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That our parents did a shit job of raising us mentally and that it caused a downward spiral that affected our relationships with others. Coupled with sub-par looks, it was a recipe for disaster.
gstvtrp said:
Disturbingly true
yeah, my parents had no idea what they were doing. But my siblings did the real damage.
I had no chance for normal developement. My father was an alcoholic, my mother was getting mad easily. I live in a small village so I couldn't participate in any sports or music classes except backyard football and I had only one friend who also loved computer games and was sitting in his home all the time. I couldn't smile because of my crooked teeth (which I didn't fix) and I was like NW2.5 at age of 13 and I had to shave my head at age of 16. I could change my life and have a relationship at age of 18 but I went for my oneitis instead of a cute girl who wanted me. It's over now
I've known this since I was 5.
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Also, the damage they did is PERMANENT AND UNDER NO CIRCUMSTANCES CAN BE UNDONE THROUGH THERAPY ESPECIALLY BS LIKE "CBT".
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I’ve never denied this. My parents and siblings (and some other family members) are utter cunts.
I don't see how this is something people wouldn't be willing to accept. People love to blame things they can't control for their problems, whether it's warranted or not.
So fucking true. My parents started doing this on day 1 when they gave me a 1/10 name.
I have only met 2 or 3 people in real life that have worse names.
I have only met 2 or 3 people in real life that have worse names.
I'm 100% NT and still a virgin
Major bluepill cope disguised as blackpill. Its all about facotrs not under control even by thebparents: genetic dice roll. The downward spiral in social relations is caused by constant negative reinforcement from society and being shot down at any attempt at fitting in, not at your parenting.
Chad can grow up in a house with drug addicts without schooling and he will still do well in life due to genetics=automatic effortless success in life. Look at jeremy meeks, grown in gangs, or at those street beggars that didnt last long as beggars because looks landed them life opportunities without even asking for them.
Genetics and looksbare everything, anything other is a cope, including "muh parenting and education".
Chad can grow up in a house with drug addicts without schooling and he will still do well in life due to genetics=automatic effortless success in life. Look at jeremy meeks, grown in gangs, or at those street beggars that didnt last long as beggars because looks landed them life opportunities without even asking for them.
Genetics and looksbare everything, anything other is a cope, including "muh parenting and education".
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gstvtrp said:
Bullshit everything was written in your genetics.
My parents failed to fix or acknowledge my voice disorder when it materialised at age 10. Same with my dick issues which were prevalent in First School. And they spoilt the fuck out of me, generally. Can't really blame them though.
No the blackpill is not that your parents didnt raise you correctly. The blackpill is that they are genetic trash and so are you.
Zyros said:
Nice anecdotal evidence. The Una-Bomber for example was fairly attractive (not Chad material, but he lived in the 50s, not fucking 2017), had a 160 genius IQ and graduated Harvard at 18, he even became a teacher there at 20. Genetic prime material.
His borderline retarded parents still managed to make a permavirgin out of him who lived in the forest alone for 20 years and then started killing random people.
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My parents not only gave me shitty DNA,they also bullied me until my self-steem was as low as possible. I never had a friend because of that probably. They should have killed me when i was still un the womb, for fuck sake.
Ive felt like an unwanted and hated child since fucking allways. I remember crying and shouting "no me queréis" (you dont love me) hundreds of times, and being completely ignored.
When i think about it i really want to kill them and then kill myself. My childhood was a horrible. What the fuck were they thinking....
My parents not only gave me shitty DNA,they also bullied me until my self-steem was as low as possible. I never had a friend because of that probably. They should have killed me when i was still un the womb, for fuck sake.
Ive felt like an unwanted and hated child since fucking allways. I remember crying and shouting "no me queréis" (you dont love me) hundreds of times, and being completely ignored.
When i think about it i really want to kill them and then kill myself. My childhood was a horrible. What the fuck were they thinking....
gstvtrp said:
I say this a lot. Lookism theory is incomplete and kinda cope. There are below average guys out there with gfs are aren't betabux. However, we went down paths very early on that shut us out of any type of happiness. Coupled with being sub 7 its over
it's all our parents fault. But then again, they are bigger loser than we are, they spent 18+ years feeding us and in the end it did not pay off. We will not be able to care about them when they get old so joke is on them.
