Let's say you have a childhood best friend who you grew up with. He's nothing special, not a chad by any means, but he's not an incel either. He's had a few partners in his life while you remained your current status.
This childhood best friend was the only person who ever hung out with you, stood up for you, and was your only true connection to a "friend group". He's everything anyone could want from a friend.
However, this friend of yours is with a girl who has shown interest in you. They're relationship is a bit rocky and she's grown closer to you. If given the chance to finally lose your virginity and escape inceldom, would you fuck her?
The only downside is that you'll lose your friendship with him and he'll never forgive you. Would you take that chance?