Workplace alienation

[LostSoulUK]

For over a year I've been treated like I'm nothin at work. Even if I'm in a room with other staff, I'm outright ignored or spoken down to. Today I was sat in the staff room like a ghost amongst other people. They all interact with each other and completely ignore me, they barely even give me eye contact. When I'm on duty the women sit together across the hall from me, I'm sat there by myself.

If I dare to speak up I'm patronised or spoken to abruptly like I'm being dismissed. I'm a friendly person, the boss said that I'm a lovely person and valued but they've got a funny way of showin it. I do my job to the best of my ability yet all I get is hostility. If I wasn't 5'5 with a big nose things would be different. There's some absolute land whales who are showered with praise and approval, how does that make sense. Some of them say I'm a nice person yet I'm treated with contempt.

Most of them barely say 2 words to me, including the men. Everywhere I've worked this has always been the case, then I go home and rot in my bedroom, it's honestly suicide fuel .

 

[Incel TV]

No alienation for your face

 

[Esoteric7]

What kind of job is it

 

[LostSoulUK]

What kind of job is it

teaching assistant which is predominantly female staff.

 

[Esoteric7]

teaching assistant which is predominantly female staff.

The major problem with teaching is that you'll see teenage couples which will remind you of the teen love you never had. Pure suifuel and not sustainable long-term

 

[ThisShitIsOva]

Relatable

 

[LostSoulUK]

The major problem with teaching is that you'll see teenage couples which will remind you of the teen love you never had. Pure suifuel and not sustainable long-term

ye I've been working with kids for a few years now so I've nailed my colours to the mask so to speak. I need a career change, something that will utilise my writing skills. Maybe something that combines both my experience and writing ability. At this rate, I'll be heading into my 40's as a sad desperate lonely man working with children amongst female staff.

 

[LostSoulUK]

I was called 'cute' today out of pity by some woman staff. She also tells the kids to listen to me which is complete undermining behaviour. I told her its not only me they don't listen to, its everyone else. But I'm the scapegoat, I'm the shy manlet with a nose like a pelican.

Before departing, 2 of them gave me a hug for new year. 1 of them was really reluctant, but she saw her 'bestie' hug me so she didn't want to appear mean. She was like 'go on then ill hug you' like it was an inconvenience to her. They not even attractive tbh, they assume all of us men should be privileged to be in the presence of their precious pussy. Not every woman is attractive to every man, yet they assume so based on our sub human looks.

 

[BornToLose]

I was called 'cute' today out of pity by some woman staff. She also tells the kids to listen to me which is complete undermining behaviour. I told her its not only me they don't listen to, its everyone else. But I'm the scapegoat, I'm the shy manlet with a nose like a pelican.

Before departing, 2 of them gave me a hug for new year. 1 of them was really reluctant, but she saw her 'bestie' hug me so she didn't want to appear mean. She was like 'go on then ill hug you' like it was an inconvenience to her. They not even attractive tbh, they assume all of us men should be privileged to be in the presence of their precious pussy. Not every woman is attractive to every man, yet they assume so based on our sub human looks.

All very brutal sounding.

 

[LostSoulUK]

All very brutal sounding.

Its the hope that kills us, we'll sometimes get glimmers that we fit in before we're brought back down to earth and reminded of our sub human paradox.

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

For over a year I've been treated like I'm nothin at work. Even if I'm in a room with other staff, I'm outright ignored or spoken down to. Today I was sat in the staff room like a ghost amongst other people. They all interact with each other and completely ignore me, they barely even give me eye contact. When I'm on duty the women sit together across the hall from me, I'm sat there by myself.

If I dare to speak up I'm patronised or spoken to abruptly like I'm being dismissed. I'm a friendly person, the boss said that I'm a lovely person and valued but they've got a funny way of showin it. I do my job to the best of my ability yet all I get is hostility. If I wasn't 5'5 with a big nose things would be different. There's some absolute land whales who are showered with praise and approval, how does that make sense. Some of them say I'm a nice person yet I'm treated with contempt.

Most of them barely say 2 words to me, including the men. Everywhere I've worked this has always been the case, then I go home and rot in my bedroom, it's honestly suicide fuel .

get out

These people dont give a shit about you

The words of herr derrrr your a lovely person bro are VIRTUE SIGNALLY NONSENSE

THE WHOLE CAKE IS HOW PEOPLE INTERACT WITH YOU, THIS IS THEIR REFLECTION OF THEIR VALUATION OF YOU.

