I concur to all of this. The thing is, people are inherently tyrannarchical with their judgment system. They take whatever criticism you have to the grave/ to the nth degree. Attraction is practically just being resilient to the constant barrage of belligerent belittling the human race will bring upon you. You need to be invulnerable. Typically a suit of armor is only as strong as its weakest point, and even though it's small, people will still mind it. Because when you get into the midst of judgment/ sociocategorizational warfare, then you will need to have people believe you are capable of being able to withstand the heat/ blows of judgment.
In my opinion the real prime denominator that I've seen when discerning attractiveness is who is the most formidable to the passive altercations that people want to have seen be conquered by a person they're attracted to. Even a "meh" looking person with aloof/ attitude can cast a pretty formidable shadow that girls will wanna fuck. But it's a rare case. Women jive with the judgment flow of the public. If he loses his primal momentum, then he will be bidden against.
