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Personally I don't, to me those women simply bat out of their league and struck out. Realistically he could do so much better than her.
I've already heard the indignancy from the women who rush to insist that cheating is categorically indefensible, but I doubt that they genuinely believe that. When older men get cheated on by their mail order brides, do women characterize these men as victims? No, if anything they're more likely to characterize him as a pervert/abusive/controlling and her as the victim.
Really it's a similar phenomenon. He was batting out of his league, or perhaps a "gross old man chasing naive and vulnerable young women" as women tend to put it, and the wives have better options now that they have their green card.
If anything this is worse because it's more likely that these women genuinely and intentionally deceived him into getting married. And the man substantially improved her life, by enabling her to move to the US(or some other highly developed country) from a significantly poorer country.
I've already heard the indignancy from the women who rush to insist that cheating is categorically indefensible, but I doubt that they genuinely believe that. When older men get cheated on by their mail order brides, do women characterize these men as victims? No, if anything they're more likely to characterize him as a pervert/abusive/controlling and her as the victim.
Really it's a similar phenomenon. He was batting out of his league, or perhaps a "gross old man chasing naive and vulnerable young women" as women tend to put it, and the wives have better options now that they have their green card.
If anything this is worse because it's more likely that these women genuinely and intentionally deceived him into getting married. And the man substantially improved her life, by enabling her to move to the US(or some other highly developed country) from a significantly poorer country.
