Serious You must abandon sex to overcome depression

[Fontaine]

If you want soothing words, get out. You'll only get the bleak truth on this topic.

If you are extremely ugly, you must abandon sex. Clinging to sex (i.e. clinging to sexual desires, fantasies, and plots to get laid) will only destroy you, as your thirst will never be quenched in time or in a fully satisfying manner.

I used to be the most dysfunctional and the unhappiest man you could find in my country. Ever since I abandoned sex, stopped masturbating and got chemical, then physical (electroshock) treatment for my depression, I feel a lot better, I succeed in exams, I am able to read books, I have sought and obtained reconciliation with my family, basically everything has become incommensurablly better for me.

If you still want to cling to sex, notably through "fapping" and internet porn, let me warn you in great sincerity: the fires of Hell will rain down upon you until you find yourself in the same situation as a homeless heroin addict. If you want your sanity back, tell sex to get out of your head.

And it's entirely possible by the way. Do you really think that Catholic/Buddhist priests and monks, or prisoners in Nazi death camps masturbated? After some months of pain your brain finally understands it must give up on sexual pleasure.

 

[Weightcel]

Cope. I'll continue to fap because it's the most blissful 2 hours of my day.

 

[Fontaine]

Cope. I'll continue to fap because it's the most blissful 2 hours of my day.

You are ruining your dopamine receptors.

 

[Weightcel]

You are ruining your dopamine receptors.

How are they any more ruined than a normie's who gets sex everyday (or several times a day)?

 

[Deleted member 5861]

Quality Post. But that doesn't change the fact that I am such a social failure I can't even hold down a job without getting fired over nonsense such as "you don't fit company culture" or "you're too creepy."

 

[Deleted member 8353]

I keep trying to stop fapping and fail every time, as it always makes me feel worse. While I don't like strengthening sexual urges, ignoring them seems bad as well.

 

[Mr100]

Monks mostly lived in isolation and never saw women. Those who did come into contact with women, many had relations - repented of course. For those who remained celibate - you dont know what they felt. Prisoners in the death camp were mostly ill, in constant fear of death/pain so sex desires would not have been a priority for them.

 

[Robo Sapien]

If you still want to cling to sex, notably through "fapping" and internet porn, let me warn you in great sincerity: the fires of Hell will rain down upon you until you find yourself in the same situation as a homeless heroin addict. If you want your sanity back, tell sex to get out of your head.

Extreme cope. Most chronic virgins never become heroin addicts. False equivalency tbh.

Monks mostly lived in isolation and never saw women. Those who did come into contact with women, many had relations - repented of course. For those who remained celibate - you dont know what they felt. Prisoners in the death camp were mostly ill, in constant fear of death/pain so sex desires would not have been a priority for them.

We should too. Incels should buy private counties where we can control our local taxes and make sure they don't fuel the activities of whores. It's the only way we'll get our lives back.

 

[Fontaine]

How are they any more ruined than a normie's who gets sex everyday (or several times a day)?

The normie in question has his receptors ruined too over time. There's such a thing as being addicted to women. That's why sexual pleasure used to be taboo and looked down upon. The Church at some point was against sexual pleasure even in a married couple.

But I'd venture to say it's not as bad as for incels. Normies get pleasure out of many other activities and sex never becomes the main "pleasure circuit" in their brain. They also get oxytocin and serotonin on top of dopamine after they have made love, and these neurotransmitters probably cancel each other out in some way.

Extreme cope. Most chronic virgins never become heroin addicts. False equivalency tbh.

I haven't said they become heroin addicts, I have said their mental state and personal situation will mirror those of a heroin addict.

Monks mostly lived in isolation and never saw women. Those who did come into contact with women, many had relations - repented of course. For those who remained celibate - you dont know what they felt. Prisoners in the death camp were mostly ill, in constant fear of death/pain so sex desires would not have been a priority for them.

Catholic priests have been in contact with lay women for centuries and sexual misbehavior has remained spectacularly rare.

 

[Weightcel]

The normie in question has his receptors ruined too over time. There's such a thing as being addicted to women. That's why sexual pleasure used to be taboo and looked down upon. The Church at some point was against sexual pleasure even in a married couple.

But I'd venture to say it's not as bad as for incels. Normies get pleasure out of many other activities and sex never becomes the main "pleasure circuit" in their brain. They also get oxytocin and serotonin on top of dopamine after they have made love, and these neurotransmitters probably cancel each other out in some way.

I might as well continue to fap then. Why am I going to purposely deprive myself of my only source of pleasure in life?

 

[TrueAlphaMale]

Women are corruption anyway

 

[Fontaine]

I keep trying to stop fapping and fail every time, as it always makes me feel worse. While I don't like strengthening sexual urges, ignoring them seems bad as well.

At which point in time do you fail? 10, 20, 30 days of nofap?

Women are corruption anyway

 

[Deleted member 8353]

At which point in time do you fail? 10, 20, 30 days of nofap?

Usually after a week or so, but I made it over a month once.

 

[Fontaine]

I might as well continue to fap then. Why am I going to purposely deprive myself of my only source of pleasure in life?