EVERYTHING ELSE MEANS ZERO

Try different places UNTIL YOU MEET ONE PERSON WHO DOES GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU

THIS MAY TAKE SOME TIME AND IS LIKE PLAYING A REALLY SHIT VERSION OF THE LOTTERY

 

[Thaway]

Its the hope that kills us, we'll sometimes get glimmers that we fit in before we're brought back down to earth and reminded of our sub human paradox.

Yeah, it's this. Your brain starts pretending like you are not an ugly incel and just expects a normal life and normal interaction but then you get hit with a wave of negative shit eventually that harshly reminds you that you will never be accepted and never fit in. It's just better to stay away from it all.

 

[LostSoulUK]

get out

These people dont give a shit about you

The words of herr derrrr your a lovely person bro are VIRTUE SIGNALLY NONSENSE

THE WHOLE CAKE IS HOW PEOPLE INTERACT WITH YOU, THIS IS THEIR REFLECTION OF THEIR VALUATION OF YOU.

EVERYTHING ELSE MEANS ZERO

Try different places UNTIL YOU MEET ONE PERSON WHO DOES GIVE A SHIT ABOUT YOU

THIS MAY TAKE SOME TIME AND IS LIKE PLAYING A REALLY SHIT VERSION OF THE LOTTERY

brutal truth. The odd few are nice and it speaks volumes but they left. 1 was the cleaning lady. Even they said the staff are very rude and stuck up. I've had some really deep engaging chats with the odd few but the one's I work with directly treat me like a fuckin alien. In other jobs I was treated the same, sometimes bullied.

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

brutal truth. The odd few are nice and it speaks volumes but they left. 1 was the cleaning lady. Even they said the staff are very rude and stuck up. I've had some really deep engaging chats with the odd few but the one's I work with directly treat me like a fuckin alien. In other jobs I was treated the same, sometimes bullied.

This is a move that shows you dont rate them at all.

WHENEVER YOU SPEAK OR ARE IN THEIR VICINITY:
DONT EVER LOOK AT THEM OR IN THE EYE, IN FACT MAKE IT OBVIOUS YOUR AVOIDING LOOKING AT THEM.

SOMETIMES PRETEND NOT TO HEAR THEM WHEN THEY DIRECTLY SPEAK TO YOU AND BLANK THEM, ONLY DO THIS SOMETIMES, NOT OFTEN, BUT IT PUTS A HUGE DOUBT IN THEIR MIND IF YOUR FUCKING WITH THEM.

ACT LIKE EVERYTHING IS COMPLETELY NORMAL, EVEN WHEN ACTING LIKE A CUNT LIKE THE ABOVE, BE COMPLETELY PROFESSIONAL AND DO YOUR JOB FLAWLESSLY. THIS WILL COMPLETELY PISS OFF ANYONE YOU DO THIS TO.
WITHOUT HAVING ANY GROUNDS TO FIRE YOU, BECAUSE YOU HAVE SAID AND DONE ABSOLUTELY NOTHING, ITS JUST THE FACT THAT YOUR BULLYING THEM PSYCHOLOGICALLY BACK.

 

[AsiaCel]

For over a year I've been treated like I'm nothin at work. Even if I'm in a room with other staff, I'm outright ignored or spoken down to. Today I was sat in the staff room like a ghost amongst other people. They all interact with each other and completely ignore me, they barely even give me eye contact. When I'm on duty the women sit together across the hall from me, I'm sat there by myself.

If I dare to speak up I'm patronised or spoken to abruptly like I'm being dismissed. I'm a friendly person, the boss said that I'm a lovely person and valued but they've got a funny way of showin it. I do my job to the best of my ability yet all I get is hostility. If I wasn't 5'5 with a big nose things would be different. There's some absolute land whales who are showered with praise and approval, how does that make sense. Some of them say I'm a nice person yet I'm treated with contempt.

Most of them barely say 2 words to me, including the men. Everywhere I've worked this has always been the case, then I go home and rot in my bedroom, it's honestly suicide fuel .

Take that from a wagie; if your boss likes you and your coworkers dont care and mind you, then it's good, that means that they aren't plotting sneaky shit behind.

Most work relations are bullshit and political based anyway. You rly lost nothing by minimally interacting with them.

Just watch out for them

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

brutal truth. The odd few are nice and it speaks volumes but they left. 1 was the cleaning lady. Even they said the staff are very rude and stuck up. I've had some really deep engaging chats with the odd few but the one's I work with directly treat me like a fuckin alien. In other jobs I was treated the same, sometimes bullied.

