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I am a 26 years old Incel (you can call me fakecel beacause I did hookers) from a middle eastern country. I was born in Germany and I have a german passport and a job. That is enough to get a good looking arranged wife from my home country.

Pro: I would have a wife. I could fuck her and make children with her. No more annoying questions from my friends and relatives. I am 100% sure that this is the only option for me to ever get a wife.
Con: She would not love mit, probably she would even be disgusted from me. She would only do it because she could come to germany and could send some money to her family from time to time. She would not speak german. German friends might realize that it was an arranged marriage.

What would you do?
 
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mNFwTJ3wz9 said:
hookermaxx

Yeah, I hate myself for it but I cant without it. But thats not the topic.
 
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Once she sees how liberal Germany is, she will dump your ass for an German. Maybe not necessarily but possible scenario.
 
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Mecoja said:
Once she sees how liberal Germany is, she will dump your ass for an German. Maybe not necessarily but possible scenario.

Yeah I thought about this also. Maybe she wont do it because her family would rage but maybe she will be a slut and wont care what here family thinks...
 
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Mecoja said:
Once she sees how liberal Germany is, she will dump your ass for an German. Maybe not necessarily but possible scenario.
This^
 
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I'm in the same situation as you except older and Canada-Paki. I wouldn't do it. Like can she even speak english properly? I don't wanna have to be the one to assimilate her into Canadian culture. And they usually dress in traditional paki clothing when they get here and even wear those hijabs sometimes. I hate that shit and don't wanna be in public with that.
LordFriendzone said:
Yeah I thought about this also. Maybe she wont do it because her family would rage but maybe she will be a slut and wont care what here family thinks...
If it's anything like Paki foids, it take them years to realize how free they are here and the options they have for divorce-raping and cucking you. Germany would be harder because the language sounds impossible to learn.
 
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kaang said:
Like can she even speak english properly?

There is no specific girl yet.

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I hate that shit and don't wanna be in public with that.

Yeah I would also hate that. But I think that would not be the issue. My familys country is not that strict.
 
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I know many incels who visited escorts, and they tell me sex without mutual attraction is draining. The escort is just doing it for money and isn't attracted to you. Sex in arranged marriage would be no different. She is nauseated at the sight of you, wish you were dead and lives with you only because based islamic culture has raised her to be submissive.

It won't satisfy you, plus you will be throwing a lot of money down a blackhole (aka buying things for someone who is disgusted by your existence), only to get cheated on for a white man.

I might sound harsh, but arranged marriage will only give you short term happiness for a far worse pain later on when she cheats. If you were living in middle East I wouldn't say this but you are in Germany, which means she will DEFINITELY cheat for a cumskin.

On top of breaking you from inside, you will have to pay for your children and refusing to do so means she can accuse you of anything she likes. And unlike middle East, it's you who will have to face consequences.

Remember, sometimes life will try to show you that blackpill is not right, but don't fall into this trap. There are many posts here about incel tier men getting a gf only to suffer the same fate as what I wrote above
 
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Blackpillapologist said:
I know many incels who visited escorts, and they tell me sex without mutual attraction is draining. The escort is just doing it for money and isn't attracted to you. Sex in arranged marriage would be no different. She is nauseated at the sight of you, wish you were dead and lives with you only because based islamic culture has raised her to be submissive.

It won't satisfy you, plus you will be throwing a lot of money down a blackhole (aka buying things for someone who is disgusted by your existence), only to get cheated on for a white man.

I might sound harsh, but arranged marriage will only give you short term happiness for a far worse pain later on when she cheats. If you were living in middle East I wouldn't say this but you are in Germany, which means she will DEFINITELY cheat for a cumskin.

On top of breaking you from inside, you will have to pay for your children and refusing to do so means she can accuse you of anything she likes. And unlike middle East, it's you who will have to face consequences

Your name is really fitting you... But I guess you are right.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Your name is really fitting you... But I guess you are right.
Remember, sometimes life will try to show you that blackpill is not right, but don't fall into this trap. There are many posts here about incel tier men getting a gf only to suffer the same fate as what I wrote above
 
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Don't expect her to stay with you for very long. Many foids change fast once they step on European ground.
 
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Blackpillapologist said:
Remember, sometimes life will try to show you that blackpill is not right, but don't fall into this trap. There are many posts here about incel tier men getting a gf only to suffer the same fate as what I wrote above

So we will go on with hookermaxx all my life. Seriosly when you once started it, you cant stop anymore. Even if its depressing as fuck.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
I am a 26 years old Incel (you can call me fakecel beacause I did hookers) from a middle eastern country. I was born in Germany and I have a german passport and a job. That is enough to get a good looking arranged wife from my home country.
It's you Hamudi, back from Blackpill Syria.:owo:
View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A73V0jbmd_0
 
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If you want kids I guess arrangedmarriagemaxxing is the way to go, since you're more likely to get a pure blooded kid. That being said, if you are ethnic and bringing over an ethnic f*male to a cumskin country, you've got to accept the fact that you're going to get cucked eventually.
 
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ThreeInchesLong said:
If you want kids I guess arrangedmarriagemaxxing is the way to go, since you're more likely to get a pure blooded kid. That being said, if you are ethnic and bringing over an ethnic f*male to a cumskin country, you've got to accept the fact that you're going to get cucked eventually.
Do you live in curryland or like me in the west?

Women have all the power in the west, my father got the police called a dozen times on him and they still wouldn't institutionalize my schizo mother until recently, but if a man acted similar to that, he'd instantly get himself charged with harassment.

