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cripplecel
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I know everybody would still be disappointed that they couldn't get laid, but would you feel content if adult virginity was treated as a normal thing instead of something to be mocked and ridiculed? For me the most frustrating thing is that it's so stigmatized that being a virgin past a certain age is one of the reasons that foids will reject you, and it becomes a self-sustaining cycle. Not having sex isn't just not having sex, it's a a signifier that you have failed as a human being.
But that's not the way most other things work. I've known normies who have all sorts of problems that were never problems for me, except in their cases the problems weren't funny and they weren't self-sustaining because society doesn't stigmatize them. If you show up to a gym for the first time at age 30, they don't laugh you out of the building for not having figured out how to take care of yourself by then. If you apply for your first apartment well into adult-hood, you don't get denied on the basis that you were living with your parents for too long. You won't fail a driver's-licence test on the basis that the proctor thinks that anybody who's never driven a car is permanently incapable of doing so.
I don't think I'd be angry if it wasn't stigmatized this way. I'd be disappointed that I'm still a virgin, but I wouldn't have panic attacks every night or talk to myself like a schizophrenic or post on this forum. It would just be a problem that I have to figure out to get my life in order.
But that's not the way most other things work. I've known normies who have all sorts of problems that were never problems for me, except in their cases the problems weren't funny and they weren't self-sustaining because society doesn't stigmatize them. If you show up to a gym for the first time at age 30, they don't laugh you out of the building for not having figured out how to take care of yourself by then. If you apply for your first apartment well into adult-hood, you don't get denied on the basis that you were living with your parents for too long. You won't fail a driver's-licence test on the basis that the proctor thinks that anybody who's never driven a car is permanently incapable of doing so.
I don't think I'd be angry if it wasn't stigmatized this way. I'd be disappointed that I'm still a virgin, but I wouldn't have panic attacks every night or talk to myself like a schizophrenic or post on this forum. It would just be a problem that I have to figure out to get my life in order.