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Would you consider yourself too spoiled during childhood?

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Would you consider yourself too spoiled/raised too softly during childhood?


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Foreverpuzzledbylove

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Seems relevant to me.
 
yes man i wasnt prepared for harsh reality of the world
 
Both tbh. In some ways I had it easy while in other ways I didn't.
 
maybe up until 7-8 years old or so, past that I had to deal with total garbage treatment at home, including threats to get thrown out and insane hour long arguments where I was being treated like an adult
 
My mom coddled me but my dad was very strict with me.
 
I was overprotected. But I wasn't spoiled financially.
 
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I mean c'mon man. Anyway, no I wasn't because I grew up with many siblings and we were kinda poor.
 
My mom coddled me but my dad was very strict with me.
Same, but I barely saw my dad as a child.

I was coddled by my mother while simultaneously being relentlessly bullied at school. I both didn't know how to be independent, nor did I know how to act like other boys. For any normie lurkers, if you're going to have kids, at least attempt to raise them right. You don't want your son to grow up to be a trembling nervous wreck who can't handle real life situations.
 
Childhood normal, but teen years was bad, my old people wanted me to be good boy, living safe and overly cautious life, while young girls value adventurous schmucks. Tried some schmuckmaxing in punk past, but not enough to be really cool, and could not be fuckboy
[No] thank you for wanting to raise me as betabuxer
 
yes man i wasnt prepared for harsh reality of the world
I think this is the root of inceldom for so many people around here. When you're raised soft, you'll never be able to live life and bear its responsibilities at the same time because your mental mindset is prematurely shaped to tell you you're entitled to more than life gives you. Never will something be truly satisfactionary. And when you can't live life, have a group of friends to go out with, bam, it's over. No chance of love, since you're dependent. Entitled women, sure, they can get laid, yet they won't be able to enter a happy relationship because they'll just get used, because they feel entitled to good treatment while lots of guys just fool them for sex.
 
Yes, in some ways, but never financially.
I never really had to do things on my own. My dad always helped me too much with school related things and other stuff like driving me everywhere and not really letting me do things on my own.

Today I'm a useless lazy autist. I can't even get my ID. I need to have photos taken and then go to some place, wait an hour or so to get my ID done. It expired years ago and I still haven't done it. I'm scared of it. Don't even ask why, I'm autistic, socially anxious useless nerd and I despise taking photos.
 
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absolutely. i am very soft and have no incentive to do things for myself or anything which i find difficult.
 
No. I was denied things all the time.
 

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