Arrange marriage in the west is a fish out of water; it simply doesn't work here.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Yeah, I hate myself for it but I cant without it. But thats not the topic.
No I mean - continue using hookers. Why would you hate yourself for it?
Marriage is just asking to get fucked over.
 
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mNFwTJ3wz9 said:
No I mean - continue using hookers. Why would you hate yourself for it?

Because it is depressing as fuck, specially in germany. They dont try a bit to hide that they are discusted from you and want to make you leave as fast as possible. I was in Thailand a few times and there it is totally different. There I could imagine to Hookermaxx all my life. But there are two problems:
-I would be the biggest shame of my family
-I dont have enough money to stay there forever, I must go to work in germany
 
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Look with all respect to my friends above. All that is said is bullshit. Here's what really matters
1. Is she a virgin
2. Will she stay loyal to you

If both these are satisfied then go on. Remember a non-virgin bride can betray you anytime, she has already tasted cock before. As to the question of loyalty-

Remember arrianged marriage is a patriarchal concept created by old wise based men to reign in women and their hypergamy. The more advantages you have over the foid in this arrangement the more chances for it all to work out.

She can't speak german? Good, she won't assimilate into german culture that easily and cuck you. She'll need you to navigate the country.

She is uneducated/unemployed? Good, she will be dependent on you for cash and lifestyle.

She has patriarchal beliefs embedded into her? Perfect.

Considering you only want a foid to fuck and bear cbildren, this would suffice.
 
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Caesercel said:
1. Is she a virgin

Yeah she would defently be a virgin.

Caesercel said:
2. Will she stay loyal to you

Thats the big question. Nobody can know that.
 
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don't bring her to germany. knock her up and leave.
 
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CopeToTheRope said:
don't bring her to germany
move to her country or don't marry her at all

if you bring her to germany there is a 100% chance she will cuck you for chaddam / aryan chad

I repeat, DO NOT BRING HER TO GERMANY
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Thats the big question. Nobody can know that.
You can try to gauge what the foid is like. Her behaviour, family etc. If she was raised to serve a husband with typical muslim distatse for promiscuity you are safe.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
I am a 26 years old Incel (you can call me fakecel beacause I did hookers) from a middle eastern country. I was born in Germany and I have a german passport and a job. That is enough to get a good looking arranged wife from my home country.

Pro: I would have a wife. I could fuck her and make children with her. No more annoying questions from my friends and relatives. I am 100% sure that this is the only option for me to ever get a wife.
Con: She would not love mit, probably she would even be disgusted from me. She would only do it because she could come to germany and could send some money to her family from time to time. She would not speak german. German friends might realize that it was an arranged marriage.

What would you do?
Don't do it. I am American curry and was offered same deal but refused. Arranged marriage = cucked. Many men end up in shitty abusive marriages. No point in ever doing them. Also even if the foid doesn't speak German, she can learn it and then leave u for. a white. It is too risky.
 
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get married and don't come back to Germany you don't belong here not trying to be rude just being honest your country has not criminalized martial rape as of yet so you will get easy unlimited sex/rape from your wife
live among your people that share similar skin colour and culture
Europe for white people only and middle East for your people.
 
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Zac said:
get married and don't come back to Germany you don't belong here not trying to be rude just being honest your country has not criminalized martial rape as of yet so you will get easy unlimited sex/rape from your wife
live among your people that share similar skin colour and culture
Europe for white people only and middle East for your people.

Thats said very easy but what should I work in my home country? You can only have a decent life there I you are some corrupt politican or mafia boss. My skills would be totaly useless there. I dont want to be poor.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Thats said very easy but what should I work in my home country? You can only have a decent life there I you are some corrupt politican or mafia boss. My skills would be totaly useless there. I dont want to be poor.
He's a retarded stormfrontcel.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Thats said very easy but what should I work in my home country? You can only have a decent life there I you are some corrupt politican or mafia boss. My skills would be totaly useless there. I dont want to be poor.
Only some tech workers can get EU salary while being overseas. If u aren't in tech or digital marketing type shit it's over
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He's a retarded stormfrontcel.
stormfags are low IQ as fuck, why should I give a fuck about cumskins?
 
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LordFriendzone said:
What would you do?
I would keep my dignity and continue to live a hermit life. Way better than living a fake life with a gold digger/citizenship digger that's gonna leave you as soon as she gets what she wants.
 
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LordFriendzone said:
Thats said very easy but what should I work in my home country? You can only have a decent life there I you are some corrupt politican or mafia boss. My skills would be totaly useless there. I dont want to be poor.
Stop being weak and move back to your based home country

Being poor is better than being cucked / divorce raped
 
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would try it but I would be very careful
LordFriendzone said:
I was born in Germany and I have a german passport and a job.
same also immigrant cel
LordFriendzone said:
Because it is depressing as fuck, specially in germany. They dont try a bit to hide that they are discusted from you and want to make you leave as fast as possible.
also this is so true you have to be really hard and aggressive and calculated towards them start a clock or something
 
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I would still do it. Now or never. Just don't betabuxx too much
 
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if you marry a virgin in an arranged marriage, getting cucked is statistically very unlkely there are some studies about this
 
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Zer0/∞ said:
Do you live in curryland or like me in the west?

Women have all the power in the west, my father got the police called a dozen times on him and they still wouldn't institutionalize my schizo mother until recently, but if a man acted similar to that, he'd instantly get himself charged with harassment.

Arrange marriage in the west is a fish out of water; it simply doesn't work here.
In the west, in a country with unbelievably cucked feminist laws. So yeah, arrange marriage is a really hard sell
 
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