I am also a fellow UK cel

Is it me or is the UK getting much much worse the last 5 years its COMPLETELY COLLAPSED SOCIALLY INTO A HUGE GAME OF SOCIAL ONEUPMANSHIP

 

[Coldone666]

The only way you will get any attention is by being loud and open and forcing them to notice you.

This is hard to do if your a mental cell though, if your ugly they also might not like it.

 

[LostSoulUK]

ye they all have status as well unlike me, I'm just a lonely degenerate from a crackhead council estate. People treat those with status so much better than outcasts in life.

Even moody arse mum's receive praise and validation. Someone was pregnant the other day and you know what the staff did? throw her a baby shower with food, cake, treats, all sorts of love and affection. They all do this for each other whether its someone's birthday and they attend each other's wedding's. I didn't even get invited to the christmas get together at some fancy restaurant, not that I wanna sit and eat dinner with these ignorant people but it's not a nice feeling to be unwanted.

Not 1 of these fuckers gives me the time of day. Maybe the odd few, but out of pity more than anything. When they interact with me it's the weirdest vibe, they don't even engage eye contact, abruptly instructing me or dismissing me. I'm in their staff whatsapp group but I don't post anything. I get constant notifications of them sucking each others dick "aww congratulations!!!"" shit like that basically. I'm so tired of not fitting in, people even say I'm a nice person with positive values yet I'm treated like a fuckin leper because of my jew nose and emasculate height.

 

[BornToLose]

ye they all have status as well unlike me, I'm just a lonely degenerate from a crackhead council estate. People treat those with status so much better than outcasts in life.

Even moody arse mum's receive praise and validation. Someone was pregnant the other day and you know what the staff did? throw her a baby shower with food, cake, treats, all sorts of love and affection. They all do this for each other whether its someone's birthday and they attend each other's wedding's. I didn't even get invited to the christmas get together at some fancy restaurant, not that I wanna sit and eat dinner with these ignorant people but it's not a nice feeling to be unwanted.

Not 1 of these fuckers gives me the time of day. Maybe the odd few, but out of pity more than anything. When they interact with me it's the weirdest vibe, they don't even engage eye contact, abruptly instructing me or dismissing me. I'm in their staff whatsapp group but I don't post anything. I get constant notifications of them sucking each others dick "aww congratulations!!!"" shit like that basically. I'm so tired of not fitting in, people even say I'm a nice person with positive values yet I'm treated like a fuckin leper because of my jew nose and emasculate height.

It's crazy cos I'd normally think of the kids being the assholes but the staff seem to be the worst.

 

[BornToLose]

It must be hard being a teachER thERe.

 

[Fifita]

Woke and MeToo education system is so corrupt

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

ye they all have status as well unlike me, I'm just a lonely degenerate from a crackhead council estate. People treat those with status so much better than outcasts in life.

Even moody arse mum's receive praise and validation. Someone was pregnant the other day and you know what the staff did? throw her a baby shower with food, cake, treats, all sorts of love and affection. They all do this for each other whether its someone's birthday and they attend each other's wedding's. I didn't even get invited to the christmas get together at some fancy restaurant, not that I wanna sit and eat dinner with these ignorant people but it's not a nice feeling to be unwanted.

Not 1 of these fuckers gives me the time of day. Maybe the odd few, but out of pity more than anything. When they interact with me it's the weirdest vibe, they don't even engage eye contact, abruptly instructing me or dismissing me. I'm in their staff whatsapp group but I don't post anything. I get constant notifications of them sucking each others dick "aww congratulations!!!"" shit like that basically. I'm so tired of not fitting in, people even say I'm a nice person with positive values yet I'm treated like a fuckin leper because of my jew nose and emasculate height.

weirdest vibe, they don't even engage eye contact, abruptly instructing me or dismissing me.

NOTICE WHAT I SAID TO YOU JUST LINES ABOVE:

WHENEVER YOU SPEAK OR ARE IN THEIR VICINITY:
DONT EVER LOOK AT THEM OR IN THE EYE, IN FACT MAKE IT OBVIOUS YOUR AVOIDING LOOKING AT THEM.

NOTICE WHY I SAID THIS, BECAUSE NORMIES KNOW ITS A FUCK YOU SIGN, WITHOUT SAYING ANYTHING, WITHOUT BEING CAUGHT.