Besides having sub par DNA that left me with problems like excema and sinus problems I think my parents did an okay job. I think missing out on teen love inflicted more damage on me and was more or less what made me non NT.
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Yes, just blame your parents for being a failure. lmao biggest cope
My dad was not fully absent but barely around and more focused on his business career, and he also spoiled me a bit with toys and gaming consoles to avoid spending time with me. My mom was overprotective and maybe a bit mentally ill, undiagnosed anxiety disorder. Plus the idiots had me in their 40s and divorced when I was in middle school, which made me mentally/emotionally weaker and a target for bullying despite being somewhat average looking.
Can't blame everything on them but their stupid decisions did put me down a dark path of bullying, social isolation, depression and health problems. I'll just have to man up and salvage what I can from this life since I will only rope if I have unbearable physical pain or terminal disease. But damn does it piss me off that this happened to me. It could have been worse though, I was never physically or mentally abused.
Can't blame everything on them but their stupid decisions did put me down a dark path of bullying, social isolation, depression and health problems. I'll just have to man up and salvage what I can from this life since I will only rope if I have unbearable physical pain or terminal disease. But damn does it piss me off that this happened to me. It could have been worse though, I was never physically or mentally abused.
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KV- said:
Yes missing out on teen love causes permanent damage.
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My parents were shit but I think I could have recouped had they left me with any sort of chance genetically. But nah.
My parents are retarded and made a reckless decision conceiving and not aborting me, but always have been kind people.
Sadly, their efforts have only further proven the just-world fallacy.
Sadly, their efforts have only further proven the just-world fallacy.
I don't know, my parents were always trying to get me into social situations, my dad is super social and outgoing and i still fucked up, and i know it's me whom i should blame because my two brothers turned out just fine
My parents ain't got shit to do with this mess, man.
I guess they created me, but they're blue collar Americans that are honest to a fault, don't even drink. Free expression is allowed. Cussing was fine, dope smoking was eventually tolerated, but they weren't thrilled. They totally acknowledge their boomer privilege.
Very liberal. My inceldom is just me being a loser. No one fostered it.
I guess they created me, but they're blue collar Americans that are honest to a fault, don't even drink. Free expression is allowed. Cussing was fine, dope smoking was eventually tolerated, but they weren't thrilled. They totally acknowledge their boomer privilege.
Very liberal. My inceldom is just me being a loser. No one fostered it.
gstvtrp said:
True.
This is a hard one to swallow. I don't think they sheltered me enough as a kid, but otherwise they were decent parents. I grew up living with my mother and father up until when I was around 11 years old. After that I loved with my mother's boyfriend.[/list]
Kointo said:
No pedo shit in here, boyo.
Zyros said:
Fuck fuck fuck fuck this fucking world
Boomers as a whole were retards with no values other than secular materialism. Boomer males are bugmen, and boomer women were just bigger sluts than the previous generation that was already sucking dick on dates in Model-T's.
I faced this at age 17 and haven't turned back since. They are the epitome of successful bluepilled people. It literally scares me how naïve they are given their intelligence and heavy contact with the world.
I hate being right about my blackpills and they are instrumental in reassuring me every time that I'm always right and basically the Aristotle of 2018.
I hate being right about my blackpills and they are instrumental in reassuring me every time that I'm always right and basically the Aristotle of 2018.
I would likely not be incel if my parents raised me differently. I might have gotten lucky somehow...
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I personally take this blackpill very easily
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I can say I kinda agree to a certain extent TBH
My parents sheltered me hardcore sometimes I couldn't even go to a friend's house that was in the same neighborhood. I didn't learn how to properly make friends and I didn't learn social skills either because both of my parents weren't accustomed to American culture. Add to that I'm ugly as sin, then you got yourself an ugly weirdo, with no social skills, aka a recipe for disaster.
My parents sheltered me hardcore sometimes I couldn't even go to a friend's house that was in the same neighborhood. I didn't learn how to properly make friends and I didn't learn social skills either because both of my parents weren't accustomed to American culture. Add to that I'm ugly as sin, then you got yourself an ugly weirdo, with no social skills, aka a recipe for disaster.
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Captvic said:
Legit.
Great genetics means you can get away with all this but most of us here have shit genes.
blickpall said:
Oh shit I meant lived not loved. I'm posting on mobile so it always autocorrects.
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