Because this pleasure will soon ruin your mental health, volition, focus, etc. But I guess you must discover it by yourself.

Usually after a week or so, but I made it over a month once.

That explains it. You're not doing it enough time. It's normal to feel far worse during the first days, like any drug addict in withdrawal.

 

[Weightcel]

Because this pleasure will soon ruin your mental health, volition, focus, etc. But I guess you must discover it by yourself.

I fap every other day and have been focusing on my goals just fine boyo.

 

[Fontaine]

I fap every other day and have been focusing on my goals just fine boyo.

Come back to me in five years or when you get a high-status, high-paying job in normie society.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

This is overall cope, i fully swallowed the blackpill and became more depressed.

Maybe you haven't fully swallowed it yet.

 

[Hunter]

Cope. I'll continue to fap because it's the most blissful 2 hours of my day.

low IQ

 

[FiveFourManlet]

I fap every other day and have been focusing on my goals just fine boyo.

>You should check out my Just get a hobby bro thread.
>You will probably cringe at what you said in bold.

 

[Weightcel]

>You should check out my Just get a hobby bro thread.
>You will probably cringe at what you said in bold.

Ironically, LDARing & abandoning careermaxxing is probably the most autistic thing you can do as an incel. You're literally accomplishing nothing at that point. I'm not going to let the foids hold that much power over me.

 

[Opus132]

Monastic traditions existed for a reason. I almost made a commitment to try to enter a monastery in Mount Athos, since it seems one of the few places left in Christendom that is still traditional and how it must have been in the middle ages, but i'm too old and too brain damaged to go starting about learning a whole new language and go to a whole new country, so i'm looking for a more realistic option. A lot of them have age restrictions though, which is a problem.

Honestly, none of us were meant to be with females, and while i can image many incels are probably suffering due to some kind of punishment, in a way this condition can be conductive to find ways to detach oneself from ephemeral earthly pleasures and obtain an higher and more permanent happiness, which is what most religions have always taught.

 

[Fontaine]

Monastic traditions existed for a reason. I almost made a commitment to try to enter a monastery in Mount Athos, since it seems one of the few places left in Christendom that is still traditional and how it must have been in the middle ages, but i'm too old and too brain damaged to go starting about learning a whole new language and go to a whole new country, so i'm looking for more realistic option.

Becoming a monk is not realistic at all unless you truly have an interest and knowledge in Christianity (and master the language of the monastery indeed...) I've also read they ask for reference letters. If you don't have a parish priest who can vouch for you, it's already harder.

 

[Opus132]

I know i'm biting my time for now while i prepare myself. I do have an interest in Christianity and i'm reasonably knowledgeable, or at least i'm well read. I'm not an expert though, especially since i suffer from terrible memory problems and i'm not a particularly great study at this point.

I'm also not very keen to the modern Catholic Church, especially anything connected with Vatican II:

http://www.studiesincomparativereli...an_Tradition_Part_1-by_Rama_Coomaraswamy.aspx

That's why i was trying to look more into Orthodoxy, but i figure once i'm inside a monastery it doesn't really matter. And if i'm compelled to learn a traditional language for any reason, Latin would be infinitely easier for me than Koine Greek since i'm a native Italian speaker.

 

[_incelinside]

How

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Do you really think that Catholic/Buddhist priests and monks, or prisoners in Nazi death camps masturbated? After some months of pain your brain finally understands it must give up on sexual pleasure.

Yes they did and still do masturbate, some Catholic and Buddhist priest even fuck children that's how deranged they've become.

 

[Robinxyz]

I'm moving to Tibet to become a Buddhist monk LOL. Jokes aside, I'm on that path. I've got rid of tinder, badoo, but can't do shit about the fapping.

 

[TheCrusader0201]

lol its to sad dude

Quality Post. But that doesn't change the fact that I am such a social failure I can't even hold down a job without getting fired over nonsense such as "you don't fit company culture" or "you're too creepy."

 

[Fontaine]

Yes they did and still do masturbate, some Catholic and Buddhist priest even fuck children that's how deranged they've become.

You lack education. Read more books written before the 1950s, including novels.

Some religious men have engaged in sexual perversion due to frustration, but most have not, and Seminaries assumed it was entirely possible to bear sexual frustration without sinning. There were even special apparatuses, such as bracelets with spikes, to keep young priests from masturbating.

 

[Incel Prime]

Just go monk status. Move to a monastery in Tibet and live your days out.

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

You lack education. Read more books written before the 1950s, including novels.

Some religious men have engaged in sexual perversion due to frustration, but most have not, and Seminaries assumed it was entirely possible to bear sexual frustration without sinning. There were even special apparatuses, such as horned bracelets, to keep young priests from masturbating.

You honestly believe that? There might have been a handful of men that remained geniunly abstinant and pure of heart back in those days but for the mosty part, in life, you quickly learn that everyone that says they're holier than thou is a con artist and usually the most sexually perverse it's a coping mechanism. Why would any of those people ever share their dark nature to the people when their goal is to appear wholesome and family orientated did you learn nothing from pizza gate?

