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Your Kindness is hurting yourself

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Everyone likes to be kind.
We all like to be appreciated and thanked.
It feels good to help others.

But…..these feelings are a facade.

Beneath these feelings of goodness……there is a much darker reality.

Every dollar you give away, leaves a dollar less for you.

Every time you help others, you deprive yourself.
That is time and energy you could have used for yourself.


Selfishness is the wisest of all attributes.


The worst part of kindness is that no one really appreciates it.

Almost everyone feels entitled to your help and thus are not really grateful for it.

The reality is that you will never be kind enough to please others.

You could give them all your money, all your time, all your energy……..and they would eagerly take it all……..and then forget they ever knew you.

After they have taken everything you have…..they will discard you like trash.

You only owe kindness to yourself.
 
That's very real, I have several examples of relatives who ruined their businesses and lost a lot of money thanks to their "kindness" and wanting to be good people to fucking strangers.
Being selfish saves you from many bad situations
 
was kind all my life, I never expect anything in return but not only did it give me nothing, people took advantage of me over and over again, kindness is for the beautiful and successful who have a place in society, not for us
 
was kind all my life, I never expect anything in return but not only did it give me nothing, people took advantage of me over and over again, kindness is for the beautiful and successful who have a place in society, not for us
exactly, even what's considered kind depends on your looks, a chad could spit on a foid and they'd find a reason for why thats actually "kind" jfl
 
exactly, even what's considered kind depends on your looks, a chad could spit on a foid and they'd find a reason for why thats actually "kind" jfl
I still remember back in college how a known rapist got invited to a party before me lol
 
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