30's now, almost into my 40's (in about a year), right now it's like a hormonal roller coaster, sometimes inceldom still stings, but then there are other moments where I think I am happy to be alone. Reasons for this are twofold I think 1) my sex drive is beginning to wane, and 2) now that I am black pilled and I know the true nature of women, they seem less attractive to me. I want a stress-free, non-dramatic lifestyle, this is why I generally live hermit mode because I don't identify with 99% of "normal" society (male or female). I'd rather sit around, smoke pot, and watch my horror flicks and play video games. My best friend is my little brother, he's probably the only thing that kept me from roping. He's also a loner, but, I don't think inceldom ever bothered him like it did me.... So I'm going through the rollercoaster of a waning sex drive, the down times I can medicate my way through. Still all those lost years (foundational years) are not ever coming back, THAT part still hurts.

Have any oldcels had such experiences? Does it get easier when your sex drive goes away?

you are very lucky to have your brother as your best friend, at least

 

[Haywire]

39? How oldcel is "oldcel?" I'm a little older than 39 but the way people talk, you're an oldcel once you breach the 18-35 major media demographic. But I don't know. Someone who knows better would have to tell me when oldcelibacy begins.

depends who you ask the teenagers to early twenties on this site think late twenties and over is oldcel.

 

[Angus13]

Kinda get tired of these truecel dominionists here. If you got laid once 20 yrs ago, or if your not willing to fuck a 450 lb, 3 tooth bearded hag with an eye patch and a peg leg, they want to run you off, like here is a thought, there is an entire forum designed JUST for truecels. No reason why the rest of us shouldn't have a place to vent. This mess is getting beyond ridiculous. I'm not even denying they have it a bit tougher than us lesser incels, still though...

Lol @Tallcel argued for no apparent or logical reason, grow up

 

[Zod]

It gets easier once you soundproof your basement

 

[FrustratedWhiteMale]

If you lose your sex drive and don't want women, they may want you, maybe. Women want men that don't want them.

 

[lastchancel]

One year older and never put my dick into any hole of a female paid or unpaid. I guess we all have our problems, but I hardly consider you incel.

if you don't consider him incel you clearly aren't thinking very hard. He's been celibate 15 years, whilst not wanting to be... i.e incel.

 

[Deleted member 12273]

There must be at least 1 woman in the Earth that will fuck each of us, so inceldom doesn't exist. Admin, dlete this website, you are wasting money paying servers.

 

[lastchancel]

Born again virgin

Celibacy and virginity are two different things. I'm amazed that you are an oldcel and don't know this.

Celibacy and virginity are two different things. I'm amazed that you are an oldcel and don't know this.

also in my opinion 30+ is oldcel, because past that point even ascending means you get used roasties

 

[Deleted member 4760]

One year older and never put my dick into any hole of a female paid or unpaid. I guess we all have our problems, but I hardly consider you incel.

why did you never go to escort?

 

[Ninrod]

One year older and never put my dick into any hole of a female paid or unpaid. I guess we all have our problems, but I hardly consider you incel.

Wow

 

[don key]

well then it's like splitting hairs, I still dealt with social isolation and mocking, bullying, constant rejection, basically everything that goes with that territory. I prefer to look at it as there are incels and there are truecels. I'm not gonna say Mexicans are not poor due to the fact Philipinos are more poor.

This is a great point. Great analogy as well.

There must be at least 1 woman in the Earth that will fuck each of us, so inceldom doesn't exist. Admin, dlete this website, you are wasting money paying servers.

False. Many women are single and they all are fucking the same guys over and over. Even after 40's

 

[mylifeistrash]

name one thing in life that gets better as you age past your prime, lmao

Celibacy and virginity are two different things. I'm amazed that you are an oldcel and don't know this.

also in my opinion 30+ is oldcel, because past that point even ascending means you get used roasties

if ascending implies becoming a chad, why would chad date his own age?
he'd date 4/10 girls who were 18 or something

 

[6'5incel]

lol at implying that 39 isn't oldcel

 

[Boiiboii69]

Oldcel is anything over 25 tbh tbh tbh tbh tbh

 

[Flabcel Repulsive]

Have any oldcels had such experiences? Does it get easier when your sex drive goes away?

I pretty much had a similar experience to you at your age.

In a general sense, yes it gets easier as time goes by and your testosterone drops. You care much less. But you also care much less about everything, like what goes on and happens in the world etc. You finally reach the insight you're nothing special, that the world will go on or perhaps break to pieces with or without you. It's not like anyone ever asked for or felt the need for your participation in it. Instead you get friendlier with children.

I found it helped a lot when I threw my old materialistic worldview on the scrapheap and admitted that consciuosness is something rather special. With life after death awaiting in realms fantastic, I await my next life in the beyond with anticipation and a look of sympathy and compassion at all the ridiculessness of this previous failed attempt in years past.

Quite frankly, I just want to leave this place, not much gets me afraid or agitated and I generelly don't give a shit anymore, even though I sometimes go through cycles of mostly hot air hyperbole.