Let's say that tomorrow, you meet your dream girl. She is a total 10/10 both physically and mentally. She is also romantically and sexually attracted to you. In less than a year, you and her are married and have children.
If all of this happened, would you still have blackpilled/redpilled views on women? Would you teach the redpill/backpill to your sons and daughters? Do you really hate femoids or are you just mad that they don't love you?
If one's views on the world change simply because things are in their favor, then they never really had those views. They were always just a conformist who was merely biased by their own experiences.
Nobody should just believe the black pill because "bad things happened to them" because everyone has different experiences in life.
They should believe the black pill based on evidence and statistics. That way it doesn't matter how much their life improves on a personal level, they will still have the understanding that the world works a different way for large majority of men.
My life changing for the better doesn't change the statistics we are all aware of. Most recently data shows that 30% of men under the age of thirty are virgins or hasn't had sex in a year (and that will likely increase).
Stats show that 94% of women will reject a man solely for being 5'4" and 50% of women will reject a man solely for being 5'8" (which is the average height in America). So an average man will be rejected 50% of the time on height alone (she hasn't even judged his face yet and he's already disqualified, and most men have average faces).
Just check out the "Scientific Black Pill" section on the wiki. There's no way you can deny the black pill if you know the stats and studies that prove it to be true:
The Scientific Blackpill is about understanding the nature of human social and sexual behavior with a particular focus on evolutionary psychological perspectives...
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Either way for me your scenario would never happen, because I am no longer trying to date or court women. I don't want a family or children, I just want a peaceful, easy life, within minimal effort required, filled with leisure and travel. This is why my only focus right now is wealthmaxxing. I don't care about getting in shape, dressing well, etc right now. Those tasks are for men still chasing the dream of family and children.
But at some point each of us will have to accept that such a life is not available to us, we were born in the wrong era. Though in my case it's more convenient, because I never really wanted a family or children, just sex. The only reason I approached women to date was to have sex, and after losing my virginity to a prostitute all my desire to do that just faded away because now it was just simple for me to pay for sex and skip all of the hassle.
Good luck to the rest of you.