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Youngcels (<25 yrs), did your friends and family pressure you to talk to foids?

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Having grown up in the 90s and 2000s I felt a lot of pressure to talk to girls. At times I was pressured into cold approaching, and at others pressured into meeting girls through my social circle.

My parents and other relatives made fun of me for being socially inept and "afraid to talk to girls," when I was really just insecure about my looks, and rightfully so.

None of the guys in my family were attractive but they thought they were better because they'd had girlfriends before. I didn't want a girlfriend though, I wanted to be attractive :(

Am I wrong in my suspicion that boys and young men today don't feel this kind of pressure to get girls? Since 2010 it seems to be more acceptable to simply opt out of the game.
 
No they don’t give a fuck lol. Don’t nobody care enough about me enough to ask bro.
 
Thankfully not really, my family has pretty much always stayed out of my business when it comes to girls unless I tell them the problems I'm having. My mom doesn't ask me anything about girls but sometimes I talk to her about my frustrations with women and female nature and how women have always treated me like shit. She knows how I feel about it and at 23 I don't think it concerns anyone rather I meet someone or not. Either way I hate women so who cares. I would say though I probably have been pressured by friends to talk to girls more than anyone else. The past like 4 years though my social anxiety has gotten so worse that I just stay to myself, I don't hang out with anyone. The times that I did it really didn't matter rather I was socializing with girls or not because they didn't like me anyway.
 
No they don’t give a fuck lol. Don’t nobody care enough about me enough to ask bro.

Youngsters are lucky
Thankfully not really, my family has pretty much always stayed out of my business when it comes to girls unless I tell them the problems I'm having. My mom doesn't ask me anything about girls but sometimes I talk to her about my frustrations with women and female nature and how women have always treated me like shit. She knows how I feel about it and at 23 I don't think it concerns anyone rather I meet someone or not. Either way I hate women so who cares. I would say though I probably have been pressured by friends to talk to girls more than anyone else. The past like 4 years though my social anxiety has gotten so worse that I just stay to myself, I don't hang out with anyone. The times that I did it really didn't matter rather I was socializing with girls or not because they didn't like me anyway.

Did your friends want you to cold approach or did they try to hook you up with girls they knew?
 
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