This is the secret NORMIE CODE:
EVERYONE KNOWS TO FUCK SOMEONE OVER SOCIALLY YOU DONT LOOK AT THEM, THIS IS ONE OF THE BIGGEST NON VERBAL FUCK YOU'S YOU CAN DO TO SOMEONE AND IF REPEATED ITS LIKE A CONSTANT FUCK YOU, YOU MEAN NOTHING TO ME.

Just do it back bro, trial what i suggested

Yes the non invite to christmas party means, they also think you would reject, ND IS A PRE EMPTIVE STRIKE SOCIALLY SO YOU DON HAVE THE OPPORTUNITY TO REJECT THEM AND THEIR PARTY.

 

[Simulacrasimulation]

ye they all have status as well unlike me, I'm just a lonely degenerate from a crackhead council estate. People treat those with status so much better than outcasts in life.

Even moody arse mum's receive praise and validation. Someone was pregnant the other day and you know what the staff did? throw her a baby shower with food, cake, treats, all sorts of love and affection. They all do this for each other whether its someone's birthday and they attend each other's wedding's. I didn't even get invited to the christmas get together at some fancy restaurant, not that I wanna sit and eat dinner with these ignorant people but it's not a nice feeling to be unwanted.

Not 1 of these fuckers gives me the time of day. Maybe the odd few, but out of pity more than anything. When they interact with me it's the weirdest vibe, they don't even engage eye contact, abruptly instructing me or dismissing me. I'm in their staff whatsapp group but I don't post anything. I get constant notifications of them sucking each others dick "aww congratulations!!!"" shit like that basically. I'm so tired of not fitting in, people even say I'm a nice person with positive values yet I'm treated like a fuckin leper because of my jew nose and emasculate height.

Do you notice in UK it is getting worse, that if your not chad ITS LIKE, FUCK YOU, YOU DONT MEAN SHIT TO ME AND ILL STEP ON YOU AND TREAT YOU LIKE SHIT.

There is no other level of analysis ITS PURELY ON LOOKS NORMIES ASSESMENT OF MEN, NO ASSESMENT OF SKILL OR CHARACTER ITS PURELY ON LOOKS THATS IT.

 

[lifeisfucked215]

Working with women absolutely fucking sucks. All they do is gossip or kiss eachother ass, to the point it's cringeworthy. Working with men is 1000x better, not saying they can be perfect either but it's a lot better

 

[ldarshortcel]

For over a year I've been treated like I'm nothin at work. Even if I'm in a room with other staff, I'm outright ignored or spoken down to. Today I was sat in the staff room like a ghost amongst other people. They all interact with each other and completely ignore me, they barely even give me eye contact. When I'm on duty the women sit together across the hall from me, I'm sat there by myself.

If I dare to speak up I'm patronised or spoken to abruptly like I'm being dismissed. I'm a friendly person, the boss said that I'm a lovely person and valued but they've got a funny way of showin it. I do my job to the best of my ability yet all I get is hostility. If I wasn't 5'5 with a big nose things would be different. There's some absolute land whales who are showered with praise and approval, how does that make sense. Some of them say I'm a nice person yet I'm treated with contempt.

Most of them barely say 2 words to me, including the men. Everywhere I've worked this has always been the case, then I go home and rot in my bedroom, it's honestly suicide fuel .

Brutal, I feel that.
Have you considered surgery for your nose? Not that it would help much anyway.
There's nothing you can do, if you were dealt shit cards right from the beginning you simply cannot win in the game of life.

 

[XMR]

teaching assistant which is predominantly female staff.

It's because you're a pedo file

 

[LostSoulUK]

^ I'm not but nice slander.

I'm off now for 2 and half week, which isn't good for my mental health. Only a few of them wished me merry christmas which says everything. On my way out, most of them didn't even have the courtesy to wish me well over christmas, not a single fuckin word. 1 of them gave me a dirty look, like wtf is your problem, I do my job yet I receive this hostility. And they're not even attractive, yet they still look down on me. Just because I'm quiet and I have a jew nose and I'm short. I've considered a nose job but it's 10 thousand here in UK, that's my life savings.

Body language speaks volumes, they can't even be arsed to wish me well over christmas. I've never worked with more rude ignorant people than this in my life. Its always the case regardless but I've worked in more friendlier places. If your perceived indifferent your treated as such. I'm perceived as someone with asperger's as I have the characteristics, I'm extremely shy and introverted but it's more social anxiety based.