Nordicel94
Pancake-faced viking-cel
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Think back on all the thousands of negative experiences in your life. People looking at you funny, staring at you, acting cold and dismissive. If you'd had a good face all of that would be the opposite.
It's hard NOT to be confident when you're good looking because people validate you everyday. If you had your thousands of negative interactions switched out for thousands of positive ones, you would be confident too.
But where is our confidence supposed to come from? We don't have these continuous positive interactions to build confidence from, we have the exact opposite. Confidence cannot be created out of thin air, it builds over a lifetime and the way your face looks is basically what determines your confidence.
It's hard NOT to be confident when you're good looking because people validate you everyday. If you had your thousands of negative interactions switched out for thousands of positive ones, you would be confident too.
But where is our confidence supposed to come from? We don't have these continuous positive interactions to build confidence from, we have the exact opposite. Confidence cannot be created out of thin air, it builds over a lifetime and the way your face looks is basically what determines your confidence.