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Your most brutal way you discovered you were ugly?

andinocel

andinocel

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It took three times for it to get it through my fucking thick skull:

1 - Back in the chat craze of the late 90's - early 00's (I'm an oldcel)....bitches would stop responding once my photo was sent

2 - 0 replies in several dating sites

3 - A foid I used to work with rejected me, but I found out later she actually fucked most of the guys there....including a 5'5" black and downright disgusting looking tub of lard
 
When my high school crush said I was too ugly for her. I got brutally blackpilled at the ripe age of 15. :feelsrope:
 
1. Getting zero replies in online dating sites

2. I was paired up with a foid for a group project back in 10th grade.She acted so disgusted She barely even spoke to me and when she did speak, she would avoid eye contact.
 
I got called ugly a few days ago, I also noticed foids would purposely avoid me.
 
I also noticed foids would purposely avoid me.

This happens to me all the time. It has made me somewhat introverted. I am naturally an extroverted person. Fucking superficial whores.
 
Getting called "ugly" "horseface" and being ripped on for my big nose back in high school blackpilled me.
 
Foids purposely ignore me in real life. I had several dating profiles that I actually put effort into for about 3 years without a single message or reply. I gave up on them last year.
 
tinder and comparing myself to my peers
 
looking in the mirror is brutal enough I think
 
by looking at myself through the phone camera instead of the mirror, and posting pictures of myself on 4chan
 
I was poor and didn't have access to a mirror so I honestly didn't know how I looked for awhile. I dreamt I was handsome, though. Then I looked into a mirror at 8 or 9 and thought I was ugly. In 3rd grade I understood.
 
The other kids helped me to figure it out.
 
Had to draw myself while using a mirror in art class.
 
Just no responses on dating sites and conversations ends very fast, ends up getting ghosted. Cashiers greets other guys happy and smiling then they become uncomfortable when i show up. Maybe they just hate me as a person not my looks right JFL. Of course new things come up all the time.

Last week i walked diagonally behind three prime JB roasties and they talked about how many guys they've had relationships with, two of them looked behind at me and when they had to walk more infront of me because a car was coming, one of them spitted a giant gob at the side. Probably because she was disgusted by a... Read custom title.
 
The look of disdain and disgust when I talk to females.
 
When I saw the side view of my face. My nose makes me really ugly. I'm looking forward to my nose surgery.
Also when I realized how bad I look with short hair, I let my hair grow from now on.
 
Had to draw myself while using a mirror in art class.
Uggo
 
7th grade. Foids would come up with the most bullshit excuses to not give their number/reject me.
 
Looking myself in a mirror,girls treat me different than chad,girls avoid me,girls dont want to talk with me and so on.
 
7th grade. Foids would come up with the most bullshit excuses to not give their number/reject me.

In 11th grade, a teacher had us exchange numbers with the student behind us. Who was behind me? Some fat, disgustingly pale foid. It took some serious coaxing from the teacher so she can do it. When she did, she tossed the piece of paper to me. Whether it was a fake number or not, I'll never know because I never called.
 
1 - Back in the chat craze of the late 90's - early 00's (I'm an oldcel)....bitches would stop responding once my photo was sent
I used to send them pictures of good-looking guys whenever they asked to see me. Once I became friends with this girl from Texas, we talked for two years. She would always nag me for a picture but I'd say that I didn't have a scanner lol. We stopped talking around 2008. A year or two later, she emails me and I added her on skype. When she finally saw me on cam, you could see the disappointment in her eyes. We never talked again. We clicked and I'm sure she loved me, but when my looks didn't live up to her expectations, it all fell apart instantly.
 
The first time a girl called me ugly to my face, which was when I was 12. It's happened several more times since then, but the first time was all it took.
 
When my high school crush said I was too ugly for her. I got brutally blackpilled at the ripe age of 15. :feelsrope:
That's really harsh.
I don't have any confidence to talk like this.
 
When I found out my worst camera angle was how attractive I truly was.
 
went to a masquerade ball thing in vegas one halloween and was getting all sorts of attention from women grinding on me and dancing with my mask on and they would disappear when i took it off. that was my defining blackpill moment..

having random girls come up to me at the mall and tell me i was ugly during my highschool years also pretty crushing. happened so often i though it was normal..like it happened to everyone
 
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I just took a pic of myself using the front camera (not the selfie camera, idk how it's called) and everything was horrible. One eyelid was more closed than the other, bad skin, mouth was tilted at a weird angle.

