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Contrary to what the name "incel" might suggest, if you just want sex you aren't an incel (IMO).
Sex is easily accessible if you pay for it in most countries via prostitution. If you live in a country where prostitution is illegal you are a volcel as nothing is stopping you from saving up and going to Germany or the Netherlands where prostitution is legal and regulated, or just risking it.
Sex in all forms except consensual between people attracted to each other, is utterly meaningless. It doesn't validate you and doesn't make you feel loved. If you escortcelled or raped someone you'd be back to square 1 and posting here as you'd still be undesirable. (and if meaningless sex is enough to satisfy you, what is stopping you from escortcelling?)
Sex itself is just an extension to the validation all normal people receive from love and/or mutual attraction. You'd feel validated from a drunken hookup but not to the same extent as you would from being in a loving relationship and would be the equivalent in terms of feeling validated as just making out with a girl.
TL;DR if you really just want sex you're a volcel as there is nothing stopping you from getting it through paying for it.
Sex is easily accessible if you pay for it in most countries via prostitution. If you live in a country where prostitution is illegal you are a volcel as nothing is stopping you from saving up and going to Germany or the Netherlands where prostitution is legal and regulated, or just risking it.
Sex in all forms except consensual between people attracted to each other, is utterly meaningless. It doesn't validate you and doesn't make you feel loved. If you escortcelled or raped someone you'd be back to square 1 and posting here as you'd still be undesirable. (and if meaningless sex is enough to satisfy you, what is stopping you from escortcelling?)
Sex itself is just an extension to the validation all normal people receive from love and/or mutual attraction. You'd feel validated from a drunken hookup but not to the same extent as you would from being in a loving relationship and would be the equivalent in terms of feeling validated as just making out with a girl.
TL;DR if you really just want sex you're a volcel as there is nothing stopping you from getting it through paying for it.