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Cope You fantasize about going overseas, but gradually realize it's a cope, judging by results from the ones who did it or already doing it

Dotrinfobe

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We all shit on where we live, but fantasize about other country, coz grass is always greener on the other side, right :feelsEhh:

except after you've done research, you found you'd likely be just as isolated in a new country compared to here. and on top of all that, you ruin your reputation in your family coz they're not stupid (why would any men specifically go to places like SEA, east europe, latin america, brazil.. etc.?), they think you're even more of a loser now and you're super desperate for pussies, they might even tease you after you come back "did you finally find a gf?" :feelsEhh: answer is of course no, which makes you even more pathetic.

Or, you did find a gf, then you're still pathetic, coz you have to go overseas to find one, if shes decent looking, then she's golddigger/greencard-digger and your family think she gonna dump you and you're just being used. if shes plain or ugly, then you lose even more status... going out thousands of miles get to find an ugly pussy :feelskek: you'd be the joke of the family.

you can't win either way.

and overseas trip is expensive. plane ticket is pricy, accomodation is high cost too. all for what, really? you better off spending that serious money on local hookers. a plane ticket to brazil for me, for example, cost like $1800 easily (the very cheapest, probably the shittest), normal ones go for $3100. and none of them are even direct flights :feels: $1800 can buy me like 10 one hour sessions with hookers :feels: so i lose 10 escort sessions just by purchasing a plane ticket :feels:

then the accomodation, the food, the travel expenses especially transportation, the chance of getting stolen/robbed/kidnapped/end up in hospital for injuries. :feelsmega: and the chance of getting a normal girl is very low. if i go for escorts instead, again, no point when you can do it without going overseas.

:feels::feels::feels: the life of a low SMV male is brutal af. meanwhile chads and stacies travel in pairs or groups and go to all kinds of international places, enjoying the life.

don't fall for the just move to SEA, move to Russia, move to Colombia, move to Brazil scams/giga copes :soy::foidSoy: i noticed all those coaches, despite some of them being able to speak Portuguese, Spanish, Russian, they end up only getting very average looking chicks :lul::lul::lul: there's a guy in Ukranine who speaks Russian, he gives dating advices for expats and shit, topics like how to get Ukranian girls, and which is the best, Ukranian girls vs. Russian girls vs. Belarusian girls. but then i notice his girlfriend.... some east european noodlewhore who doesnt even look young :lul: (she obviously looks mixed, but the Asian facial features are obvious, so probably Tartar or maybe even Mongolic/Kalmyks ancestry, which is common in Slav-land). all that talk about how to score beautiful Ukranian, Belarussian, Russian girls.... but he can only get a semi-noodlewhore who isnt even good looking nor young :feelskek::feelskek::feelskek: so how the fuck can you trust his opinions when he is supposed to be the one who "know it all" and yet can't even get a white becky?!

and there's that stupid ass bald guy who can speak Hindi and Russian, who PUA-maxxed in the past, during the collapse of the Soviet Union he obviously got many pussies as chicks back then were desperate for western cocks. But nowadays he no longer can get shit :feelskek: All he could get is some slim Belarussian chick whose face is mid tier becky at the very best, probably low tier becky, and lack boobs and ass kinda mediocre too. And that chick even throw hissy fit time to time on camera :lul: obviously not very satisfied with that alpha-posing betabuxx, probably didnt pay her enough to be on camera, despite my assumption that all the trips were paid for by the guy.

so much for language-maxxing :feelsstudy: all that effort, for very little gain, probably should have used it on more productive things or just comfy-maxxing :feelscomfy:

In my opinion, if a man make the great effort to learn a foreign language, be it Spanish, Portugues, Russian, he should be able to get a high tier becky AT MINIMUM, otherwise IT'S NOT WORTH. it's beyond pathetic the "self-improvement" a low SMV guy has to make these days just to get pussies. :feelsBox: Have you ever heard any foids wanting to learn a foreign language just so she can go to a foreign country and get laid? :feelskek: most of the time they do it coz they already have a foreign boyfriend or something
 
Mainländer

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Moving out of your home country is generally a bad idea, exceptions are if you live in a communist shithole or will move to a better place that has a community from your original country, like Mexicans in southern US.

Moving out just to try to get some foid to whom you'll never be more than a walking green card or ATM machine is even worse.

There's no ascension other than being attractive or living in a patriarchal society that enforces monogamy.
 
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The best one to do it was itsOVER, if you're gonna do it, learn from the best
 
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I already live in a 3rd world country, so if I'm going somewhere I'll go to a first world country so I can pay less taxes, I'm fucked anywhere I go
 
Divergent_Integral

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On a related note, there's this YouTube channel I've been following, out of morbid sentimentality more than anything else.

The guy is a regular fat American, who has this very cute, rather young Filipina wife, and a child with her. (Her sister's even cuter.) I can't lay my finger on whether they're genuine or just LARPing for Patreon donations.

Have a look:

Tim K
 
Transcended Trucel

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Divergent_Integral said:
On a related note, there's this YouTube channel I've been following, out of morbid sentimentality more than anything else.

The guy is a regular fat American, who has this very cute, rather young Filipina wife, and a child with her. (Her sister's even cuter.) I can't lay my finger on whether they're genuine or just LARPing for Patreon donations.

Have a look:

Tim K
Guy Mogs his wife hard. And if their child is a son, God forbid, he will be incel almost guaranteed.
NVM for the child, he got lucky. Too bad the wife and daughter have dark skin jungle gook pheno.
 
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