Women feel pain during their first time, lots of pain during childbirth, etc. If you think about it, they kinda have to be masochists, or else they wouldn't even fuck anyone. The thought that women want a caring nice guy is 100% projection because that's what most men want from women. A caring, cute girl that loves him and treats him well.
A normie friend told me his ex liked him to fuck her out of nowhere, before doing any warm up or anything previously. This way, her pussy would be dry and she would feel pain. Female nature is repulsive.