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Serious You aren't really incel if you just want sex.

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Contrary to what the name "incel" might suggest, if you just want sex you aren't an incel (IMO).
Sex is easily accessible if you pay for it in most countries via prostitution. If you live in a country where prostitution is illegal you are a volcel as nothing is stopping you from saving up and going to Germany or the Netherlands where prostitution is legal and regulated, or just risking it.
Sex in all forms except consensual between people attracted to each other, is utterly meaningless. It doesn't validate you and doesn't make you feel loved. If you escortcelled or raped someone you'd be back to square 1 and posting here as you'd still be undesirable. (and if meaningless sex is enough to satisfy you, what is stopping you from escortcelling?)

Sex itself is just an extension to the validation all normal people receive from love and/or mutual attraction. You'd feel validated from a drunken hookup but not to the same extent as you would from being in a loving relationship and would be the equivalent in terms of feeling validated as just making out with a girl.

TL;DR if you really just want sex you're a volcel as there is nothing stopping you from getting it through paying for it.
 
I don’t want sex, I want to be respected as a man. I hate the feeling of inferiority.
 
Incels who want sex want consensual sex , where there is no money involved. The girl has to be seduced by you.
 
Ye we all know it's not about sex, it's just inceltears and other normies having a hard time understanding
 
Sex for sex has no interest at all. It's worse than masturbation , because you're stressed and you're not at ease if you go to a hooker. People who never went to a hooker/escort may think it's super cool but it's not, it's uncomfortable
 
Sex for sex has no interest at all. It's worse than masturbation , because you're stressed and you're not at ease if you go to a hooker. People who never went to a hooker/escort may think it's super cool but it's not, it's uncomfortable
I can imagine, I cannot fathom how stressful sex would be, even with a non-hooker.
If you loved a girl and she loved you back I guess it would be better as you'd make yourselves comfortable in such situation.

But these thoughts are just a wet fantasy for an incel.
 
Sex with hooker=/=sex with gf
 
if one day you visit an escort or an hooker , you are 99% sure to be disappointed. This will be just mechanical sex, and it has no interest at all in my opinion
 
High IQ thread, only low IQ animals and or subhumans want to exclusively have sex for the momentary pleasure and or status of not being a virgin, people that really struggle with the perils of virginity are ones that not only want sex but want a wholesome relationship and female attention more.
 
legit thread, people who think you can't be incel unless you're waxing your eye brows and approaching 50 women a day are the reason why the incel community is split up into "volcel" factions like on the r9k's and wizchan
 
this tbh, anyone can have sex, but there is no replacing sex with your wife/gf, there is no love coming out of it
 
legit iois then like eyefucking etc tbhtbh
Lol, making eye contact isn't really an ioi.
You could've just been in her line of sight as she was looking for her friend or some shit.
 
Lol, making eye contact isn't really an ioi.
You could've just been in her line of sight as she was looking for her friend or some shit.
I mean obvious eyefucking
 
So if you just want sex what is stopping you exactly from getting a prostitute and escaping inceldom?
Getting a prostitute once or twice won't help anything, and they're too expensive and rush you. We want free sex with a femoid we're at least attracted to. Tinder and femoidism messed it up for us, so they must be destroyed.
 
Aren't you like a teenager?
I remember the Rope thread where you said when you turn 30 which is 2029 it made me turn my head.
 
I mean obvious eyefucking
I guess, but even then it could be just curiosity, like if there is something wrong with you.
Afterall most women aren't very confident so if you looked at a girl you thought was looking at you be it either because she found you attractive or because she thought there is something wrong with you, she'd look away as soon as she noticed you might turn towards her and catch her staring.
 
You want sex and the validation that comes from sex. Not just the validation from the woman but also the validation from your stupid fucking peers, you want to not be seen as a loser anymore.
 
No, i don't think so, but i never wanted sex only. I want all what comes with healthy relationships with a girl. Feeling of you being desired is probably even more important than sex, but i wouldn't know, as i haven't experienced both.
 
I only want sex, but I want it for FREE, I want to have side whores that are ready to suck my cock on call
 
Even in countries where prostitution is illegal, escorts and hookers are easy to get, I know this from experience. But just as most of the people in this will thread agree, it isn't solely about sex because if it were, money would solve that problem easily. It's the emotional connection you have with the person you are having sex with that completes the picture. Paid sex fills the need for a little while but it wears off quickly and what is left is a deeper need than before. Without a mutual emotional connection, sex is simply masturbation with another person.
 
I don't want sex just to have it. I want sex so I can finally see if I'm worth it to a woman.
 
Without a mutual emotional connection, sex is simply masturbation with another person.
Chad doesn't care about this, and he gets to pick any slut he wants. Having an "emotional connection" with a braindead femoid is useless. Just fuck the shit out them like the whores they are.
 
Chad doesn't care about this, and he gets to pick any slut he wants. Having an "emotional connection" with a braindead femoid is useless. Just fuck the shit out them like the whores they are.
And how is that working out for you? I am guessing if it was working out you wouldn't be here.
 
And how is that working out for you? I am guessing if it was working out you wouldn't be here.
Get hookers, or go to SEA. I just need to save money. I rather saw my head off before being some used up rostie's cuck.
 
Sex with a non escort cures everything.
 
incels that don't fuck escorts are volcels.
 
incels that don't fuck escorts are volcels.

I agree with this.

If we purely look at the term "involuntarily celibate" it means being celibate without choice, which is not the case if you have access to whores. Furthermore, having sex with a hooker counts as sexual intercourse, which simply involves P in V.

I think TFL (True Forced Loneliness) is probably a more suitable term for what many of us are since we are forced to be alone/outcast in the relationship and validation sense even if we are able to have sex with hookers.
 
What if I want free(as in no explicit financial transaction) sex?
 

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