Serious Would you consider yourself a boring peron?

[WawelDragon1683]

I would consider myself a very boring person. As nothing interesting ever happneed to me becouse i was always excluded from my pear groups.
I also don't have any interesting hobbies because my depression and addiction to porn and the internet stopped from developing any.
I'm not funny and i have nothing interesting to talk about with people. This is what happens when you isolate a person due to their looks for 7 years during their childhood, when their interests and personality are suppose to grow.

 

[FrustratedWhiteMale]

Of course. Even the losers find me boring.

 

[PureNomad]

Yes I'm boring, but so are everyone i'm forced to interact with... so I don't beat myself over it

 

[Deleted member 18214]

How am I supposed to know

 

[Deleted member 19236]

yes, boring hateful and toxic tbh

 

[HueHueBr]

My autism doesn't let me like things that normal people like. Everything to me seems so bland.

 

[Deleted member 1042]

Most arent any better, especially foids.

 

[TheSecondComing]

yeah I'm a big loser lmao

 

[Deleted member 19079]

yea i have missed key social developmental stages so im a very boring person. being borderline autistic doesnt help either

 

[Joker]

Yes.
All I do is work, eat, and sleep.

 

[TINMAN]

"Boring" or "Interesting" is all bluepilled cope. The only people who care about your hobbies or interests are other men, women don't give a single shit about it.

If you want to make friends (obviously male, men and women can't be friends), the best way to do it is to just spend a lot of time around the same people. This is why hobbies are good for making friends, it's an excuse for people to spend large amounts of time together. As long as they don't find you annoying they will warm up to you over time, especially if you are reliable and trustworthy. Friendships fade when you stop spending time together and interacting. It's as simple as that.

One thing of note is that you should be careful not to let people take advantage of you / scam you when you are trying to make friends, this is a very common experience for autistic men, myself included.

 

[Saudade]

yes i think im a boring person, i mean i know and im interested in many things but i just cant hold a conversation where you talk about normie stuff, like i have no idea how they think or what they care about.

 

[Kardacel]

No I can analyze people and understand what they enjoy.

A lot of it is mirroring and being able to pick up on key things about that person & then being very NT. I think I'm a sociopath so I can fake-NT really well, it's easy for me to make people laugh and to create "good vibes" as long as those people aren't judging me by how I look.

 

[Sexdoll Pioneer]

I don't have a boring life but I come across as a boring person because my verbal communication skills are utter shit. I could be the first person to land on Mars and still not be able to make my adventure sound interesting to others.

 

[Deleted member 21514]

I play videogames and waste my time on the internet all day so nothing interesting happens to me, besides i'm not funny so yeah im pretty boring

 

[WawelDragon1683]

"Boring" or "Interesting" is all bluepilled cope. The only people who care about your hobbies or interests are other men, women don't give a single shit about it.

If you want to make friends (obviously male, men and women can't be friends), the best way to do it is to just spend a lot of time around the same people. This is why hobbies are good for making friends, it's an excuse for people to spend large amounts of time together. As long as they don't find you annoying they will warm up to you over time, especially if you are reliable and trustworthy. Friendships fade when you stop spending time together and interacting. It's as simple as that.

One thing of note is that you should be careful not to let people take advantage of you / scam you when you are trying to make friends, this is a very common experience for autistic men, myself included.

I've tried to make friends with men in the past, but all they ever talk about is their past experiences (the women they fucked, the things they did with their friends etc.) and due to the fact i don't have any note worthy experiences, i cannot relate to them. That's why most of my male "friends" ditch me after a while cause they consider me boring.

 

[Pigman]

Yes, I’m boring as fuck

 

[Kardacel]

I've tried to make friends with men in the past, but all they ever talk about is their past experiences (the women they fucked, the things they did with their friends etc.) and due to the fact i don't have any note worthy experiences, i cannot relate to them.

This is when mirroring works really well but if you're like me you don't get any joy out of doing that either. I'm lucky enough to have some friends I can talk about philosophy and politics & shit with on a high level but it tends to just lead to very nihilistic conversations after a while.

The world is dark, having a conversation about the world will turn dark sooner or later.

 

[TINMAN]

I've tried to make friends with men in the past, but all they ever talk about is their past experiences (the women they fucked, the things they did with their friends etc.) and due to the fact i don't have any note worthy experiences, i cannot relate to them. That's why most of my male "friends" ditch me after a while cause they consider me boring.

I don't really get on well with most normies either. I generally tend to have a very small number of friends that I trust a lot, and the rest I just consider acquaintances.

 

[WawelDragon1683]

I don't really get on well with most normies either. I generally tend to have a very small number of friends that I trust a lot, and the rest I just consider acquaintances.

I wish i had any friends. I'm incapable to befriend anyone for a long period of time.

 

[Deleted member 11159]

Exact same problem for me. How the hell was I supposed to develop a personality if if I was locked away in my bedroom all day to avoid bullying?

 

[WawelDragon1683]

Exact same problem for me. How the hell was I supposed to develop a personality if if I was locked away in my bedroom all day to avoid bullying?

Exacly. The damage to my brain has already been done. It's 100 times harder to change your personality once you're no longer a child.

 

[ordinaryotaku]

To normies, I am. If I interact with other people like me though, I'd be a fun person.

 

[Deleted member 4159]

Hell no. My circumstances have limited my opportunities and made my life boring.

 

[Hail The Bloatlord]

Only in foids' eyes. Men consider me Ok

 

[Player]

Not really. I have a good sense of humor and developed imagination.

 

[Apati]

according to normies i am boring as fuck but they are boring for me also idk tbh

 

[boringcel]

 

[Monk of Failure]

Yes, boring as well as annoying.

 

[Neverbeentouchedcel]

Yes but I don't find most other people exciting either.

 

[Words2_live_bye]

I would consider myself a very boring person. As nothing interesting ever happneed to me becouse i was always excluded from my pear groups.
I also don't have any interesting hobbies because my depression and addiction to porn and the internet stopped from developing any.
I'm not funny and i have nothing interesting to talk about with people. This is what happens when you isolate a person due to their looks

You explained my entire life. Only redeeming factor i have is my intelligence and Piano skills. Other than that i am fucked