Huh? You just communicate by way of awkward sentence structure and really weird but probably somehow correct grammar. I am slightly confused. So what, you're saying that we're basically primal beings pretending otherwise? Yeah, couldn't agree more.
I have awkward sentence structure because you have to vocalize it with a certain punctuation/ boom to your words that will, in spoken communication, snag attention.
Colloquial communication is very different. If I could speak this aloud to you with the proper tense/ stress/ prose then it would make sense.
And yes we're primal minded individuals.
Because of that relying/ centering your standards of rightness on people being nice to you for the sake of it... is sheltered and infantile.
Get with the evolutionary program and evolve your mind/ triggers/ perceptions/ preferences to YOU being someone who will provide primal capital, or be cast aside.
Like how kids in elementary/ k-12 school get mad they're not inherently valued for being ugly... should make them more angry at themselves than others. it's just the natural course. So develop your primal value and then see what happens.
Revolve happiness more around your primal value, than the approval/ grace other people give you. Because your focus would be in the wrong place if it were in the latter. Primal value determines everything about your life.
If you were only caring about how much people like you then it would be like being angry about a car not being liked when you should care about what the car is made of/ oil in the tank, not people's like/ dislike ratio/ identity. Though, on an intellectual level, knowing the ins and outs about people can be useful.