Lv99_BixNood
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View: https://old.reddit.com/r/asexuality/comments/1hv1l03/being_accused_of_being_an_incel/
My dad always tells me that I’m going to end up being an “incel”, which is kinda frustrating because he assumes that I’m going to like a gender.
My brother also said “you’re definitely not getting a girlfriend” even though I said nothing about how to get girls or anything. He just straight up assumed it. The reason why he said that is because I had no friends at school and I wasn’t trying to make any.
I hate this assumption that I have to like a gender and everyone just assumes it, and my dad will just assume “oh you liked a girl back in 1000 BC”. So? I can change my mind and just not want to. I feel like a gray sexual, where I have mild attraction, and just not enough attraction to start a relationship.
And that’s fine, but my parents say that is a bad thing and that I’ll end up lonely. Which doesn’t make sense I can just make friends, get a pet or something. I seriously don’t understand why people put dating on such a pedestal.
Currently 14 turning 15 in a few days also