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Would you be able to cope if adult virginity wasn't stigmatized?

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I know everybody would still be disappointed that they couldn't get laid, but would you feel content if adult virginity was treated as a normal thing instead of something to be mocked and ridiculed? For me the most frustrating thing is that it's so stigmatized that being a virgin past a certain age is one of the reasons that foids will reject you, and it becomes a self-sustaining cycle. Not having sex isn't just not having sex, it's a a signifier that you have failed as a human being.

But that's not the way most other things work. I've known normies who have all sorts of problems that were never problems for me, except in their cases the problems weren't funny and they weren't self-sustaining because society doesn't stigmatize them. If you show up to a gym for the first time at age 30, they don't laugh you out of the building for not having figured out how to take care of yourself by then. If you apply for your first apartment well into adult-hood, you don't get denied on the basis that you were living with your parents for too long. You won't fail a driver's-licence test on the basis that the proctor thinks that anybody who's never driven a car is permanently incapable of doing so.

I don't think I'd be angry if it wasn't stigmatized this way. I'd be disappointed that I'm still a virgin, but I wouldn't have panic attacks every night or talk to myself like a schizophrenic or post on this forum. It would just be a problem that I have to figure out to get my life in order.
 
I guess it would make it a little easier

Also if this was the case maybe women would be more accepting to the possibility of dating male virgins
 
In Japan, the land of copes, men aren't as stigmatized and are able to dive into anime. In Slavland, apparently it means everything, so they slowly suicide via alcohol, which is why the Slavpill is arguably the most Brutal of all the racepills.
 
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It would make my pain a lot more bearable ngl
 
It would be a great cope
 
No. I don't care much about male virginity being mocked. If that was all the problem, just lying would solve it.

The problem is being a virgin in itself since we long for sex and romance + lack of recognition from a hypocritical society that recognizes pretty much any other disadvantage, like being from less privileged races, being a faggot, etc.
 
You just lie about it, nobody can actually prove otherwise.
 
You just lie about it, nobody can actually prove otherwise.
Yeah but once you’re fucking she’ll be able to tell unless you are a really good actor
It’s best to hope she never asks
 
Yeah but once you’re fucking she’ll be able to tell unless you are a really good actor
It’s best to hope she never asks
You just blame it on her loose snatch lol
 
You just blame it on her loose snatch lol
Or maybe pay a shit ton of money for a quality escort to teach you sex, do it a few times, git good, then go for regular women
But never tell them you lost your virginity to a prostitute
 
Or maybe pay a shit ton of money for a quality escort to teach you sex, do it a few times, git good, then go for regular women
But never tell them you lost your virginity to a prostitute
Of course, if you're going to lie about your sexual history just keep it plausible and you're good, making out like you're James Bond is what sets bullshit detectors off.
 
In Japan, the land of copes, men aren't as stigmatized and are able to dive into anime. In Slavland, apparently it means everything, so they slowly suicide via alcohol, which is why the Slavpill is arguably the most Brutal of all the racepills.

more brutal than currypill?
 
Your genes will still tell you something is wrong
 

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