Normies are finally admitting it. The best post:
"Exactly. Looks matter. A lot.
Everyone, even people who say "I don't care about looks" has a minimum threshold. If you're not physically attracted to them then there will be no dating. It's not shallow. It's human.
But people want to pretend that unattractive people absolutely have a shot if they can do things like dress well and look neat and tidy. Sorry, but no. Simply being born with your appearance is the single largest limiting factor in dating.
Being presentable helps a lot but your unfortunate face, or other undesirable and physically unchangeable trait, immediately removes you from being an option to a large amount of people. For some people the circumstances of their genetics shrinks their potential dating pool to a small fraction of everyone else.
"Just date other ugly people! Date other people in your league!"
You still need to be attracted to your partner. Even unattractive people need this. They're still human. When you settle for another ugly person it's exactly that. Settling. Because you'll never have a chance at being in a relationship with someone who you actually are physically attracted to.
A delightful personality is a great thing. But liking someone as a person without physical attraction is limited to being a friendship. We all need friendship. It's a good thing. But it's not dating. A friend without that innate attraction will never be a romantic prospect.
It sucks. But it's true."