This doesn't happen when I look at myself in the mirror. Also people treat me differently and I was an outcast in high school, that wouldn't have happened if I looked normal
 
it would take a series of events for me to understand how bad the situation was, but one of the first ones and most important was on 7th grade, foids of the class started to have interest in my friends, and none of them had interest in me, this lead up for me to become a outcast and all my friends to ignore me by the influence of the foids, it was there that I started to understand that they had something I lack off, and that was a good face.
 
sometime during early school, unfortunately is was my mother that did it. She was point out multiple flaws and saying there was nothing wrong with them.
 
I saw myself from behind and my side profile in a changing room. The realization was pretty brutal.
 
>Be me, before inceldom
>Foid suggests to go to the bar after school with me
>I agree, telling her that we should go to the bar next to the school
>She refuses by saying she doesn't want to be seen with me

:feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
I asked a girl out in school and all she said was “eww”

Went home and cried tbh. I was young (13 I think) and naive and this was my first taste of rejection.
 
Getting sarcastically hit on by foids from middle school onward, which included two cases of sarcastic groping in front of an audience.
 
always thought i was OK looking, until @FACEandLMS rated me a 2.5....
 
When I talked to girls online and they thought I was great but when I sent them my picture they stopped responding. I actually met a few in real life (didn't send my pic first) and a girl had her dad drive her to see me. When she saw me, her dad said "are you sure you want me to leave you to hang out" and she said yes but I could tell both her and her father thought I was ugly. Another time I got a girl to come over to see me but when she got to my place we talked a bit, she got a text and said her friend needed her and she had to go. I knew that was a scam, to have her friend text and if she didn't like me she could use that as a sign to leave. She said she'd come back, but when she was driving she texted me "I'm not coming back." Other times I knew I was ugly was when I approached a girl and asked her out and was rejected, and got that "I didn't mean to give you the wrong impression" speech. Also when a girl gave me her number and I started texting her, she never wrote back or wrote back for awhile (one word answers) and stopped. Also when I tried Tinder or dating sites and never got any responses or messages.
 
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My first middle school onitis said finding me attractive would be like finding a cockroach attractive. I was 13.

I had an Orkut (old social media site, was popular in Brazil) community with thousands of people making fun of a pic of mine. I was about 17.

500+ unsuccessful approaches between 23 and 27 mostly.

0 success through Tinder, not that long ago. Just today I lost my patience with it and started swiping everything right, even single moms and horrid foids, still 0 matches.

No women ever gave me IOIs. Women clearly show their lack of interest on me when I try to engage with them. The naked teenager in the nudist beach was the latest example, she didn't even remember what country I was from after we first met and talked.
 
I've just known for as long as I can remember. Foids have always treated me like garbage, that's enough to know.
 
Back in middle school there was this charity "run"(only 10km) organized by the school that all students had to participate in due to it being part a requirement of PE class. Girls and boys ran at different times, but before starting we all were in the area near the starting line. The girls were discussing if they were going to organize a price or something for whoever came first and then someone suggested that whoever came in last had to kiss me. And every girl started laughing, I was literally 2 meters away, they saw me and still laughed to my face. I essentially got told to my face by about 150 girls simultaneously : "you are the ugliest man in this school, and we don't even have the compassion to try to hide it from you"
 
When some cunt told my crush that i liked her in front of me and she made a disgusted puking expression.

After that i was pretty much called some variation of unattractive and ugly through highschool every day.
 
Tinder and the fact that never a femoid in my whole existence has tried to make contact with me.
 
The bitchy smiles, I have had them my whole life, its one thing being ugly and alone but at least people could leave you alone.
 
It took three times for it to get it through my fucking thick skull:

1 - Back in the chat craze of the late 90's - early 00's (I'm an oldcel)....bitches would stop responding once my photo was sent

2 - 0 replies in several dating sites

3 - A foid I used to work with rejected me, but I found out later she actually fucked most of the guys there....including a 5'5" black and downright disgusting looking tub of lard
I fell for the "dress better" meme and discovered that I couldn't find any clothes that fit me properly off the rack. Things like peacoats and jackets always fit big. After doing a little research into anthropometry, it turned out my shoulders were below average. Naturally, my chest size is also small. In fact, a lady in a clothing store recommended I look into the children's section because of my small chest circumference. My arms are also very weak and small. Small enough that "just wear a watch" doesn't work. My wrist is actually smaller than most women. It's so fucked up. Every day for me is suffering.
 
1. First nail of the coffin. Got straight told that I was ugly by a foid when she found out that I had crush on her. This was on 1st grade of elementary school.
2. Somehow being able to have good conversations with foids on online chats but suddenly get disconnected everytime they see my pic
3. Never get replied on OkCupid despite making good profile descriptions
 
38.2 years of virginity.
 
A girl told me i was too ugly for her

I never get replies on dating sites.

Women have always refused to be friends with me.

Im not blind and own a mirror.
 

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