Brutal Your real "self esteem/love" is based on if you like what you see in the mirror when you wake up. Everything else is building on top of that.

[Lookslikeit]

Might sound absolutely vain, shallow and egotistical to any normie lurking on here, but its how we are hardwired as a species.

Think of it like this: we are all, up to an extent, grown ass children. You can give anything and everything a child wants and needs, if she doesnt like its own fucking reflection, it wont like itself.

Why?! Cause they/we know that, instinctively, if they dont look AT LEAST good enough for the OTHER children, she wont be able to form everlasting (or even fulfilling) relantionships.

Without relationships, you cant grow as a person. Without growing as a person, you wither and die, fading into obscurity and the nearest genetical dustbin.

Every major problem in society stems from the maladjusted, frankly irresponsible and pathetic way we manage the overall quality of genetics in this world.

Some people DEFINETELY shouldnt be able to reproduce. And im not just talking about ugly people.

The biggest tragedy of history is that defective genes are being spread faster and more efficiently than good ones.

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

Self esteem and confidence is built off other's people reactions and interactions with you. If you get good feedback you will have high self esteem and confidence, otherwise it will be low. What makes people more likely to positively interact with you - looks.

 

[chudjak]

Self esteem and confidence is built off other's people reactions and interactions with you. If you get good feedback you will have high self esteem and confidence, otherwise it will be low. What makes people more likely to positively interact with you - looks.

Truer than what he said but you both forget the most important part. Looks do not matter in women like they do in men, a woman can be ugly and still think she's the shit and get a bunch of simps because other women will gaslight her into thinking she's pretty and simps are desperate and think they have a chance with a ugly woman (most don't, ugly women have high standards because the previously mentioned things)

 

[Just say NIGGER!]

Truer than what he said but you both forget the most important part. Looks do not matter in women like they do in men, a woman can be ugly and still think she's the shit and get a bunch of simps because other women will gaslight her into thinking she's pretty and simps are desperate and think they have a chance with a ugly woman (most don't, ugly women have high standards because the previously mentioned things)

I think it goes without saying that I was referring to men. As you said, women simply work on different rules, not only are they more likely to be complimented and desired, but also they have a naturally inflated ego.

 

[chudjak]

I think it goes without saying that I was referring to men. As you said, women simply work on different rules, not only are they more likely to be complimented and desired, but also they have a naturally inflated ego.

Well the problem was his post refered to the person looking ugly in the mirror as a she, which is ridiculous. Women can never actually believe they are too ugly because they will never be treated like they are

 

[Shaktiman]

Self esteem and confidence is built off other's people reactions and interactions with you. If you get good feedback you will have high self esteem and confidence, otherwise it will be low. What makes people more likely to positively interact with you - looks.

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