 

[Opus132]

The people behind pizza gate aren't making any effort whatsoever to appear wholesome and family oriented.

 

[Fontaine]

You honestly believe that? There might have been a handful of men that remained geniunly abstinant and pure of heart back in those days but for the mosty part, in life, you quickly learn that everyone that says they're holier than thou is a con artist and usually the most sexually perverse it's a coping mechanism. Why would any of those people ever share their dark nature to the people when their goal is to appear wholesome and family orientated did you learn nothing from pizza gate?

Whatever you want to believe man. It's simply not the historical truth, but whatever.

 

[Weirdcel]

The only way to overcome depression as incel is by not being alive anymore.

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Ironically, LDARing & abandoning careermaxxing is probably the most autistic thing you can do as an incel. You're literally accomplishing nothing at that point. I'm not going to let the foids hold that much power over me.

who said im not earning at home and not wage cucking for a company?

 

[CroMagnonBoy]

I'd nofap but I'm anxious about it causing my testosterone levels to plummet.

Though I did see a vegan youtuber named Jack Green who's been nofapping for a long time, and he has a fucking superhero jaw. If his vegan diet and nofap thing made him grow a massive lower third, then that alone would convince me to stop touching my dick so often.

 

[Weightcel]

who said im not earning at home and not wage cucking for a company?

Fair enough then...

 

[PleaseKillMeLoseSkin]

Whatever you want to believe man. It's simply not the historical truth, but whatever.

HA! historical truth we live in a world where the holocaust is presented as fact despite all the evidence to the contrary, historical truth is whatever your mind wants to convince itself is true to fit your narrative. Dig deeper and you'll find out things about people that are much more sinister, always remain objective .

 

[FiveFourManlet]

I'd nofap but I'm anxious about it causing my testosterone levels to plummet.

Though I did see a vegan youtuber named Jack Green who's been nofapping for a long time, and he has a fucking superhero jaw. If his vegan diet and nofap thing made him grow a massive lower third, then that alone would convince me to stop touching my dick so often.

inject test then.

 

[thePhantom]

Congrats on feeling better. Isn't this just good old MGTOW philosophy though?

 

[Deleted member 236]

Just abandon your basic human needs bro.

 

[LebaneseCel]

I can’t get my mind off sex.

 

[Fontaine]

Congrats on feeling better. Isn't this just good old MGTOW philosophy though?

I guess it's MGTOW yeah. But more like UMSHOW, Ugly Man Sent His Own Way. More honest.

 

[thePhantom]

I guess it's MGTOW yeah. But more like UMSHOW, Ugly Man Sent His Own Way. More honest.

Ok. I too am looking for an alternative to the very defeatist attitude prevailing in this forum, but I'm not willing to give up hoping for sex and validation just yet. Trying to find the proper balance between blackpill realism and constructive optimism I guess.

 

[Mr100]

You lack education. Read more books written before the 1950s, including novels.

Some religious men have engaged in sexual perversion due to frustration, but most have not, and Seminaries assumed it was entirely possible to bear sexual frustration without sinning. There were even special apparatuses, such as bracelets with spikes, to keep young priests from masturbating.

He doesnt lack education - rather he is well informed by countless news stories of sexual corruption in the catholic church.

In any case - you cant hide from your own nature.

In your case you have given up any hope of sexual happiness and decided to maximise what remains for a male outside of a sex. That's an entirely rational position and I understand completely - I think this is the most common position for men who women don't find interesting and attractive. But it does not mean you no longer desire women.

 

[Fontaine]

He doesnt lack education - rather he is well informed by countless news stories of sexual corruption in the catholic church.

In any case - you cant hide from your own nature.

In your case you have given up any hope of sexual happiness and decided to maximise what remains for a male outside of a sex. That's an entirely rational position and I understand completely - I think this is the most common position for men who women don't find interesting and attractive. But it does not mean you no longer desire women.

Libido does decrease over time. Strangely enough, the sexual part of your brain is like a muscle, the less you stimulate it, the weaker it gets. I have experienced it myself. I have sexual thoughts only very infrequently now.

 

[Mr100]

Libido does decrease over time. Strangely enough, the sexual part of your brain is like a muscle, the less you stimulate it, the weaker it gets. I have experienced it myself. I have sexual thoughts only very infrequently now.

does that mean you dont eyeball hot women when you are out and around? how do you feel when you see happy couples (chad+hot girl)?

 

[Fontaine]

does that mean you dont eyeball hot women when you are out and around? how do you feel when you see happy couples (chad+hot girl)?

I feel nothing, but I do rapidly lower my gaze out of precaution. I don't want to reactivate my libido.

 

[CroMagnonBoy]

inject test then.

Does that grow your lower third?

 

[FiveFourManlet]

Does that grow your lower third?

Yes, but before Puberty.
Only growth after puberty is HGH, but that also increases heart size resulting in realy death, so dont.

Injecting Test is a good option if you are Low T, dont bother if you are high test.

 

[masterwizard]

Kek im starting to enjoy @Fontaine threads, I think maybe you are having a bit TOO much TMS my nigga you are starting to sound like a unhinged prophet.