Experiment Would you prefer shared fetishes or shared non-sexual interests?

[SociallyStupid]

Would you prefer to have a girlfriend who would like to have sex the same way you like it, but otherwise has completely different interests, so you dislike doing all the non-sexual activities (but can avoid absolute dealbreakers, e.g. if you are afraid of dogs you don't have to walk the dog) (but enjoy that you do it with her).
Or would you prefer to have a girlfriend who has shared interests (e.g. plays the same video games/watches the same movies as you), but has completely different sexual interests so you are always annoyed about the specific acts (but can avoid dealbreakers like anything which disgusts you, and you still enjoy having sex with her, just not the type)?

Not that I can choose, but I wonder what would actually be more important to me. You definitely spend more time on non-sexual activities, so if there is a match, more of your time is spent more pleasurably. But on the other hand, you can only have sex with your girlfriend, so if that is not good it's not possible to replace it while it would, in principle, be possible to do some of the non-sexual activities with friends. Also, it's time spent more intensely.

 

[weaselbomber]

What's the point of being in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with except when you're willing to fuck? At that point why not just hire escorts?

 

[FumoCum]

What's the point of being in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with except when you're willing to fuck? At that point why not just hire escorts?

 

[Neucher The Kanga]

2nd option because you can't have sex all day. Not if you're sub 8 anyway

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

2nd option for sure.

 

[SociallyStupid]

What's the point of being in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with except when you're willing to fuck? At that point why not just hire escorts?

Well, sex with escorts isn't "real" in that sense. And you release more bonding hormones during sex than during other activities, so I guess if you like similar stuff there the amount of hormones would also be bigger

 

[weaselbomber]

Well, sex with escorts isn't "real" in that sense.

Is it any more real when you're doing it with someone that you have nothing in common with?

 

[Grodd]

2nd option for sure.

 

[SociallyStupid]

Is it any more real when you're doing it with someone that you have nothing in common with?

Well, you do have something in common with them, namely the sexual interests/fetishes. And I guess this would also mean you have more sex than otherwise

 

[weaselbomber]

Well, you do have something in common with them, namely the sexual interests/fetishes.

That's extremely shallow. Not for me, tbh.

 

[joocel52]

If i have to choose between the two than interests

 

[SociallyStupid]

That's extremely shallow. Not for me, tbh.

Why is that shallow? It's not about looks after all. Just about a certain type of interest.

 

[HotDogCel]

the second obviously

 

[Da_Yunez]

Would you prefer to have a girlfriend who would like to have sex the same way you like it, but otherwise has completely different interests, so you dislike doing all the non-sexual activities (but can avoid absolute dealbreakers, e.g. if you are afraid of dogs you don't have to walk the dog) (but enjoy that you do it with her).
Or would you prefer to have a girlfriend who has shared interests (e.g. plays the same video games/watches the same movies as you), but has completely different sexual interests so you are always annoyed about the specific acts (but can avoid dealbreakers like anything which disgusts you, and you still enjoy having sex with her, just not the type)?

Not that I can choose, but I wonder what would actually be more important to me. You definitely spend more time on non-sexual activities, so if there is a match, more of your time is spent more pleasurably. But on the other hand, you can only have sex with your girlfriend, so if that is not good it's not possible to replace it while it would, in principle, be possible to do some of the non-sexual activities with friends. Also, it's time spent more intensely.

Second option, sex at this point simply seems like a bonus, id rather have a blast every single minute I spend with her, and still enjoy secks, but instead the way she likes it, which isnt any dealbreaker at all, after all, you will spend much more time with her on non sexual activities than on sexual, and you still get laid with the bonus of making her happy.

 

[Da_Yunez]

What's the point of being in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with except when you're willing to fuck? At that point why not just hire escorts?

Fax

 

[JuliusEvola]

2nd option
My wife is 2d and she loves to discuss any subject I enjoy with me. Our thoughts are one and the same, she is a prophet of God, if not God itself.
(Yui Hirasawa is my wife)

Also "fetishes" are degenerate.

 

[SociallyStupid]

Also "fetishes" are degenerate.

I mean just perfect sexual compatibility. However you want to have sex, she is totally into it. So if vanilla is what you love most, it's also what she loves most, and the same positions as you like.

 

[Truecelcel]

i dont have fetishes tbh, any porn i watch is just vanilla lesbian

 

[SociallyStupid]

i dont have fetishes tbh, any porn i watch is just vanilla lesbian

I don't mean the type of porn, but the type of sex you want. And here the same holds. If you pick the second option, she has strange fetishes you don't really want to accommodate, but do because you like her and she wants it. But if you pick the first option, she wants the same sex as you but outside the bedroom has "strange" interests to you.

 

[Truecelcel]

I don't mean the type of porn, but the type of sex you want. And here the same holds. If you pick the second option, she has strange fetishes you don't really want to accommodate, but do because you like her and she wants it. But if you pick the first option, she wants the same sex as you but outside the bedroom has "strange" interests to you.

well yeah but like i said i dont have any fetishes i know of, probably none even if i was chad, so i dont really know what i'd be choosing if i selected that option

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

My idea of sex, isn’t sex, it’s just me torturing her and killing her. It would be easier if she didn’t have the same idea.

 

[JuliusEvola]

I mean just perfect sexual compatibility. However you want to have sex, she is totally into it. So if vanilla is what you love most, it's also what she loves most, and the same positions as you like.

sex is degenerate unless you are reproducing, any girl who would willingly have sex with us would not stay for more than a night
what is the point

 

[SociallyStupid]

well yeah but like i said i dont have any fetishes i know of, probably none even if i was chad, so i dont really know what i'd be choosing if i selected that option

Ok, maybe I was confusing. Let us assume you only like (a) action movies for nonsex activities and (b) missionary position for sex (I guess that's not a fetish).

First scenario: She also likes missionary position for sex, but she only likes to go to museums and for peaceful hiking in her spare time. She will never watch an action movie with you, but you can watch them with some friends from time to time.

Second scenario: She also likes action movies, but requires you to kiss her feet for foreplay while she masturbates and then for the main sex she will dominate you and put nipple clamps on you while she fucks you. Sex like that is all you get (and this is obviously a fetish so I "hope" you don't like it).

sex is degenerate unless you are reproducing, any girl who would willingly have sex with us would not stay for more than a night
what is the point

It was just a thought experiment. No particular reason, I don't have too many topics, so I just ask questions.

 

[Friezacel]

I take fetishes

 

[VintageCarCoper]

I take fetishes

Same. If I found a girl who liked getting force fed a lot of food till she is bloated and overfull, that would be better than anything else. Imagine if she let me force feed her till she was a little sick

 

[Simba]

I would preferably like somebody who has the same interests as me but at the same time it would be frustrating if we couldn’t agree on what fetishes to do so I think I’ll go with fetishes, ya?

 

[Friezacel]

I forgot to give my reasoning: Toilets dont have interests. Their "interests" consists of make up, clothes and being whores. And if they have any kind of hobbies then they are just pretending to attract Chad. The only kind of toilets that have actual hobbies are autistic toilets and even then autistic toilets are childish and annoying as shit

 

[Regenerator]

What's the point of being in a relationship with someone you have nothing in common with except when you're willing to fuck? At that point why not just hire escorts?

 

[TheCatMan]

If she wanted me to do stuff to her I would be up for it but I don't want her doing anything to me.