Like the topic title says, you can’t have your cake and eat it.
Men get shit thrown at them for being virgins and many men aren’t even virgin out of choice yet by society logic, virgin shaming is fine but slut shaming makes you a bad person by society logic but guess what? Us virgins have it way worse when it comes to shaming since we are reminded of the fact we are locally undesired when virgin shaming happens and a slut is locally desired so it’s only fair that sluts gets shamed for having no self-respect since we have to go through shaming over something out of our control because like I said, you can’t have your cake and eat it.
Men get shit thrown at them for being virgins and many men aren’t even virgin out of choice yet by society logic, virgin shaming is fine but slut shaming makes you a bad person by society logic but guess what? Us virgins have it way worse when it comes to shaming since we are reminded of the fact we are locally undesired when virgin shaming happens and a slut is locally desired so it’s only fair that sluts gets shamed for having no self-respect since we have to go through shaming over something out of our control because like I said, you can’t have your cake and eat it.
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